i had done mistakes when my boyfriend loved me so much but now he hates me but i love him a lot and wants him back things back the way it was what should i do?
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Last Updated: 11/19/2018 at 11:31pm
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Communication is important, as with anything. You, the both of you, should be honest on your feelings. Love isn't a place you arrive at and then stay. It's more fluid and complicated. Be honest, but respect his boundaries.
We are all human. We all make mistakes. The most important thing to do is come clean, be completely honest and transparent with your boyfriend as this is the only way you can move forward and try and repair broken bridges.
You need to sit down and determine how/why these mistakes were made. Be honest with yourself, and ask yourself truthfully whether you can see it happening again or whether it was a one of occurrence.
I know it feels like your boyfriend hates you, but this is just his way of processing what has happened. Give him the space and time he needs, try not to pressure him and wait for him to come to you when he’s ready.
Good luck x
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