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6 months ago I hurt the love of my life in a pretty bad way and she left me and blocked me on everything. She's all I think about and it's killin me what should I do?

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Last Updated: 06/30/2020 at 8:49pm
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generousRabbit93
July 31st, 2018 5:53am
you hurt her for a reason . dont justify what you did because at the moment you werent thinking about her at the moment you did what you did, if you love her let her go and be happy with someone else and better yourself, you dont do that to the " love of your life "
Anonymous
March 4th, 2019 3:17am
Hurting the love of our life is pretty saddening, especially when we don't really want to, sincere efforts and good communication will help. Showing what and how we truly feel will help not just for ourselves but the love or our life and relationship itself. They say fight, if it's worth fighting for. And when two people love each other and can't make that work, that's the real tragedy. Nothing worth having comes easy, if there's life there's hope. We don't start something if we don't have a reason. Let that reason from the start be the base why we come in a relationship.
Randsg
June 30th, 2020 8:49pm
The best thing you could do in this moment is give to her, her space, and time yours to reflection about what’s happening. Just don’t talk to her for a while, maybe these time could be helpful to forgiving you. For the moment, you could try to become better to show her that you change and you won’t break her again. But now, I wanna ask you, how do you let her know that you are new good guy and you won’t hurt her anymore? Give her reasons to come back with you, but be kind and nice and don’t forget give her, her space. Everything will be good! ❤️
Anonymous
June 5th, 2018 2:38am
It looks like you're feeling upset and frustrated. I have actually been through a similar situation myself. I know how hard it can be, especially when it seems as though there is nothing you can do to fix it. It is important to do what you think will be best for her at this time and just give the situation time. I hope you can get through this problem and begin to feel better.
Anonymous
June 17th, 2019 4:05pm
It’s ok to feel hurt but just remember you had left her in a bad way and you have to come to terms with this fact. The most important thing is that you are able to realize you have hurt her, move on and not mistreat others in this way! It’s all a learning curve, sometimes we hurt the people we love and there’s nothing we can do to change it. However, the way in which you react after the situation will determine the type of person you are. Acceptance is key in moving on and hopefully one day she will be able to forgive you.