Letting go
What are you deciding to accept or put up with less?
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@amiablePeace77
I need to accept more help 💛
And accept less from people who take my kindness for granted 💛
@Amanda84
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@amiablePeace77
I need to accept that I've a support system. I have to put up less with taunts.
@trueconfidant123
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@trueconfidant123
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@ICJTech
Great decision! You need energy for yourself to feel well!
@amiablePeace77
I don't fight with my caregivers 😃
@Fradiga
Remember: You are mentally strong, you can show patience in the most difficult situations, you got this 😉💙
@amiablePeace77
The last bigger medical adventure was getting bone marrow extracted from my sternum, which was more interesting than hurtful. All you feel is pressure but you cannot see what is going on. The doc was in excellent mood and so was I
@Fradiga
I'm glad it went so well, Fradiga! I volunteered for it many years ago and found it challenging tbh .
@amiablePeace77
Apprehension is something one battles with. I had asked my oncologist what it felt like and he said "no tears or screams - the doctor was fine"
Putting up less with non-reciprocal relationships in my life. Acceptance that my dad is incapable of handling anyone else's emotions.
@creativePenguin5558
I'm glad you received the understanding you needed so that your dad's actions don't affect you too badly!
It also helps me to be compassionate towards him, to understand that there is no purposeful, intentional behaviors to hurt me but rather something that literally his brain is incapapble of performing the task.
@amiablePeace77
What are you deciding to accept or put up with less?
I need to get better at accepting no matter what not everyone will like/be friends with me bc everyone’s different and are attracted to different personalities.
When I feel I’m disrespected, not appreciated or respected, not valued, especially by people I’ve been there for when they asked for me no matter how I felt about them or the situation, this is something that I cannot put up with or won’t put up with. At least not anymore.
@akunknown
You set boundaries! 👍
@amiablePeace77 I’m learning to accept that my past relationships weren’t right for me, and I was simply not compatible with them.
@ScottYhePhoenix
I hope this acceptance gives you peace. Relationships are mostly about compatibility to me/what the other person is looking for.
@amiablePeace77
I'm putting up less with anger. I've learned that people offer anger as a gift to me sometimes, but I've also realized that I don't have to accept it. I can offer something even better in return without accepting their anger- compassion.
And I'm accepting the impermanence of life. People will be angry at you now, but eventually, that anger subsides. May they find peace through impermanence, just as I did.
@alwayzpanda
Not all "gifts" are supposed to be taken and anger is definitively one of them.
I am deciding to accept that I have been picking up bread crumbs and haven’t been able to do anything about failing in finding someone worthy of my love. I want to put up less with people and situations who make me believe I am not worth it!!
@luckygnb
I'm so glad to hear that you remember how worthy you are! You matter!
@amiablePeace77
need to ask and accepted more help
to accepted that my health not going to get better and to allow self to rest when needed without feeling bad about that
@stormieandpaws
That's a good goal, and it makes sense!