Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Lav's updates thread

User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere December 14th, 2021

I'll post here if I'm going on a break or something else that might affect my availability on 7Cups because it's easier for me to keep track this way. You’re more than welcome to reply if you’d like<3

128
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP December 14th, 2021

Some of you might have seen this coming, but even if not, here you go.

For reasons I can't specify or disclose on 7Cups, I'm going on a short break. A complete break from everything related to 7Cups so you won't see me answering PMs, in chatrooms or forums. That reminds me if you tag me in a forum and it's urgent, please pm it as well since I might miss the tag.
I will also be inactive from the team dashes during my break.

I am not putting my account on self-care break so you'll still be able to drop messages, but I'll only reply to them once I'm back.

I am going on a break tonight. From 15th Dec I won’t be answering PMs or be around.
I'll return on the 19th of December.

My sincerest apologies for the very short notice period.

Please don't ask about the reason I'm taking the break. For any other questions, or assistance, my pms are open and I'll get back to you once I return.
If there is an urgent query or concern regarding the VL or CT, please feel free to PM any of the other leaders.

Tagging-
Care team leads- @Mango3 @courageousheart96
CT teen guides and trainees- @bubblingSea6361 @considerateParadise6717 @empatheticLavender2924 @LisaListens2ugladly @kkea @mamtasha22 @sia1325 @SoftFaith2004 @whenitsdarklookforstars @lemonicecreamcake @LinaMoon @Moonlemon48 @MyNameIsNicole

VL team leads- @BubblegumWings1234 @rachsxo @SweetDreamer69

R&F team leads- @CheeryMango @ouiCherie

Also tagging @Izzy274 @tami150

Please feel free to tag anyone you think should know about the break.

6 replies
User Profile: LinaMoon
LinaMoon December 14th, 2021

@empatheticLavender2924 Take care friend <3

User Profile: SoftFaith2004
SoftFaith2004 December 15th, 2021

@empatheticLavender2924 Don't worry lav, we understand! ❤ Have a nice break and don't over think about anything, we all love you ❤ We are all here for you ❤ Have a nice day! ❤

User Profile: rachsxo
rachsxo December 15th, 2021

@empatheticLavender2924 thank you for letting me know! I hope everything is ok, and that your break is refreshing and relaxing. Take care! <3

User Profile: Moonlemon48
Moonlemon48 December 15th, 2021

@empatheticLavender2924 Thank you for letting us know lav. I hope the break helps. I will see you very soon❣️I will also poke you when you're back👀xD okay take good care❤🦋

User Profile: Izzy274
Izzy274 December 15th, 2021

@empatheticLavender2924


Ahh thank you for tagging me Lav :)

I hope you have a good break and can relax a little <3 and see you on the 19th when you're back! :)

I hope that taking a little time out feels good for you (:

User Profile: lemonicecreamcake
lemonicecreamcake December 15th, 2021

@empatheticLavender2924

Take care! Have a nice break :) wait for your comeback soon!

load more
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP December 19th, 2021

Thank you so much everyone for your lovely wishes!!
I'm returning now hehe- can't wait to see y'all around.
Gonna be active again in the dashes, and lots of catching up to do in the forums hehe
And of course my PMs are open for any queries.

Tagging-

Care team leads- @Mango3 @courageousheart96
CT teen guides and trainees- @bubblingSea6361 @considerateParadise6717 @empatheticLavender2924 @LisaListens2ugladly @kkea @mamtasha22 @sia1325 @SoftFaith2004 @whenitsdarklookforstars @lemonicecreamcake @LinaMoon @Moonlemon48 @MyNameIsNicole

VL team leads- @BubblegumWings1234 @rachsxo @SweetDreamer69

R&F team leads- @CheeryMango @ouiCherie

Also tagging @Izzy274 @tami150

11 replies
User Profile: courageousheart96
courageousheart96 December 19th, 2021

Welcome back 🙏

Little lav 💜💜💜💜💜

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP December 20th, 2021

@courageousheart96

Glad to be back hehe...thank you for the welcome!

load more
User Profile: ouiCherie
ouiCherie December 20th, 2021

@empatheticLavender2924

Yay! Glad to have you back Lav! Hope you got a nice & refreshing break 💜💜💜

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP December 20th, 2021

@ouiCherie

Glad to see y'all around, and the break was okie, thank you!

load more
User Profile: SoftFaith2004
SoftFaith2004 December 20th, 2021

@empatheticLavender2924 Welcome back! Glad to have you here again 💕

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP December 20th, 2021

@SoftFaith2004

Thank you Faith, Glad to see you around too!

load more
User Profile: Moonlemon48
Moonlemon48 December 20th, 2021

@empatheticLavender2924 Welcome back amazing lav! ❤✨

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP December 20th, 2021

@Moonlemon48 Thank you so much amazing Lemon!!

load more
User Profile: LinaMoon
LinaMoon December 20th, 2021

@empatheticLavender2924 Glad you're back!!

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP December 21st, 2021

@LinaMoon

Thank you, glad to be back too!

load more
load more
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP January 12th, 2022

Hello everyone, I hope you are healthy. And happy too hehe. Right now I'm unable to update my bio (will do so when I am able to use my laptop) so I'm telling here, and also because I thought I'd let everyone know.

I'm taking an indefinite break. I am not sure when I'll be back but it will be in less than a week if things go as I hope.

Taking a break because my whole family now has COVID, and don't worry it's mild and is mostly recovered for me. But just gotta help out handling stuff.

So I'll be inactive from team dashes mostly, and will reply to pms with a delay. I might not reply timely to any forum posts (including replies to this post).

Tagging a few people who need to know-(though you might already be aware)

@Livingtohelplive @soso28 @Mango3 @courageousheart96 @Chevy81 @BubblegumWings1234 @rachsxo @Izzy274

5 replies
User Profile: Mango3
Mango3 January 12th, 2022

@LavenderHere Take your time to get better <3 We will miss you

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP January 15th, 2022

@Mango3 Missed you too, and yay thank you.

load more
User Profile: Chevy81
Chevy81 January 12th, 2022

@LavenderHere thank you letting us know. wishing you and the whole family to feel better and fully recovered soon. the dashes will miss you but i will miss you moreee *sending more entertainment packages to your front door*

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP January 15th, 2022

@Chevy81 Awww dashes have been poked, and I'll see you soon too. Missed you but entertainments helped a lot hehe- thank you for them!😮

load more
User Profile: rachsxo
rachsxo January 12th, 2022

@LavenderHere thank you for letting us know-- I wish you and your family a speedy recovery!

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP January 15th, 2022

@rachsxo Thank you so much for your lovely wishes!

load more
User Profile: Izzy274
Izzy274 January 12th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Ahh Lav, thank you for letting us know (:

I hope you (and your family) all feel better soon, and it's great to hear that covid was mild for you!

Hopefully I can poke your pms again soon when you're back, but take all the time you need to feel better and get some rest!

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP January 15th, 2022

@Izzy274 No worries at all, and I'm back here so you can poke me hehe. And thank you for your wishes😮

load more
load more
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP January 15th, 2022

Short post- Thank you so much everyone for your lovely wishes, all of us have mostly recovered now. I am back in action, a little less than before but surely back here. Can't wait to see you all again, and thank you so much again! (offers thank you cookies)
@Mango3 @courageousheart96 @Chevy81 @BubblegumWings1234 @rachsxo @Izzy274

2 replies
User Profile: Chevy81
Chevy81 January 15th, 2022

hey, Lav so glad to hear that all of yous have mostly recovered. welcome back in action! *nibbles cookies* thank you for the thank you cookies *leaves trails of cookies crumbs everywhere, kindly and politely hands you a broom* @LavenderHere

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP January 15th, 2022

@Chevy81 Smhhhh *cleans the crumbs, gives you the broom and eats more cookies and leaves more crumbs😮😛* Glad to see you hehe

load more
load more
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP January 15th, 2022

Another update for practically everyone- I've decided to cut down the time I spend here for obvious reasons- wanna focus on offline life, get a little less addicted and all hehe
So basically I'm still active here on all roles and mentoring and member chats- no changes there. My pms are still open to any questions. But I will be around in the TL a little less.
Another change will be that I'll change my response time to within 48 hours. I'll still try to answer all PMs at the earliest, and team members might get a quicker response. But I will be unable to respond to all PMs within 24 hours like I used to so I'll be changing that.
I'll still try my best to answer PMs early, but it'll be slower than usual and max within 48 hours. That might give me some more time to myself hehe.
I hope everyone understands. I'm putting that change in my bio too, but here's a heads up to everyone for the same.
No tags here.

User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP February 15th, 2022

I'm trying not to sugarcoat anything or seek support; but posting stuff like this from a listener account, it's never easy to maintain a balance.

Let's just say I have been having a very difficult time mental-health wise and there are multiple difficult deadlines at the moment. So a lot of stuff going on. I thought hard about the boundaries and things I need to balance. I am not considering a full break or time off, there's a long story why I'm be unable to do that.
However I might be delaying responding to PMs or not be on the dash regularly or get stuff done promptly. I'm still trying my very best so I request everyone, especially the lovely people tagged below to be very patient with me as I try to catch up with stuff.
For time reference deadlines shouldn't take me more than 2 weeks, but can't say the same for my worsening mental health. My sincerest apologies the subsequent problems and delays, but it was high time for me to make this post. Please know I am trying my best to get stuff done.

Tagging a few team leaders whom I speak to frequently-
@BubblegumWings1234 @Mango3 @courageousheart96 @SweetDreamer69 @mamtasha22 @rachsxo
Please do not hesitate in reaching out to me in PMs for anything. I might delay but I'll surely reply.

3 replies
User Profile: courageousheart96
courageousheart96 February 15th, 2022

Thank you for letting us know lav. Take your time.

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP February 15th, 2022

@courageousheart96 Thank you for your response, and I will try💜

load more
load more
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 9th, 2022

My sincerest apologies for the short notice, but I'm taking a self care break. There is some real life stuff that needs to be managed, it's a bit urgent. I will surely be back on/before Friday 13th May. In the meantime, you are all welcome to drop me a message if needed but I can't say I'll be able to respond timely. (I am not deactivating the account.)
Tagging a few team leaders and friends-
@Mango3 @rachsxo @SkylarListens @mamtasha22 @MelodyOfTheOcean @SweetDreamer69 @Chevy81 @ouiCherie @Victor04
Apologies if I missed someone or tagged someone who didn't want to be tagged<3
I will also be inactive on the team dashboards. Take care everyone<3

5 replies
User Profile: SkylarListens
SkylarListens May 9th, 2022

Wishing you all the best Lav, im always around if you need anything ❤

3 replies
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 9th, 2022

@SkylarListens thanks a lot<3<3

2 replies
User Profile: SkylarListens
SkylarListens May 9th, 2022

No worries, you do so much for this community and this break is well deserved. Take as long as you need <3

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 9th, 2022

@SkylarListens you too Sky, you do a lot too<3

load more
load more
load more
User Profile: MelodyoftheOcean
MelodyoftheOcean May 9th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Take your time Lav, I hope you are okay. You really deserve that break. *hugs offered* and if you ever want to talk I am here ♥️

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 13th, 2022

@MelodyoftheOcean thanks a lot, I am ok now<3 *hugs back* thank you so much for always being so supportive!

load more
User Profile: Victor04
Victor04 May 9th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Have a good break, dear friend. I hope you can manage whatever has made you take this break. See you again soon. 😊💖

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 13th, 2022

@Victor04 aww thank you, and it has been handled to a great extent, thanks to your wishes hehe<3

load more
User Profile: ouiCherie
ouiCherie May 9th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Take your time Lav 💜 it's always good to take a break every now and then. I hope you'll get a nice break to focus on whatever it is. You've got this! 🤗

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 13th, 2022

@ouiCherie thank you so much for understanding, and break was pretty hectic (yeah irl things can make a break hectic lol) but things are handled hehe<3

load more
User Profile: Chevy81
Chevy81 May 9th, 2022

@LavenderHere thank you for letting us know, Lav. hope all things will be sorted out well. take your time, my PM is open for you when needed <3 take care

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 13th, 2022

@Chevy81 *bring thank you cookies* sorted to a great extent and I'm better now<3 Not completely sorted, still stuff to take care of but I got this hehe. Thank you so much for your support<3

load more
User Profile: HealingBrokenWIngs
HealingBrokenWIngs May 9th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Take good care Lav. Hope this helps you!! <3

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 13th, 2022

@HealingBrokenWIngs thank you so much, and looking back it did indeed help<3

load more
load more
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 13th, 2022

Back in action today! (13th like I said hehe). Basically stuff had kicked in (uni situations, exams and more), and I really wasn't doing okay. But now it's all a lot more sorted thankfully. I'm glad I took the break and happy to be back<3 Doing much better now, slowly getting around to pms and tags I missed hehe. I hope you all are doing well<3
Tagging a few team leaders and friends-
@Mango3 @rachsxo @SkylarListens @mamtasha22 @MelodyOfTheOcean @SweetDreamer69 @Chevy81 @ouiCherie @Victor04
Apologies if I missed someone or tagged someone who didn't want to be tagged<3

4 replies
User Profile: Chevy81
Chevy81 May 13th, 2022

@LavenderHere welcome back, Lav. so happy to hear that most of the things are sorted out and you feel better. yaaay *nibbles the cookies* thank youuuu

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 13th, 2022

@Chevy81 I'm happy to be back hehe!

load more
User Profile: SkylarListens
SkylarListens May 13th, 2022

Good to have you back, Lav! <3

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP May 13th, 2022

@SkylarListens yay good to be back and see you around<3

load more
load more
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP June 15th, 2022

Hey everyone!
I couldn't have thought of a more counterintuitive day to make a "Hey I'm going on a break" post. As many might know, my exams ended today (yay) and I was so so so looking forward to annoying everyone here (aka getting stuff done) but as chance would have it, I'm kind of going on a short break.
I'll be around answering pms for sure (within 48 hours) and I'll host stuff normally, but it is unlikely that I'll be able to show my usual excited(?) involvement in my roles and teams, for a week at least. The reason for this break is my messed up physical health, been kind of ill since the past week (which messed up with my fun plans hehe) but it's okie me will be back to annoying everyone here soon. For now, cya and stay happy. Take care!
I'll just tag a few leaders I'm working with at the moment, and a few friends- please be a bit patient with me as I rest and get better, and me will be back to energetic Lav mode soon!
(I'm hoping to be back by 25th so please don't mark me as on self care, it's okay)💖

@Mango3 @Harsvin @Chevy81 @MelodyofTheOcean I'll be active in the LCT and CT as normal, do as much as possible.
@rachsxo @theriverissinging @BubblegumWings1234 and @OuiCherie please excuse me being a bit too slow with stuff for this week💜
@SuryanshSingh @amazingNutella24 I'll be active in responding to messages, but might not be able to get stuff done quickly enough. My apologies.
My dear friends @considerateParadise6717 @CommunityModEden and @Rose644 if you can't see me around in TL enough, this is the reason hehe.

14 replies
User Profile: Harsvin
Harsvin June 15th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Thanks for the tag, Lav ❤ I wish you a lovely break and get well soon. Proud of you for giving your health a priority. Please take care ❤

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP June 15th, 2022

@Harsvin thank you so much!!!

load more
User Profile: MelodyoftheOcean
MelodyoftheOcean June 15th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Hey Lav! Thank you for letting us know, and there is no pressure on the Care Team. Your health is, and always will be, first priority. I wish you all the very best, and that you are getting better soon to be able to make it to your fun plans! Take caree 💜

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP June 16th, 2022

@MelodyoftheOcean Melody thank you so much for that, and I'll hopefully get well soon hehe, prioritising my health after so long<3 You too take care!

load more
User Profile: SkylarListens
SkylarListens June 15th, 2022

Enjoy your break, your physical health needs to come first! Get well soon <3

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP June 16th, 2022

@SkylarListens thank you so much, and it's hard to enjoy breaks when ill hehe. (But I'll try to xD)

load more
User Profile: CommunityModEden
CommunityModEden June 15th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Thank you for letting us know Lav! So proud of you for putting your health first. Sending lots of healing beams ❤️ Can't wait to see you back in TL!!

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP June 16th, 2022

@CommunityModEden Thank youuuuu and me can't wait to return to TL too!! *noms the beams hehe*

load more
User Profile: ouiCherie
ouiCherie June 16th, 2022

Hi Lav @LavenderHere

Thank you for letting us aware and thumbs up for taking the much needed rest 🤍 praying for your speed recovery, Lav! *hugs*


1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP June 16th, 2022

@ouiCherie Cherie yayyy for thumbs up and thank you so much for your prayers *hugs back*<3

load more
User Profile: Chevy81
Chevy81 June 16th, 2022

@LavenderHere thank you for letting me know, Lava. feel better soon *sending healing beams*

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP June 16th, 2022

@Chevy81 Thank you for the beams Chevy!!! And hopefully I will get well real quick (because I gotta return to annoy you xD)<3

load more
User Profile: theriverissinging
theriverissinging June 16th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Yay for exams ending! I hope things improve and you feel better ❤️ and noted, no rush with cups stuff

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP June 16th, 2022

@theriverissinging Thank you for your patience River!! And I hope so too, and yay finally exams ended!!

load more
load more
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP June 29th, 2022

Hey everyone!

I wish I could return early from the break. My health is better than earlier, thank you for all your lovely wishes. But as some of you might know, I'm travelling. And I don't have enough internet access to use the dashes or docs or forums properly so I'll be inactive pretty much everywhere. I also won't be available for any live chats with listeners or members due to scheduling difficulty. (Exception unless it's scheduled stuff but even in that case there might be a lot of delay.)
Please excuse me for delays in replying to PMs.

I sincerely apologise for all the inconvenience. I'll be back by 15th July for sure. In the meantime I'll be answering pms but not tags.

Take care everyone and have an awesome day.

Tagging a few @ASilentObserver @rachsxo @Mango3 @Harsvin @Chevy81 @SkylarListens @MelodyOfTheOcean @EmmaE (for LLD) @amazingNutella24 @SuryanshSingh @theriverissinging and @Ouicherie My sincerest apologies to you all for any delays in being unable to meet quotas.

8 replies
User Profile: SkylarListens
SkylarListens June 29th, 2022

No worries Lav, enjoy your travels! You deserve this extended break ❤

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP June 29th, 2022

@SkylarListens Thanks a lot!

load more
User Profile: ouiCherie
ouiCherie June 29th, 2022

@LavenderHere

No worries Lav! Whats most important for now is... enjoy the trip! 😀🤗

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP July 17th, 2022

@ouiCherie I did. Thank you so much!!

load more
User Profile: Harsvin
Harsvin June 30th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Thanks for letting us know, Lavender ❤ Have a safe trip and looking forward to seeing you soon.


1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP July 17th, 2022

@Harsvin hey hey thank you, and I'm back! Looking forward to seeing you around<3

load more
User Profile: Chevy81
Chevy81 June 30th, 2022

@LavenderHere have a safe and nice travels Lav ❤️ thank you for notifying us. take care, looking forward to have you back

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP July 17th, 2022

@Chevy81 Thank you so much!! *sends over cookies* hehe

load more
User Profile: MelodyoftheOcean
MelodyoftheOcean June 30th, 2022

@LavenderHere

I wish you all the very best and I hope you are okay. Please don't be sorry that you might not reach any quotas, but enjoy the time of and make the best of it!

We'll gladly welcome you once you are back, but take all the time you need ❤️

3 replies
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP July 17th, 2022

@MelodyoftheOcean Thank you so much for that! I'm back now<3

2 replies
User Profile: MelodyoftheOcean
MelodyoftheOcean July 18th, 2022

@LavenderHere

It's very nice to have you back, I hope you enjoyed your break! ❤️

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP July 19th, 2022

@MelodyoftheOcean thank you so much, and I did<3

load more
load more
load more
User Profile: HealingBrokenWIngs
HealingBrokenWIngs July 11th, 2022

@LavenderHere

Take care!! Hope to see you soon!! <3

1 reply
User Profile: LavenderHere
LavenderHere OP July 17th, 2022

@HealingBrokenWIngs Thanks, and *flies to poke your PMs*

load more
load more