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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter August 20th

since I woke up this morning, I've told myself to not feel sad if none of my middle school friends wish me a happy birthday. Yet here I am feeling sad lol. There's only one person from that friend group who wished me a happy birthday. And the chance is, our next chat will be in next year for another birthday wish. 

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User Profile: FairyPeanut
FairyPeanut August 20th

@hopefulencounter

Happy birthdayyy ! I wish you the best and may today be the best birthday you've ever had ! Sending you lots of love, you deserve it ♡

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP August 20th

@FairyPeanut thank you, i really considered them as my close friends but i guess not anymore. :') 

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User Profile: HelenListens
HelenListens August 20th

@hopefulencounter

Not trying to encourage their act but in my group of friends am like the last to celebrate my birthday in the year and I did wished them very well , but guess what they don't even know my birthday like the date ,were wishing a day before and I was like but the **** .But no problem tho we are all good

so just enjoy life and be there for yourself 🤗

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP August 21st

@HelenListens yes i understand, it's just thattt woah why i feel like they did this on purpose just to make me feel sad on my day 

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@hopefulencounter

This is such a thing right? Chats with certain people just ceasing to

“happy birthday”

*one year later*

“happy birthday”

I’ve started joking about it with the people  I’m having such chats too lmao! “Sooo hey here’s our annual birthday greeting, see ya next year”🤣 

Some people mayyy think I’m too straight-up, I just feel I don’t hesitate to say things that everyone else is thinking too but not mentioning because of xyz reasons. XD Anddd I like me this way! XD 

Circling back to the birthday hoomannn, *youuu* hey hey sweet soul, may you have the bestest day and year ahead. 💖

It’s entirely okay to have expectations from people to wish you on your birthday, and even more okay to feel upset when they don’t. We are hoomans, we are allowed to have expectations, feel joy or sadness etc any of the emotions we feel hehe. 

It still remains your birthday, your (extra) special day and you get to decide how you wish to spend it, but if I get to vote for something? My vote goes to option A: don’t let other people make you feel upset on *your* day, there’s always another day to allow other people to make you feel something not nice, celebrate today any how you wish to because you deserve to! 

Happy happy birthdayyyy! 🤗💖 

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP August 20th

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou this is heartwarming, thank you for sharing it with me 🥺🙏. It really saddened me how my friendship with them ended up being distanced like this

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@hopefulencounter

Can understand feeling upset about a friendship turn distant, it can really hurt. :( Offering you lots of hugsss. 🫂 

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP August 21st

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou thank you so muchh 🥺💕💕🙏 there's this one friend who used to be really close to me and she didn't wish me a happy birthday yesterday, there's no way she forgot

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 20th

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hopefulencounter OP August 20th

@Amanda84 thank you💕🙏🥺

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User Profile: akshkarwal
akshkarwal August 20th

Happy birthday! You are an amazing person, and it’s completely normal to feel upset about that, it’s okay.

Hope you have a great day❤️

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP August 20th

@akshkarwal thank you.. it's predictable but still made me feel upset 😭

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User Profile: akshkarwal
akshkarwal August 20th

It’s okay! Even if some things are expected it can make you feel bad and that’s okay. Here for you x

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP August 20th

@akshkarwal 😭💕🙏

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@hopefulencounter Happy Birthday!!! I hope you have the most wonderful day because you deserve it!!! 🥳🍰💖

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hopefulencounter OP August 20th

@TheStarsLookNice1124 thank you, the day is almost over for me 🥰🙏💕i'll try to enjoy before it ends

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@hopefulencounter

Happy birthday!! 😉

I sincerely wish you have a wonderful time, as much as possible.

Remember to smile and be grateful for little things.

You are not alone.

And hopefully you will feel less sad and lonely throughout today.

Have a wonderful day and year.

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hopefulencounter OP August 21st

@TogetherForeverAlways thank you 😭🙏💕

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hopefulencounter OP August 21st

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow August 20th

@hopefulencounter Belated Happy Birthday, my friend! 💝🥰 I hope this year brings you tons of joy and meaningful memories 🍀 You are amazing <3, and I truly love your presence here 💗 I'm always here for you 💜

*Biggggggg hugs* 🐞💕🤗

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hopefulencounter OP August 21st

@fossilfellow thank you for the wishes and hugs 💕💕🙏😭

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fossilfellow August 21st

@hopefulencounter 💖💖

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User Profile: caringShoulder1357
caringShoulder1357 August 20th

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Happy Birthday! Enjoy your special day!

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hopefulencounter OP August 21st

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown August 20th

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Aw I’m sorry you’re feeling sad on your bday 😢 You deserve a better bday than that. You should have had more people especially your friends wishing you a happy bday. 

I hope your sadness lowers if it’s not completely gone with me wishing you a very happy birthday! 

Hugs and love to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Please try to enjoy your bday and not be sad anymore though I know that’s easier said than done. 

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP August 21st

@akunknown thank you so much i will try to :") i think i'm done wishing them birthdays.. 

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