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My boyfriend doesn’t respond my messages and contacts for a week. What should I do? I feel that he’s ignoring me and disrespecting me. We didn’t fight before he starts ignoring me.

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Last Updated: 06/15/2020 at 2:12am
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Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
July 15th, 2018 1:31pm
have you tried to talk with him in person?
Martyna905
July 17th, 2018 6:34pm
Maybe something happend? Did you try to call him or visit him?
Cindygelper
August 13th, 2018 6:25am
Girl you should drop him period and do the things you love to do u can even take time to cry it out and then after that day I want you to be happy no more sad days forget him
Anonymous
December 16th, 2019 6:17am
Your feelings are correct - he IS ignoring you and disrespecting you and that is not a healthy place for YOU to be in. Maybe next time he does contact you ask him what is going on and if you dont feel you are getting an honest and trustworthy explanation - say so. You are not defined by a partner and no person has the right to disrespect another. If you feel his answers are not honest then you may need to make a decision about going forward with the relationship - for your own good. You deserve it.
Anonymous
June 15th, 2020 2:12am
That is definitely a strange situation to be in and I am so sorry this is happening to you. In no way should you feel ignored while in the relationship. Have you been able to contact him at all during this time of silence? He may be going through some private matters that he is dealing with on his own. If you feel it is right, a good way to approach the situation could be to send some words of affirmation. Remind your boyfriend that you care and you want to offer your help to support him if there is anything going on, not as his partner but simply as a person who loves and respects him. I am sending you my best wishes and hugs!