My ex broke up with me suddenly after 4 hours apart. His main reason was because I would want an abortion if accidentally pregnant. He said he loved me/I'm perfect, but he's ignored me. Any chances?
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Last Updated: 01/20/2020 at 4:19pm
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Anonymous
January 20th, 2020 4:19pm
You obviously don’t have the same values and are not agreeing on having a baby right now. He doesn’t want an abortion which means he either wants the baby or he doesn’t believe in abortion or both. If you can’t agree on this major issue even though you are not pregnant yet, it is better to split up than deal with it when accidentally pregnant.
He doesn’t agree on a major issue and he is afraid you might get an abortion if he leaves you pregnant. He cannot control what you do so he is trying to avoid the situation because he knows it is better to think about it and break up then deal with an abortion and have him hate you for it or deal with you having the baby for the sake of keeping him as your boyfriend.
Abortion is an issue to both people must agree on before the situation arises.
I think he still loves you but he started to have doubts so he let go. It is better to move on since you guys have different values.
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