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Discussions of the Trauma Sub-Community Announcement Thread
by audienta
Last post
 3 hours ago
...See more Hello everyone, In this thread, the discussions of the trauma sub-community will be announced by the hosts 24 hours in advance. After a session has happened, I'll remove the post so that the thread stays nice and clean. If you want to be tagged for future discussions, please comment or pm me and I'll add you to the list. You can find the schedule of the discussions here (clickable) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaticExperiencesCommunity_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/ScheduleDiscussionsaboutDissociativeDisorders_302437/]. If you need to convert the time into your time zone, click here (clickable) [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/7cupstime]. Please let me know if you have any questions! Take care, audienta (lastly updated: 6/13/2023)
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Trauma Support Automated Taglist
by CaringBrit
Last post
 July 7th
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating taglist. To see the current list, go to Trauma Support Community [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/taglist?23eb3b680028ac32c998125af8d8f262]. <<<< checkin posters refer to this click then copy for taglist its instant updated To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words Please add me. To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words, Please remove me. highlighting keywords as these are needed no forms to fill in just type to this thread . dont need to copy the colouring though just the keywords highlight is so they stand out is all. New taglist as of August 9th 2024 by audienta @0Some0where0I0BELONG0 @13irth @adaptableLake3534 @adequatelyInadequate @adventurousAcres9344 @adventurousBranch3786 @AffyAvo @AguaNector6700 @allYou @Amelia2324 @amiableBunny4016 @AshFox2007 @AstronomySkies @audienta @Avaray @BeautifulCreation999 @BeenAKiwi @bela12345 @BillyJoeBobb @blueScarf9326 @bouncyBreeze44 @BraveAdventurer @BrokenDreamsPalace @BrokenMedic @bubblegumPuppy68 @bumblebee2307 @Bunnylovesyou @CalmRosebud @CaptainTrev @carefulKitten1131 @CaringBrit @charmingSky5972 @Chrissy911666 @Claireolomi @clare7199 @Colorfulcatsofhope @communicativePond1728 @communicativeYard2325 @conicha @CoolBeans29 @coolvibes @Crakyz @creativeStrings1531 @crimsonLime6525 @crxxtvfl0w @cueball @cyanPlatypus6370 @DaniAleah156 @Dannc7c @DarkGalaxy55555 @daydreammemories @Deadtiredperson175 @delicatepunk @depressedsatellite1452 @diligentDime8651 @DinaElwy @domesticEmerald50s @Eitas @emotional232023 @emotionalTalker2260 @emylly @FallenAngel0128 @Feathersfall @FigureskatingEquestrian @Fireskye13 @Fleggles @fluien @forcefulFriend4768 @Gagaintheroom @gentleLand5245 @Ghxstie @goldenSpruce1512 @Grandmaof10 @Greenchoice1 @gregariousBeing5071 @Grits1910 @helpfulLion92 @hillsideblues @honestpanda81 @HonestWarrior6624 @HopeNChayil @HumanPersonThingy @Iamwhoiamwhoami @IceCream4IceCream @iloveyouxx @IndigoWhisper @InfinityandBeyond23 @inventiveOrange1313 @Itisbailey @jcqlinshots @Journey144 @jovialButterfly6752 @jr50 @Judy7 @jupitermatilde @JustSmilingThruHell @Kekesea11 @Kickiree @Kimmkimm @kindTurtle3738 @kittydragon771 @Kunoichi91Warrior @LightofWorld @LillithHolly @Lilly28 @lilmissjaded @lionsaether @littleHuman9247 @littleOtter1342 @LordFireStorm71 @lovehummingbirdsCindy @LovelyForever6990 @LovelyOrangeJuice @LoveMyMoonflowers @lowkeyem1001 @Lubo123 @Luchelle @lyricalAngel70 @Marigold357 @maya6548 @mcooper7583 @Meenagirl @Mellietronx @mish3l @MistyMagic @mkaitx @Mooglethefluffy @MunchieTaters @MVObserver @mytwistedsoul @navyMango2804 @neatBlueberry3608 @neonDog3649 @neonOwl3442 @NevaehRose @Nolanhm @NoneTheWiser @nonethewiser @notmyselftoday @Novelwriter @npos25 @oceancruiser48 @Oceanwaves16 @OffDutySeraph @OneErased @OneWithSugar @ottersngiggles @parkey @Parvlakin @PatienceImpatiens @pencilmarks @Petrichor2000 @Philowl @Pidgeymon @PinkestOctopus @politeBunny7572 @practicalIdeal2007 @purpleWheel873 @QuietLotus @rainbow3140 @Randomperson453 @RansviewTheWizard @raspberry563 @ReallyRuth @Rebekahwriter13 @Redhawk6547 @Redirecting @redmark @reliablePeach8464 @Rosa9570 @SafeSpace1776 @SapphireSoul @SarahAlaina15 @scarletPear1945 @selfdisciplinedTiger5523 @sensitiveShade5337 @ShapeshiftSystem @shellofashell @shiningDay80 @Silverviolets @sincereThinker3571 @sleepingd0gg0 @SmileSravani @SnippyHam @sofiamartino18 @SoftForestHSP77 @SoulSupporter102 @StarlightSystemDID @stickercollection @Storyhymns1234 @straightforwardSkies7721 @sugarcookies7 @Summer899 @SynSavory @Taylorz27 @tealOak8933 @teenytinyturtle @The0Vetoed0System @TheAutumnWitch @TheFisherKing @ThisIsLogan @ThreadbareThinker @Tinywhisper11 @TransparentPuzzle @turquoiseHemlock900 @Turtlegrrrl8 @u1146 @underapinetree @Understandingempath @UndomesticGoddess @unique73 @uniqueDaisy @veeceebee @Verysadperson101 @Vivikun9 @WarriorHeartsSystem @weepingwillow5489 @WelcomeToChat @wontwakewontsleep @WorkingitThrough2 @Worrior22Warrior @Writersworld @WriteToHeal42 @xandia @xmoonsie16x0
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Schedule: Discussions of the Trauma Sub-Community
by audienta
Last post
 February 8th
...See more Hello everyone, The Trauma Sub-Community Discussion Team currently hosts one discussion per week: * Tuesday, 11 AM ET: DID/OSDD-1 Safety and Stabilization Group (adults), hosted by mytwistedsoul The discussions will be announced the day before they happen by the host who will lead the chat in this thread [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaticExperiencesCommunity_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/DiscussionsonDissociativeDisordersAnnouncementPosts_303372/]. If you want to be tagged for them, please leave a comment below. And if you need to convert the time into your time zone, click here [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/7cupstime]. The discussions take place in the trauma support room [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=k2tqdHaUk5qdlLBpiYbDlQ%21%21]. To access this room, you need to have either the Chief Chat or the First Post plus the Compassion Hero badge. You can find more information on that here. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/NewCriteriaUpdatesGroupChatsEasierToAccessNow_280544/] The trauma support room is only open on Weekends and during the discussions. In addition to the above, there are Listener Learning Discussions on Dissociative Disorders. You can find the schedules here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerLearningDiscussions_1896/]. ------------------------- Trauma support room (info here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/NewCriteriaUpdatesGroupChatsEasierToAccessNow_280544/]). Take care, audienta (last updated: 28/04/2026)
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Rape and the Confusion that can follow it.
by Vokzy
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Good day everyone 🥰. Sometimes, after rape or sexual assault, a person doesn't immediately know what to call what happened to them. You might be in shock. You might keep replaying it in your head and wondering, Was that really rape? You might know something was deeply wrong but not be ready to accept what happened. And sometimes, the realization doesn't come until a lot later. Then there's another question: Who do you tell? Where do you report it? Who will believe you? Who can you talk to without being judged, blamed or questioned about what you did, wore, said or didn't say? Not knowing what to do next doesn't make what happened to you any less real. If you've experienced rape or sexual assault, whether recently or a long time ago, you deserve support. There are organisations and resources that can help with medical care, emotional support, understanding your options and, if you choose, reporting what happened. And within this community, I want you to know that I stand with survivors. I'm here to listen and not to judge you, interrogate you or tell you how you should feel. If there's a story or experience you would like to share, you're welcome to share as much or as little as you're comfortable with under this thread. You don't owe anyone every detail of what happened to you. You deserve to be heard. You deserve to be taken seriously. And you deserve support.
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Thoughts
by Daybloom
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 October 7th
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Past sexual assault (19 yr male here)
by Adith01
Last post
 September 29th
...See more 2 years ago when I was 17, while waiting in bus station for transport, a strange creepy pervert came near me and started touching my p***s. I was not aware of sexual assault in this form then, but still it was uncomfortable and I subsequently avoided going out alone. Later, as I came to know about this as male sexual assault, my fear of going out has increased, and I shut myself in my room for hours, which is not ideal for a man to do. I go out only when someone accompanies me. I fear that something worse than that may happen, owing to my looks (Im thin and fairly colored, people usually tell me Im attractive)
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I was groomed online for years and it led me too be way too risky and my mom thinks I almost got trafficked
by amiableBeach8884
Last post
 September 23rd
...See more Basically, when I turned 15 I started to go on online chat rooms cause I was lonely and stuff, especially at night. It was all normal at first I feel like and then it would get sexual and eventually I was ok with some of the secual chats with the older guys but I would always refuse too send pics when they asked. But when I would say no, they didn't want too talk too me anymore, so eventually idk why I was stupid I did it. I remember the guy I think was like 24, and I kept telling him yk like im not sure if I should send pics or anything and he told me too shut up and just do it. At this point I had never kissed anyone, held hands with anyone in a romantic way, or done anything remotely sexual with anyone. I remember while I was taking my clothes off I was shaking and it felt so wierd and I kept thinking in my head why am I doing this for him why am I doing this. And I did it. I dont even remember how the pictures looked, or his response, all I remember is shaking so much and I remember the exact spot in my basement that I did it. My mind must've blocked out the rest. I dont remember ever even talking too this guy again or anything about him besides his age. And then in my memory ther is a lapse of time, and it cuts too me doing these things every day, like I was addicted too the validation and what they would say too me. How much they loved my body, I had never thought of myself in that way, beautiful, hot, I never thought anyone could love me like that. Cut too me being 16, and I am doing this every single day, it was a loop of talking too an older guy for a bit, then feeling deep and horrible shame and then end up blocking him. Some of the men were 60 years old and up. Its like I started too enjoy it. When I was 15 I remember telling myself that I need to stop all this before I turn 16, that it will just keep getting worse. I turn 16 and im still doing it. It's like if I wasnt pleasing men then I was worthless, and my body had no purpose. I liked that they liked how young I was and I loved how much they praised me. I loved pleasing them even tho I knew they were bad men it is so wierd and gross. The next day whenever I would do these things I would be sitting in class just so disgusted with myself and gross and broken and like a horrible monster that should be put down. By the time u was 17 I missed being 15, I felt like I was getting too old and some of the men would remind me that the older I get the less desirable I will be. Expired. I met this one guy Justin, he was in his 30s I think. He was sadistic and evil but also he would say he loved me and stuff. I am so stupid that I did any of these things at any point I could just put the phone down and never talk yoo them again but I didn't its like I needed them. I will never forgive myself, especially for this next part. Justin kept asking me too put this curling iron inside me. I kept saying no over and over and over but eventually I broke. I did it. It hurt and I bled all over and he had me rub the blood all over myself. At no point did I enjoy this so why did I do it? I remember after the call sitting there alone in the bathroom covered in my own blood. Feeling dead inside and defeated and disgusting and broken. My 15 year old self ruined my whole life. It got too the point where the thought of dating guys my own age made me feel like a pdfile, I can't explain it it just felt like I was a horrible person like the men if I did that. When I turned 18 I met up with this guy Ken, it was a day or two after my 18th birthday I found him online and idk he convinced me too come over too his apartment, I was very unsure but I did it, he orders me an Uber. He told me he was 35 and the second I see him I sort of think he looks older than his pictures but I brush it off. He immediatly touches my butt and my waist when he greets me. And he takes me up too his apartment and I sit across the room from him but he tells me too sit next too him and then eventually I dont really remember how but I am performing oral on him and all I could think was how much I regret it and how wierd he is and how wierd I am. And then he tells me too bend over and yeah you know he takes my virginity just like that. All I can remember is the sweat, he was so sweaty and it was dripping all over me and I am a germaphobe so I hated it so much. He would tell me things during sex like that he is going too *** inside me and then I woukd freak out and beg him not too and he woukd say I am being annoying and that its just sex talk. How can he say I am mature for my age but then also call me annoying. I remember he told me I wasnt perfectt. But then he would be all sweet too me. It felt horrible he is disgusting I regret every second of it. We would get so high until I could barely walk and he would still use me he didn't care. Even if I was crying he didn't care or maybe he didn't notice idk. A bunch of other stuff happened with him, and eventually I find out he is actually 44. He lied too me. The man I let have my whole body lied too me. And had no remorse. After him I meet this 26 year old guy. He has a lot of experience and I fall for him hard. I thought he was a really good guy and I was so stupid I did everything he wanted no matter what I wanted. I eventually let him brand me, like tattoo me only 2 months into knowing him. My mom finds out and she keeps insisting he was going too sex traffick me but I dont want too believe it because in a lot of ways I loved him. My whole life revolves around him and pleasing him I had tasks and everything and I would make him drawings and stuff and we would talk and he would put his arm around me after sex and once he kissed me good bye the day that I let him tattoo me. I miss him so much. Once my mom found out about him tho she took my phone and now I am in a mental hospital for trauma and stuff I guess. I will never see him again but his initial is forever on my body. I gave him everything, I trusted him so much too easily I was so stupid and now I realize he didn't actually care about me he was lying too me. My mom had died him on Twitter behind my back asking him too take accountability for "grooming" me (I dont think he groomed me. And he literally deleted all his accounts, his Twitter account, his reddit account, his only fans account, everything. He erased himself from the internet and that wad so suspicious it just makes me think maybe my mom is right and he was going too traffick me but it just doesn't make sense I am so confused and I still care about him and want him to come back. I told me he was gonna make me perfect, he told me my body was almost perfect he just wanted me too be more flexible so I was even doing specific excersizes for him too change myself. He had me wrapped around his finger. Please if u are reading this, I know u dont have all the info but do u think he was gonna traffick me? God i hate my 15 yesr old self.
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just a rant, TW COCSA
by peachApricot8215
Last post
 August 24th
...See more I’m not sure where else i can rant or if im doing it correctly  but i jsut need this out of my head for once. Is anyone a victim of COCSA? When i found out about it and the cycle of it, i was so in shock and it has stuck with me. it started when i was around maybe 4? it was my brother he was 10. I didn’t want it. It didn’t stop until I was 10. I remember bits and pieces of the abuse that happened throughout the years. Honestly throughout those years i vaguely recall anything. One that always stuck was my mom walking in and we were under the covers. He bit my shoulder so hard. Idk if he was trying to be quiet or what but the pain always stuck with me. Another is when he wanted me to perform oral on him and when i refused he said my cousin liked it so i should to. I cried and he left me alone. When it stopped he was very mean with me. I jsut wanted an older brother but instead i got someone who hated me. I didn’t know it was wrong when i was little. I thought its whatever. There were times he’d try waking me up but touching me and i’d stay asleep hoping he’d go away. My older cousin he was 7 years older. When i was 8 He’d try doing things to me and when i wouldn’t give a response he’s stop. I was able to avoid him bc we didn’t live together. Another was an older female cousin. She was 5 years older she and my other cousin were siblings. She’s lure me to her closet and teach me things for my future bf. It all stopped when i was 10 bc i moved. Later when i was 12 I attempted the same thing and kissed one of my younger cousin (11)  but was disgusted with myself and told her it was a prank, and never tried again. When I was around 16 i partied with friends and came home extremely drunk. I confessed to my mom in my drunken state about my brother and the next day she asked if it was true. I had only told her he would touch me between those years but i never told her the specific bc it hurt to much to tell that to my mother. She told me i should forgive him. She later told my sister, and she told my brother. He wanted to talk to me and he said he did those things bc he was taught that by another cousin, which i later found out had the same thing done to her by an adult. My brother also did the same to one of my very close cousins who’s the same age as me. She confessed to me what my brother did to her and she said she didn’t feel safe. I told her to never leave my side. We were 9.  The other cousins who had attempted those things to me, i found out there dad got another one of their sister pregnant. It turned out all this runs rampant in my family and everyone ignores it and covers it up. I’m just tired of this stupid cycle that will never stop. Who knows who else fell victim to it. Now none of this is talked about. All swept under the rug and we moved on. Anyways if you made it this far thanks. I just wanted to get this out of my system. I no longer live with any of these people and am attending uni. Thinking about talking to a professional but im scared. I like the anonymous aspect of this.
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TW
by Salsmanm
Last post
 August 12th
...See more I think I was SAed by my ex....I slept over at his place and I woke up to him having sex with me, but even after I woke up I let it happen and didn't say no...I'm too scared to talk to anyone about it in my life because he is one of my best friends and I've finally started getting people to be ok with the friendship 
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What if...
by brenbird
Last post
 July 24th
...See more What if... I cant do things to please my boyfriend when were older I cant ever control the flashbacks I can't stop thinking of the things I could've done sooner I cant have sex I cant stop blaming myself I cant stop having nightmares I cant stop being scared of going to places ik he goes to but I have to go to bc of parents I can't stop being scared to js see him in public even though its been months since I last saw him in public I cant stop being scared
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miscarriage from SA
by wordsonwings
Last post
 July 12th
...See more trigger warnings: rape/SA (COCSA specifically), teenish pregnancy, miscarriage, grief hi, this is my first time posting here. i apologize in advance if i do or say anything wrong. just a disclaimer, this is really long, and i'm sorry about that. i just have no one to talk to about this and i have so much to say. but tldr: i was pregnant from being raped, i miscarried years ago, and i miss the baby, but it feels so wrong and i don't know how to grieve or cope. almost 3 years ago, i got raped at school by a classmate. i was 11, and it was so incredibly traumatizing. i've been diagnosed with ptsd 3 times since then. it took me months to fully piece together what had been done to me, because i blocked it out so hard. its actually taken me years. i knew i was raped after a few months, because i was finally able to remember exactly what happened. last year, i didn't necessarily remember something new, i just finally made myself come to terms with it after refusing to think about it. two months after being raped, i miscarried alone in my bathroom. i was so young, and i didn't even know i was pregnant in the first place. i remember how painful it was, and how alone i was, and how it felt like the world was ending in that moment. i've had so many feelings since then. i've never wanted kids in my life. not before i was raped, and not since. i've just never really liked kids all that much. but now that i know that for 2 months, i was a mother, its changed things. i didn't like kids before, but now seeing babies makes me feel so sick. hearing about pregnancy makes me sick. i just can't handle anything relating to it anymore. i was just so young, and so confused and so scared. i felt so violated. like he would forever be a part of me or own a part of me because now his child was inside of me. and honestly, i'm so glad i miscarried, because i know i never would've been able to handle being an 11 year old mother. but now there's so much grief. there was something living and growing inside of me, and it could've had a future, and a life. i know deep down that if that baby went to term, i would've hated it so much. i would've only seen my ***, their father, in the baby, and it would've driven me insane. but i also could've loved that baby like nothing before. i could've watched that baby grow and become someone as kind as i wish i could be. i could've been a great parent if i really wanted to be. i feel so lost. no one my age has ever been a parent. no one in my life has gotten pregnant under the circumstances that i did. all i want is someone who understands, who knows how to cope with this sort of thing. i feel like i'll never cope with this. i'm struggling to grieve because it was years ago, and i don't feel like i have the right to miss something that was never truly alive in the first place. but i miss that baby, and i love it despite how wrong that feels. i've thought forward to the future, in terms of ways that maybe i could honor the baby. it's due date would've been some time in september. i looked up the birth flowers for that month, and they're asters and morning glories. i feel like asters being the birth flower for my baby is so appropriate. asters are named after the greek word for star, and ever since i went through that all those years ago, i've been writing poetry. so many of my poems are about stars, the universe, the galaxy. i have a published poem about stars. it feels sort of fitting, that even if i couldn't come to terms with the fact that i almost had a baby, i've been writing about them ever since. i've been honoring them subconsciously in almost everything i write. i'm thinking about maybe getting a tattoo of a bouquet of flowers, maybe my month's birth flowers and my baby's combined. just so my baby knows that i love them now, even if i hated them back then. i'm only 14, these are such hard concepts for me to think about, let alone live with. i'm struggling with humanizing the baby. i keep using 'it' and that feels so disrespectful, but i just can't let myself think of it as a human, or else it makes me so scared. i'm so sorry this is so long. if anyone else has gone through something similar, or knows what i could possibly do to make this grieving easier, please let me know. thank you for reading this.
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Childhood tigger warning mention of SA and SH
by Pumkineyes25
Last post
 June 25th
...See more I have been thinking about my childhood recently, which I hardly remember much of, but the parts that I do remember, I do not want to remember, that is, because what I am remembering is SA. It lasted for about 2 years at 2 different times with 2 different people. I am remembering specifics of what happened, and I had been self-harming. I have also been thinking about a time when I was in college the first time and was coerced into doing some things that I have realized were not my fault, but it feels like it was my fault.
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Sexual harrasment to Marry
by sunnybeh5467
Last post
 June 19th
...See more Hello  Sexual harrasment by dad and family  For not marrying  Working with counselor  Venting helps  Financial  Social  Personal life all hindering by family  Cyber tracking  Calling harrasment good because they are holy  Counselor say saditic personality type 
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Sexual harrasment
by sunnybeh5467
Last post
 May 6th
...See more Hello  Sexual harrasment to Marry by family  Personal boundaries are disregarded Sadistic personality  Dad is psychopathic trait  Working with counselor  Looking for support 
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Rape Victim
by bhaddie310
Last post
 March 25th
...See more So ummm.... I'm new here....and..ummm.... I'm a rape victim and it's killing me. Lost my virginity to rape💔 It's hard to accept it, everyday I have flash backs and the only way to cooperate with it....is finding a distraction but then that doesn't help for too long. I wanna move on from it, I wanna move on from my past. Growing up I didn't have a supportive family (still don't got it). I don't even know what it feels like to be loved, growing up I just wanted love and attention from my mom and dad...but he didn't stay he lefted and put another female over me(he's still doing it right now and trying to buy me with money)and my mom...she don't got time for no body but her man. She's not the best or a great mother. Sometimes I feel like a mistake she once said I ruined her life(because she had me at 23). Sadly....I don't know what fun feels like either. I don't get along with humans... I'm a nobody which makes it even harder to even tell someone about me getting raped.... It's just too much you know😔I just want the pain and flash backs to stop, I just want to be happy like normal people. My inner child is so sad and depressed. My depression started at 8 and now I'm 16 and it's gotten worst over the years but May 2021 was the worst💔the year I got raped and I know it's almost a year sinced it happen....but..... it's hard.

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Community Guidelines

These are the Trauma Support Sub-Community Guidelines, which have been drawn up in addition to the 7 Cups main guidelines and are specific for the Trauma Support community:

  • Uphold and comply with the 7 Cups main guidelines
  • Respect everyone, members and listeners alike
  • Do not discourage/be unsupportive/blame/judge one another for their past
  • No graphic, in depth descriptions or pictures which could be triggering for others - in forums, chat and support session
  • Please always add a trigger warning if you believe your thread could be potentially triggering/harmful and/or contains one of the topics on this list. Also, please add a short topic description to the trigger warning (e.g. "Trigger Warning: Domestic Abuse) and if you're in a group support chat, wait a moment to see if everyone is comfortable with the topic. If not, agree on a time span during which the person who's not comfortable with the topic leaves the chat. Once they come back after this time span, change the topic.
  • Cursing not permitted and must be asterisked. (It is fine to vent and to express appropriate anger, but as curse words have often been used during abusive and traumatic experiences, we ask members and listeners to asterisk abusive/curse words to avoid triggering and upsetting members where possible and to maintain a respectful environment and to encourage positive and healthy expression of anger.)
  • Forums postings made by listeners and members should be transparent, made in English and should not be blocked out using colouring to disguise content of wording/messages sent between members/listeners, to maintain the safety of all users of the trauma sub community and to ensure all rules are being complied with.
  • Everyone is unique and their experiences are individual to them. Everyone’s experiences and how they think and feel about these are valid. Everyone reacts to traumatic experiences differently. This will be respected and appreciated without judgement.
Read the 7 Cups Guidelines
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