The easiest thing to do is distract yourself. And harming yourself is not in the question. Listen to music, work out, watch tv, talk to people. These will keep you from thinking about your past and ultimately improve your mood.
You heal the trauma. You have to work through it. That's the only way you will stop thinking about it. However if it's a death, you may never stop thinking about it all together, it's just something we have to live with. and that's perfectly normal.
For me, listening to edm music helps me not think about things I don't want to think about. I also draw and do other things I enjoy to help me feel better.
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July 14th, 2015 8:10pm
When tragedy occurs, it's definitely difficult to stop thinking about it. Sometimes it can overwhelm us, and we think about it everyday. Although you cannot erase it from your memory, you can stop thinking about it less and less over time. Our Traumatic Experiences guide encourages you to write an "Impact Statement", delineating how the trauma/tragedy has affected you, whether you feel guilt, and how your beliefs and behaviours might have changed. This helps identify "stuck points", which may be contributing to thinking about the traumatic experience/tragedy. Sorting through your difficulties that are a result of the tragedy can help your mind find some release, and ultimately help you stop thinking about that night.