Wondering if there's someone out there who can hear me out.
I've done some things that are just bad, I've been a *** person for years, and the guilt of it is painful. I'm wondering if there's someone out there who would like to hear me out on that. I've kept all for myself for years, and it's just destroyed me a lot.
I know that I'm naturally not a terrible person, but I have really just turned out very bitter and have acted on it.
I don't even know if I can get it out of my system fully, but it's been weighing me down for years now and I don't know what to do.
If anyone, reach out..
hello @GettingBetterFast ik how heavy it gets to hold things inside and i think it’s brave of you to want to share with someone 💕
you can share about it here if you like :)
or if you prefer personal chats then you can seek listeners for one to one chat
Hey can just be there for you. Someone you can count when you are at your lowest
Me too. I have better, unselfish priorities, but I'm always going to be complicated and guilt-ridden. I'd be glad to hear you out anytime, without judgment.
Here if you want to talk
Can I help?
@GettingBetterFast
I certainly have regrets. I use the guilt as fuel for learning and reject feelings of shame. You are only human, there is no shame in that.
@GettingBetterFast
Your doing the right thing trying to deal with it as until you do moving on is not an option, I found getting to the root of the emotions helped and allowed me to understand, ready to listen
Hello everyone, I've been seeing all the replies but have yet to make my next move. How would I go about contacting any of you?
Thanks for all the replies and for the willingness to give me a helping hand, I appreciate all of you for the offer to want to listen!
@GettingBetterFast
so basically 7 cups has two main kinds of accounts
members like you and me- are here to seek support
and listeners are here to support members
most replies to you in this post are from members and sadly members cannot message each other privately so to chat with a member peer you can either carry the chat here or create individual pen pal threads for those interested to chat more https://www.7cups.com/forum/penpals/
for private chats with listeners you can see who’s available and message them on this page https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
hope this helps
@GettingBetterFast I would be glad to hear you out. You can write to me whenever you want and I'll respond when I'm next able to. Read my bio for further details.
@GettingBetterFast realisation is great, use it to bring change. Self loathing does no good.
Forgive yourself. You are human. We all make mistakes. No one has ever been or can be perfect.
Bring changes in yourself so you don't repeat whatever you're feeling bad about.
Reward yourself when you're successful in both these tasks
Best wishes 🙂