Understanding Addiction
What do you mean by Addiction?
It is a compulsive, chronic, physiological or psychological need for a habit-forming substance, behavior, or activity having harmful physical, psychological, or social effects and typically causing well-defined symptoms (such as anxiety, irritability, tremors, or nausea) upon withdrawal or abstinence : the state of being addicted.
What are some common symptoms of Addictions?
Some common symptoms of Addictions are:
1.Activities centering on the addiction in a way that negatively affects relationships, school, and work.
2.A preoccupation with the addiction and spending a lot of time on planning, engaging in, and recovering from the addictive behavior.
3.Changes in energy, such as being unexpectedly and extremely tired or energetic.
4.Difficulty cutting down or controlling the addictive behavior.
5.Extreme mood changes
6.Physical changes including increased illness and changes in weight
7.Sleeping a lot more or less than usual, or at different times of the day or night.
8.Tolerance, which involves the need to engage in the addictive behavior more and more to get the desired effect.
9.Withdrawal, when the person does not take the substance or engage in the activity/don't do the thing which they are addicted to, they may experience unpleasant symptoms.
How might addiction affect our day to day lives?
-Problems at school/university or work — frequently missing school or work, a sudden disinterest in school activities or work, or a drop in grades or work performance.
-Physical health issues — lack of energy and motivation, excessive energy, weight loss or gain, or red eyes, vomiting, seizures
-Neglected appearance — lack of interest in clothing, grooming or looks.
-Changes in behavior — exaggerated efforts to bar family members from entering their room or being secretive about where they go with friends; or drastic changes in behavior and in relationships with family and friends etc.
What are the some ways in which we can try to break the cycle of Addiction and go towards the path of recovery from Addiction?
Breaking the cycle of addiction can be frightening. One of the most vital aspects of abstaining from an addiction is by having a solid support system. Tell your friends and family that you are actively working on recovering from your addiction and ask for support in doing so. Sometimes that may be having them hold you accountable, other times it may be having the option to call them when struggling with the cravings. Try making friends who are also in recovery through different types of support groups or activities. You don’t need or deserve to go through this alone.
Establishing a plan for when the cravings get strong is also incredibly important. Here are a few suggestions. Feel free to reply with any additional ideas!
-Have a phone list available at all times of who you can reach out to for support
-Attend events that don’t involve the substance or activity that you’re addicted to
-Make a list of coping mechanisms to help you get through the cravings (examples: reading, journaling/writing, video games, strength training, going for a run, yoga, calling a friend)
-Reaching out here on 7Cups to a listener
-Attending meetings
Remember, struggling with an addiction does not make you weak or a bad person. As mentioned earlier in the post, it’s not a choice. If you slip into old behaviors, that’s normal.Try not to be too hard on yourself; you’ve still made progress! The most important part is focusing on learning what triggered the slip or relapse and working on finding ways to cope with those triggers.
What support groups are available?
-Anonymous Meetings (AA, NA, CA, etc.)
-S.M.A.R.T Recovery Learn more Here
-7Cups Addiction Groups as well as the forums
Some Resources which might be helpful in our fight against addiction-
Samsha
Daily strength
Very well mind
USA.govt
7Cups Resources:
-Recovery Phone Apps
-In Person/Online Support Group Library
-Staying Safe While Celebrating
We are aware this fight is tough but always remember you are not alone in this we are here for you and we are in this together! ❤️
A song for you all which may make your day and help you to keep fighting - Hero- Mariah Carey
Written by @InternalAcceptance and @Bright7Cups
@InternalAcceptance
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@Bright7cups
thanks for tagging me 😊 it was a very good read 💖 and I definitely learnt somethings
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@Bright7cups
Thank you for tagging me and thank you for making this beautiful post, I appreciate it a lot ❤️
@Bright7cups thank you for tagging me ☺️
Thank you i will look into this
@InternalAcceptance
Thank you for raising awareness and helping people to get through this, it is never easy, but your words might help people.
And to whoever is reading this post and struggling with addiction: I know you can do it, even when it seems impossible 💜
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@Bright7cups
Hi Acceptance and Bright! 😊❤️ Many thanks for the great forum post as well as the tag! This was really informative and I learned a lot! *high fives* 😊 and big *hugs* ❤️
@InternalAcceptance
Very fine post. And the dilemma - what to do with persons who does not want to get helped - who over and over again share here (at sharing circle) that they are drunk, take narcotics - persons say over and over again - stop drinking and taking pills - and nothing helps.......
@Helgafy That's a good question. Recovery is a very personal thing and not everyone is at a place where they want to address their addiction or are able to leave their environment that is contributing to it. It's important that we still allow space for members who are under the influence or still active in their addiction as long as they are not being disruptive. Often times, even just showing up to a group is an acknowledgement that there is a problem, which is a huge first step. Telling an addict to just "stop" isn't an effective way to get them to. If they are being disruptive during a group, redirect them back to the topic after validating their experience and holding space for them.
@InternalAcceptance
Thank you so much! Such a good and wise answer. I have seen the mod say when they disturbed the sharing of another member, "nn" "Mr. X" is sharing now.
@InternalAcceptance @Bright7Cups
Thanks for the tag, Bright. 😊
This is such a well explained post, really appreciate y'all taking the time to make this, including so many useful resources as well. Great job! ❤
@InternalAcceptance
This is great. Thank you!
@InternalAcceptance
This was such a great post, and it had a lot of insightful information. Thank you so much for sharing! 😊
@InternalAcceptance
Thank you for this post! We all have addicts in our lives in one way of another. They need and deserve our love and compassion.
@InternalAcceptance and @Bright7cups
amazing post - I love the work that’s went into this.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us ☺️👍❤️