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Let's discuss issues
by pandanfe
Last post
 August 24th
...See more What are the adult issues that you would like to discuss? 
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20+ Automated Taglist!
by tommy
Last post
 April 20th
...See more Welcome to the 20+ Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of 29th July (updated by @tommy) @azuladragon34 @Dawnie0203 @forcefulThinker186 @HarmonyBlossom @Racey08 @Rainer111 @TannDee @tommy
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Great news - Work tentatively acquired
by comfortingmusician08
Last post
 September 1st
...See more Hard boundary: Please refrain from asking personal questions. I don't want to be rude but I also don't want to dox myself here. As perhaps many of you know and/or have experienced, the market is very tough even for entry-level stuff right now. Add other factors/stressors and whatnot on top of the job search and things become even more difficult -- though the search by itself is already hard enough, for lack of better terms. It's general labor stuff in a small restaurant and I'm starting part-time and eventually transition to full-time just to get back in the swing of things and being on my feet again. I'm just happy to have some sense of stability/routine again. The timing works out well too, with my 24th birthday coming up soon.  
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24.
by comfortingmusician08
Last post
 August 18th
...See more 'nother year done. We'll see if this one runs a little smoother (I hope it does).  Happy birthday to any of my birthday twins too :))
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Optional Check-in thread!
by comfortingmusician08
Last post
 August 5th
...See more What's something that has gone well? What are you looking forward to? How have you been ensuring self-care?
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How would you describe adulting in a sentence?
by trueconfidant123
Last post
 July 30th
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I have friends, a partner, a cat, and family, but I still feel lonely.
by tidySpring9329
Last post
 June 10th
...See more I don’t feel like I have a support network. My friends have other friends who are much closer to them, so we only meet up from time to time. In my family, I only really have my cousin, but she isn’t doing well either. My partner doesn’t understand me; he doesn’t like seeing me upset, and in his desperation, he tries to fix everything before fully listening to me. So in the end, all I have is my cat.
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Martial Arts, anyone?
by comfortingmusician08
Last post
 June 9th
...See more Curious if anyone here practices a martial art or dabbles in a few, lol. I do Wing Chun [https://youtu.be/l7njpmxQxUc?si=kKFnG8SP1AOHzJNW] very casually as a hobby, still very much so figuring things out and not nearly as fluent as what you'll see in that video and many others. I tried boxing and BJJ in the past but found it to be too fast-paced for my liking.
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Trauma Bonding.
by songsoftheRain
Last post
 May 25th
...See more Anyone who has faced trauma bonding? 
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Racism and hatred toward an ethnicity
by imaginativeFarm9697
Last post
 May 20th
...See more I feel wounded after reading the comments and questions on reddit and Quora.  It said that all Indians smell like ***. They all are stinky and smell weird. Indians are the stinkiest on the planet. I don't feel like stepping out of my house and meeting any new people. What if they are the same as the critics. I am scared and anxious. I feel like hiding myself in a closet or dying as I am one the people that have caused this hate.
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20+ Automated Taglist!
by tommy
Last post
 April 20th
...See more Welcome to the 20+ Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of 29th July (updated by @tommy) @azuladragon34 @Dawnie0203 @forcefulThinker186 @HarmonyBlossom @Racey08 @Rainer111 @TannDee @tommy
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Hi, I'm a 20 year old, and I'm wondering how you find a damn passion haha.
by Andrenloland
Last post
 February 16th
...See more Would you like to talk about it? I'd especially like to know how you reconciled passion and work, and above all if you enjoyed it. 
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Sunday Reset Ritual
by resilience2025
Last post
 December 3rd, 2025
...See more Heyyyyaaaa Heyyyyyaaaa Heyyyyyyaaaa Awesome Souls! Shall I say more heys so that these lovely beings can feel something within, get over the numbness and come forward to strike up a conversation with me?  Nobody wants to be my friend🥹I feel like I am alone in this journey of navigating adulthood (munching French fries with cries) We are starting a new week friend and here's to our Sunday Reset Ritual because we are not entering it with a fried nervous system and zero tabs closed.  Now ask yourself. - What are you releasing from the last week? - What are you carrying into the next week? Then set your intention for the next week in 3 words only.  I will go first.  I will release that one awkward moment I kept replaying in my mind. I will carry confidence in baby steps.  The 3-word intention: Peace, progress and power  What's yours? Come on, writing is the first step to making it happen.  Regards,  Resilience (Resii)💕 Your Love Giving Forum Supporter 
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Moments That Made You Blush
by LanaAfterDark
Last post
 November 17th, 2025
...See more What’s a moment in the past week that made you blush, smile, or feel unexpectedly warm inside? I love hearing the little things that brighten someone’s day

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