Testing Anxiety and Academic Concerns (NEET)

@GlenM

I just had state testing today, I was nervous but I think I passed or got masters!

@GlenM

*ahem ahem* Sirrrrr, everything is fine but okay? you turned out better than just "okay". 😮

You're being humble here, which I deeply appreciate as a trait in hooman beings, but noo hehe, seriously, I don't even know you in-person, but having been a part of the community for almost 5 years now, I can truly attest for the fact that you care. You care and you show up for people, that you don't know or have ever met either, many many thousands of us here are impacted by you and the work you do, along with your work ethic and strong sense of self.

Something that *you* are a *key* part of, bridges the gap, brings people together, changes lives and eventually, also saves lives.

So yes, you turned out more than okay, and I hope kid/adolescent-Glen is proud of you tooo. 

A little note if you can pass along to little-Glen, whenever you meet him next from me please? 

"Hey there, bright star! Yes, you hehe. You'll shine even brighter, for your compassionate warmth is going to reach out to the corner most spaces in the world we live in.

You're going to do incredibly amazing in life, not just for yourself but for people around the globe, you're going to be respected in rooms you'll likely never even walk in person in, and be loved by people who you may not even know; but you're going to bring about a massive change on a global level and someday, you'd also be sharing about your experiences in life, people will learn and seek inspiration from these as well. So today, hope you're smiling and not worrying too much about life ahead~ you'll make it, and remarkably." 💛

Now about testing anxiety, oh dear goodness, I relate so much, it's difficult calming those nerves down specially when you feel everything about future depends on a certain score-card.

Yes, that score must be super necessary to achieve, but it still isn't "everything" to achieve. 💛

There's more to life than just passing one exam after another or meeting one goal after another. Been there, done that, still there, still doing that xD so nope, it's not "easy" for me to say this either, but it's immensely important to remind self that all we can do is try our best, the effort and willingness does count; while also keeping in mind that eventually, it turns out okay (or more than okay in some cases 😛), so *breathe*, *pause*, *reflect on why you're studying/ doing what you're doing, strengthen your whys and rekindle the inner-resources to motivate you in doing your best*, *implement your action plan*, *learn from your almost-there moments*,  *celebrate your victories*, and most importantly, *continue to believe in yourself*, while being as gentle and kind as possible! 

You got thisss! 💛

We also have the student support community here where you can always seek support or even rant with people in similar boat as you. Ooh and don't forget to check out the forums, lots of tips and encouraging reminders there (can also try searching for specific keywords, for instance "Study tips" show the following brilliant results-https://www.7cups.com/forum/search/?query=Study+tips). 🥰

@GlenM

I'm super grateful that this post is coming from you, since I'm sure all of us look up to you as our guiding light on this platform. The fact that our academic success doesn't define who we are and our destiny as a whole is so much important to remember. We are all full time learners in the journey of life. It is vital to keep consistent while also not setting unachievable targets. We all have unique talents which isn't only channelized through tests but practical experiences.

@GlenM

Thank you for sharing this with us! Unfortunately, I suffer greatly from test anxiety, suffered as a young person and had to realize that my test anxiety is still there as an older adult after I finished a course recently. The good thing is I do not let my test anxiety stop me though 😀

@GlenM  O myy Goddd  i saw the NEET title and screamed haha my med entrance exam in 20 days and its called NEET    tysm for this post and positivity 

@GlenM

I really appreciate this post and the valuable perspective shared here. The insights on test anxiety are particularly important, as many students feel the immense pressure of academic success. I completely agree with the idea that our worth shouldn’t be defined by test scores or academic performance alone. The emphasis on embracing life’s unpredictability resonates deeply with me—sometimes the best opportunities arise from unexpected paths. I also found the practical advice for managing anxiety very helpful and grounding. This post serves as a great reminder that while hard work is important, it's equally essential to remain open to life's twists and to not be too hard on ourselves. Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful and encouraging message!

@GlenM

Thank you for responding to my request and posting a realistic, compassionate and thoughtful post quickly.

I hope your post brings some relaxation and gives hope to the ones who are feeling like being inside a pressure cooker with all the preparations for the entrance exams.

I could not reach much of members here as am a new listener. However, I promise to try and keep engaging students through the Student Support Forum.

@GlenM

This is really helpful as I'm going back to study for a Masters in a couple of weeks, and I've been out of school for almost 15 years! Definitely anxious about tests and exams 😬 Thank you for the advice!!

@GlenM

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