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The situation of not being able to express how you feel program day 3

📅 Day 3: The Emotion Wheel (Expanding Your Vocabulary)

​Welcome to Day 3. Now that we know our bodies are sending us signals, we need to talk about the language we use to decode them.

​When people ask how we are, most of us default to a few basic words: "Good," "Bad," "Fine," or "Stressed." But these words are like looking at a beautiful painting through a foggy window. They don't give us the real picture.

​To overcome the silence, we have to expand our emotional vocabulary. There is a famous psychological tool called the Emotion Wheel. It starts with basic emotions in the center (like Angry, Sad, Scared, Joyful) and branches out into specific words. For example:

• ​Underneath Anger, you might actually be feeling frustrated, distant, or let down.

• ​Underneath Sadness, you might actually be feeling lonely, disappointed, or guilty.

​When you find the exact word, something magical happens: the chaos in your brain starts to settle down.

​🔍 Deep Dive Explanation

​Why is specificity so important? Because the brain handles specific problems much better than vague ones. If you just feel "bad," your brain doesn't know how to fix it. But if you can pinpoint that you feel "dismissed," you suddenly understand exactly what triggered the feeling and what you need to do next.

​❓ Reflection Questions for the Comments

• ​Look at how you are feeling right this second. Avoid the words "good," "bad," "sad," or "mad." What are two specific words that describe your mood? (e.g., exhausted, peaceful, misunderstood, hopeful)

For whoever missed day 2:

https://www.7cups.com/forum/generalsupport/General_2440/Thesituationofnotbeingabletoexpresshowyoufeelprogramday2_383678/

Day 4 launches tomorrow! Thank you all for your support. Take care and be safe✨️💚

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@cheerfulKiwi1776

One article about more info on emotional wheel that it's truly helpful so please check it out: 

https://www.healthline.com/health/emotion-wheel

Now the tag-lists.

My main tag-list:

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My program tag-list:

@IzzyGamer @sammylou5 @iluvbirds @justpari9 @YourCaringConfidant @unassumingEyes @bobaa13 @SimplyCompassionate @Fatimaishere @trueconfidant123 @humorousCar8048 @unassumingTree3011 @aquaGrapes718 @redStrawberries6067 @indigoTortoise2987 @intuitiveEast6300 @7Bear7 @AddressingBeliefs @mytwistedsoul @LifelD239 @HopeWithinDarkness @abby768 @versatilePerson9751 @bestGlobe2657 @Skeitu @sincereApricot9083 @sarakind

Thanks for your support💚

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unassumingEyes June 10th

@cheerfulKiwi1776 

I think right now im feeling....pensive? And a little hopeful. Probably the mildest feelings Ive had lately– thankfully.

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@unassumingEyes

That's great! I m really glad! Thanks for telling me! 💚

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Luminity125 June 10th

@cheerfulKiwi1776

Hey! Thanks for the amazing post and all your good work💖

Can I request to be added to the taglist? I really love this series and don't want to miss it. You're doing great btw ✨

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@Luminity125

Ofcourse I will put you in the taglist!!

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Void but there's something heavy on the top of my heat don't know the reason

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@redStrawberries6067

I see. I get this. Thanks for opening up. I hope you eventually figure it all out. I believe in you✨️💚

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justpari9 June 10th

I'm having a headache which makes me feel energyless and also at peace knowing that i took many right decisions today.✌🏻✨

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@justpari9

Oh I get it. Wishing you a nice relaxation and I hope the headache goes away soon. Take care.💚

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Torean June 10th

I'm gonna go with exhausted and playful. Work is the last place I should be... 😂

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@Torean

Heven i get it. Thanks for commenting💚

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IzzyGamer June 10th

@cheerfulKiwi1776

Right now I just feel like nervous and on edge I guess. 

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@IzzyGamer

Oh I m sorry. Hope you figure it all out. Sending courage💚

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bobaa13 June 10th

I feel anxious and exhausted

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@bobaa13

I get it. I hope you become better soon and figure it out. Take care please. I believe in you✨️💚

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abby768 June 10th

Um physically and mentally tired?

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@abby768

Thats totally understandable. I hope you figure it out and get better. I know you can✨️💚

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@cheerfulKiwi1776

mad  and  frustrated 

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 11th

@HopeWithinDarkness

I see. Thanks for opening up. I hope you get better soon. Be safe

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@cheerfulKiwi1776

thank you 

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 16th

@HopeWithinDarkness

💚🤗

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