How do I keep myself from dwelling on things that I can't change, or that I realistically have no control over?

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Last Updated: 06/27/2017 at 10:09pm
How do I keep myself from dwelling on things that I can't change, or that I realistically have no control over?
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UtopianMidgardianSanctuary
June 25th, 2016 8:32am
To keep oneself from dwelling on things is to be mindful and to realize that you may not change happenings but you can manage how to react to such.
MaeveTheBrave
June 26th, 2016 6:24am
Try to distract yourself more often with fun activities that you enjoy, and surround yourself with people you like.
kindheart14
July 13th, 2016 6:10am
Once u know that u have no control over those things, why should u dwell on? As it is common feeling, u should take control of ur mind and thoughts on such situations. It takes time to practice the act. Once u start controlling ur mind and negative thoughts u will never have that bad feeling
HannahCaradonnnaMSW
October 20th, 2016 6:04pm
It sounds like you have anxiety. There are many things you can do to work on that. Check out the self-help guides about anxiety.
Anonymous
August 8th, 2016 6:20pm
I look to the future, look forward to things that I will appreciate. I also look at the past- at problems I had very little control over but still overcame.
ashleymariex
April 4th, 2017 9:47pm
Live with the moment! It is life and stressing over the little things will just make the little time on this earth less enjoyable. Enjoy every second and find healthy ways of coping through the bad moments. Stay Strong, Life may be hard, but it's life.
brightside62
June 27th, 2017 10:09pm
If there is truly nothing I can do about a situation, then I shift my focus to something I can control, which may be as simple as breathing. For me, yoga practice is a great way to shift my state of mind and bring myself back to my breath.