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Boyfriend broke up with me for dancing on guys 8 months ago and not telling him. How do I get him back?

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Last Updated: 10/26/2020 at 1:18pm
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Anonymous
November 12th, 2019 9:19pm
Good question, but the answer is that you don't! Just move on with your life and try to be as happy and healthy as you can. Any effort spent on him just tells him that you're under his influence. Whereas if you just move on and don't look back, he'll know he really missed out :) Just keep working on yourself and find the right partner for you. All the energy we spend trying to get ex-lovers back is ultimately a waste of the time we could be spending on building our happiest futures. Best of luck!
Anonymous
October 26th, 2020 1:18pm
Do you feel as if you did something wrong? If yes then admit it, let him know that you made a mistake and ask if he is willing to try again with the relationship. If you do not feel as if you did something wrong then being in a relationship with him again may not be the best thing to do for it may happen again or something worst. Think through if being with him is what you really want to do and don't rush yourself to commitment if you would like to roam and be free for a while .