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Stepping out of your comfort zone

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 November 23rd, 2025


In what ways did you step out of your comfort zone in this year? What helped you?


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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 23rd, 2025

@amiablePeace77

I try to do new things regularly to push me beyond my fears, that's when you see your greatest strength, I did the tough mudder challenge, which is an obstacle course through tough terrain and it was great 💖 

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User Profile: peachThinker662
peachThinker662 November 23rd, 2025

@Amanda84

I did one of those years back. So much fun. I actually have a photo of my as my wallpaper on my phone to remind me of the warrior I am. ♥️

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 23rd, 2025

@peachThinker662 @Amanda84 you are both warriors💖💖💖💖

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 23rd, 2025

@Tinywhisper11


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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 23rd, 2025

@peachThinker662


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User Profile: peachThinker662
peachThinker662 November 23rd, 2025

Bahahahahaha

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown November 23rd, 2025

@amiablePeace77

In what ways did you step out of your comfort zone in this year? 

To be honest, I never felt or believed that I ever had a comfort zone of my own in my life and never cared about having one bc I always love doing new things and I never thought you could benefit from being in your comfort zone. I mean maybe sometimes it can be good but some people are just too addicted and won’t get out to experience new things, learn new things and gain new skills, etc. 

What helped you?

Keeping myself motivated and focused, especially on what I desired is what helped me not care about not having a comfort zone or if I did have one, and never realized it, I didn’t care about being in that particular zone. 


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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 23rd, 2025

@akunknown

Nice that you keep your curiosity alive by trying new things and let nothing limit you!

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 23rd, 2025

@akunknown I hope oneday I can be more like you 💗

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown November 24th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11

Based on the mental challenges you pushed through despite being in a wheelchair and not being able to leave your comfort zone along with ALL the love you get here which I’ve noticed is more than anyone else here - I mean look at all the pen pals threads you have here and all the threads others have created here that are dedicated to you and all the positive comments people post when talking about or replying to you - in many ways you’re already not only better than me but also better than a lot of others including those that aren’t part of this community. 

Please be proud of yourself for that. You deserve to be and have earned that. Hugs and love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 24th, 2025

@akunknown awwwww you say the kindest things 💖💖 hugs you back 💖 I love you 💗

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown November 24th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11

Well it’s true. Partially anyway 😂😂😂😂😂 Just kidding. It’s all true. And that’s not just me being kind and saying the kindest things. 

You’ve done a great job of building quite a reputation and friendships and all that here during your time here since you first joined. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 24th, 2025

@akunknown 💖💖thankyou💖💖

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 23rd, 2025

@amiablePeace77 I can't ever step out of my comfort zone😂😂 damn! Wheelchair😂😂 but I can roll😁  and this year I've pushed through some mental challenges that needed to be healed. I'm getting there💖😁💖

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 23rd, 2025

@Tinywhisper11

You have a mental marathon behind you and you came out strong! 👏

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 23rd, 2025

@amiablePeace77 yaaay! Me💖😁💖 I did really well to keep pushing  through this year. I'm proud of myself😁💖 and with all the help from you and others here, I did it, thankyou Ami I love you💖

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 23rd, 2025

@Tinywhisper11


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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 24th, 2025

@Amanda84 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 

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User Profile: PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
PiecesOfWhoeverIWas November 26th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 I feel like we should add how much you’ve been learning over the years, from language to culture! Plus I imagine it’s usually stepping out a comfort zone anytime you reach out to someone new with kindness here the way you do. You take a leap of faith and see the good in people. Just some extra acknowledgments for your friend. 🥰

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 27th, 2025

@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas awww thanks sweetie 💖💖💖💖💖 I love you so much 💖

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 November 24th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

I pushed myself to find financial support for grad school.

I pushed myself to stay in grad school.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 24th, 2025

@purpleTree4652

Wonderful! You showed yourself that you can do it! 💪

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User Profile: courageouspanda2006
courageouspanda2006 November 24th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

I wish I could say that I have done something this past year. I'm afraid I've become even more isolated.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 24th, 2025

@courageouspanda2006 hugs you tightly 💖 I love you 💗

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings November 25th, 2025

@courageouspanda2006 what kind of things give you joy?

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User Profile: courageouspanda2006
courageouspanda2006 November 25th, 2025

@soulsings

Not much of anything anymore.

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User Profile: PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
PiecesOfWhoeverIWas November 26th, 2025

@courageouspanda2006 Maybe your way of stepping outside your comfort zone this year was to focus on yourself, keeping yourself safe. Maybe the next year will bring small steps to isolate less. ❤️

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User Profile: Fradiga
Fradiga November 24th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

Ha! I did not step out, but was carried away by ambulance and officially sick on the long term.

What helped me was to trust all the medical staff who took care of me and the fact that I now live in a country where medical care, nurse care, medication and peri-medical care is all FREE due to... socialized medicine.

In what ways did you step out of your comfort zone in this year? What helped you?

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 24th, 2025

@Fradiga oh no😮 are you gonna be ok?? Thank God for doctors and nurses💖 gives you gentle hugs 💖

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User Profile: wonderfulGrace2413
wonderfulGrace2413 November 24th, 2025

@amiablePeace77 I wasn't afraid to fail as much this year so it pushed me to try everything and Just see what stuck

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User Profile: PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
PiecesOfWhoeverIWas November 26th, 2025

@wonderfulGrace2413 That is a big fear to tackle, good for you!

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings November 24th, 2025

@amiablePeace77 In what ways did you step out of your comfort zone in this year?

I was answering forum questions on Yahoo Answers and they changed the format so it was difficult to use so I heard from a guest at another site that there was a 7 Cups Of Tea site that helped people so I chekced it out in 2015. I knew right away that I wanted to be a listener so I did the training and completed it. 

What helped you? My determination to help others motivated me and helped me succeed. 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 24th, 2025

@soulsings you have a beautiful heart 💖

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User Profile: pandanfe
pandanfe November 25th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

Socializing more 

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User Profile: PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
PiecesOfWhoeverIWas November 26th, 2025

@pandanfe Socializing is mine too this year. Good for you! It is harder than people realize sometimes.

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User Profile: pandanfe
pandanfe November 26th, 2025

@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas

true and especially for introverts... 

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User Profile: Diamondhearts1
Diamondhearts1 November 25th, 2025

I hope you have a wonderful day today!