Stepping out of your comfort zone
In what ways did you step out of your comfort zone in this year? What helped you?
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@amiablePeace77
I try to do new things regularly to push me beyond my fears, that's when you see your greatest strength, I did the tough mudder challenge, which is an obstacle course through tough terrain and it was great 💖
@Amanda84
I did one of those years back. So much fun. I actually have a photo of my as my wallpaper on my phone to remind me of the warrior I am. ♥️
@peachThinker662 @Amanda84 you are both warriors💖💖💖💖
@Tinywhisper11
@peachThinker662
Bahahahahaha
@amiablePeace77
In what ways did you step out of your comfort zone in this year?
To be honest, I never felt or believed that I ever had a comfort zone of my own in my life and never cared about having one bc I always love doing new things and I never thought you could benefit from being in your comfort zone. I mean maybe sometimes it can be good but some people are just too addicted and won’t get out to experience new things, learn new things and gain new skills, etc.
What helped you?
Keeping myself motivated and focused, especially on what I desired is what helped me not care about not having a comfort zone or if I did have one, and never realized it, I didn’t care about being in that particular zone.
@akunknown I hope oneday I can be more like you 💗
@Tinywhisper11
Based on the mental challenges you pushed through despite being in a wheelchair and not being able to leave your comfort zone along with ALL the love you get here which I’ve noticed is more than anyone else here - I mean look at all the pen pals threads you have here and all the threads others have created here that are dedicated to you and all the positive comments people post when talking about or replying to you - in many ways you’re already not only better than me but also better than a lot of others including those that aren’t part of this community.
Please be proud of yourself for that. You deserve to be and have earned that. Hugs and love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@akunknown awwwww you say the kindest things 💖💖 hugs you back 💖 I love you 💗
@Tinywhisper11
Well it’s true. Partially anyway 😂😂😂😂😂 Just kidding. It’s all true. And that’s not just me being kind and saying the kindest things.
You’ve done a great job of building quite a reputation and friendships and all that here during your time here since you first joined. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@akunknown 💖💖thankyou💖💖
@amiablePeace77 I can't ever step out of my comfort zone😂😂 damn! Wheelchair😂😂 but I can roll😁 and this year I've pushed through some mental challenges that needed to be healed. I'm getting there💖😁💖
@Tinywhisper11
You have a mental marathon behind you and you came out strong! 👏
@amiablePeace77 yaaay! Me💖😁💖 I did really well to keep pushing through this year. I'm proud of myself😁💖 and with all the help from you and others here, I did it, thankyou Ami I love you💖
@Tinywhisper11
@Amanda84 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Tinywhisper11 I feel like we should add how much you’ve been learning over the years, from language to culture! Plus I imagine it’s usually stepping out a comfort zone anytime you reach out to someone new with kindness here the way you do. You take a leap of faith and see the good in people. Just some extra acknowledgments for your friend. 🥰
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas awww thanks sweetie 💖💖💖💖💖 I love you so much 💖
@amiablePeace77
I wish I could say that I have done something this past year. I'm afraid I've become even more isolated.
@courageouspanda2006 hugs you tightly 💖 I love you 💗
@courageouspanda2006 what kind of things give you joy?
@soulsings
Not much of anything anymore.
@courageouspanda2006 Maybe your way of stepping outside your comfort zone this year was to focus on yourself, keeping yourself safe. Maybe the next year will bring small steps to isolate less. ❤️
@amiablePeace77
Ha! I did not step out, but was carried away by ambulance and officially sick on the long term.
What helped me was to trust all the medical staff who took care of me and the fact that I now live in a country where medical care, nurse care, medication and peri-medical care is all FREE due to... socialized medicine.
In what ways did you step out of your comfort zone in this year? What helped you?
@Fradiga oh no😮 are you gonna be ok?? Thank God for doctors and nurses💖 gives you gentle hugs 💖
@amiablePeace77 I wasn't afraid to fail as much this year so it pushed me to try everything and Just see what stuck
@wonderfulGrace2413 That is a big fear to tackle, good for you!
@amiablePeace77 In what ways did you step out of your comfort zone in this year?
I was answering forum questions on Yahoo Answers and they changed the format so it was difficult to use so I heard from a guest at another site that there was a 7 Cups Of Tea site that helped people so I chekced it out in 2015. I knew right away that I wanted to be a listener so I did the training and completed it.
What helped you? My determination to help others motivated me and helped me succeed.
@soulsings you have a beautiful heart 💖
@amiablePeace77
Socializing more
@pandanfe Socializing is mine too this year. Good for you! It is harder than people realize sometimes.
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
true and especially for introverts...
I hope you have a wonderful day today!