LGBTQ+ FAQ - Questions & Answers

340 Questions
Last Updated: January 15th, 2018

What's the best way to come out of the closet to your parents?

Answers: 22 | Last Answer: January 15th, 2018

What did my friend mean when he said I'm "versatile" ?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: January 15th, 2018

Is staying in the closet forever a bad thing?

Answers: 45 | Last Answer: January 15th, 2018

So I think and feel that I'm bisexual but I don't want to label myself as bi because I'm only 17 and haven't really been in love yet, what should I do? Do I come out to/tell others if I'm not sure?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: January 15th, 2018

How do I stop second guessing my identity?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: January 15th, 2018

Im so confused, i like girls and i like to do girly things, but im a boy. What am i?

Answers: 3 | Last Answer: January 15th, 2018

How do I know if I am transgender?

Answers: 286 | Last Answer: January 14th, 2018

Is there any chats/groups/forums specifically for Transgender teens 18 and under?

Answers: 31 | Last Answer: January 14th, 2018

When is the right time to come out to people?

Answers: 26 | Last Answer: January 14th, 2018

I've just come to terms with being transgender. How do I come out to my girlfriend of many years?

Answers: 61 | Last Answer: January 14th, 2018

How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm transgender?

Answers: 52 | Last Answer: January 14th, 2018

How can I explain homosexuality to my parents?

Answers: 124 | Last Answer: January 13th, 2018

How do I come out as nonbinary?

Answers: 43 | Last Answer: January 13th, 2018

Would it be normal to choose a gender neutral name that i feel more comfortable with if i identify as agender?

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: January 12th, 2018

What do i identify myself with if im emotionally attracted to boys but physically and emotionally attracted to girls?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: January 12th, 2018

Okay so i have sexual arttaction but no desireto act on it. What sexuality is this if it even is one?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: January 12th, 2018

How do you know if your bisexual?

Answers: 174 | Last Answer: January 12th, 2018

Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?

Answers: 140 | Last Answer: January 11th, 2018

I used to have crushes on guys when I was younger but after I came out as pansexual I’ve started to wonder if I’m lesbian and if those crushes were me just suppressing my feelings. Any suggestions?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: January 11th, 2018

I dreamt about kissing someone of the same-sex, what does it mean ?

Answers: 285 | Last Answer: January 11th, 2018

What does it mean to be Queer?

Answers: 76 | Last Answer: January 10th, 2018

How to deal with falling in love for your best (and straight) friend?

Answers: 35 | Last Answer: January 10th, 2018

Why does it feel like only certain types of LBGTQIAP+ people are accepted within the community?

Answers: 18 | Last Answer: January 9th, 2018

Will people learn to accept me as a LGBTQ member?

Answers: 22 | Last Answer: January 9th, 2018

I am a male-to-female transgender but recently I have been feeling like I'm pretending when I am feminine and don't get upset when I am masculine... Is it possible that I'm not transgender after all?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: January 8th, 2018

How do I know that I'm really bisexual?

Answers: 16 | Last Answer: January 8th, 2018

Is asexuality considered to be in the LGBTQ community?

Answers: 32 | Last Answer: January 8th, 2018

Is there something wrong with me for being LGBTQ?

Answers: 32 | Last Answer: January 8th, 2018

I feel like a boy but sometimes I see myself as a girl. Am I really trans?

Answers: 3 | Last Answer: January 5th, 2018

How do I come out to my parents?

Answers: 180 | Last Answer: January 4th, 2018

I'm most definitely in women and I think I'm a lesbian, however, sex doesn't interest me in the slightest. What's wrong with me?

Answers: 32 | Last Answer: January 2nd, 2018

What is the difference between sex and gender?

Answers: 40 | Last Answer: January 2nd, 2018

I've known I was transgender since I was 11 and my parents don't think I am... They support the LGBT but they said that they would have known at a younger age. Do I have to know at a young age?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: January 2nd, 2018

What is the difference between sex and gender identity?

Answers: 26 | Last Answer: January 2nd, 2018

Why am I gay? I hate myself.

Answers: 153 | Last Answer: January 1st, 2018

How come that me being a sexual orientation that is not straight or gay or lesbian feel alienated within LGBTQ communitity? What can I do to feel more accepted?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: January 1st, 2018

What are asexuality and demisexuality? Do I need to put a label on my feelings?

Answers: 24 | Last Answer: January 1st, 2018

How can you handle when friends aren't accepting of you being LGBTQ?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: January 1st, 2018

I'm romantically attracted to males, but I think I'm sexually attracted to only females. I thought I was asexual, but now I'm not sure. Is this normal, or does it mean anything about my sexuality?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 27th, 2017

Im attracted To only one person thats also a female. What does that make me?

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: December 27th, 2017

Who should I come out to first? Family or friends?

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: December 27th, 2017

I am very confused about my sexuality. How can I determine what my sexuality really is?

Answers: 114 | Last Answer: December 26th, 2017

Can my sexual orientation change?

Answers: 30 | Last Answer: December 26th, 2017

How do I fit into all these different labels for various sexualities?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: December 26th, 2017

Am I just imagining my attraction/gender identity?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: December 26th, 2017

If you could choose, would you have preferred to have a different sexuality then you have?

Answers: 29 | Last Answer: December 25th, 2017

I identify as non-binary. Is it normal to still go by she/her pronouns just because that is what I am more comfortable with?

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: December 23rd, 2017

is it easier to know your sexuality after having sex?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 22nd, 2017

I'm love with my best friend, but she's straight. What do I do?

Answers: 84 | Last Answer: December 20th, 2017

i am gay and i m feeling very uncomfortable with straight ones... because they literally say many offensive things to them?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 20th, 2017

I've been in a secret relationship for 8 years! My partner is finally divorced n her children are 25 and 22. She says she is afraid to live how she really feels. Do I stay?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 19th, 2017

How do i come out to my religious family?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 19th, 2017

My husband said he was gay but has never had sex with a guy? Weve been married for two years and weve never had intimacy problems. He is socially awkward too. I caught him sexting guys

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 19th, 2017

I’m pretty sure I’m a lesbian, but there is a guy celebrity that confuses the hell out of me and I don’t know if I’m gay or bi. Help??? I want to come out but I don’t even know what I am.

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 19th, 2017

Why do I always struggle showing my true self to everyone?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: December 19th, 2017

How do you learn to accept yourself and come to terms with your sexuality?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 19th, 2017

Why is it that I am not allowed to be who I am, when others are?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: December 18th, 2017

Are lesbians less likely to date a bisexual girl?

Answers: 31 | Last Answer: December 18th, 2017

I don't really identify as a girl, but I don't identify as a boy either...what other genders are there?

Answers: 37 | Last Answer: December 18th, 2017

(This one is for asexuals.) Why don't I feel sexually attracted to anyone? Am I broken?

Answers: 19 | Last Answer: December 18th, 2017

I’ve been a girl for all my life but lately I’ve been asking myself if I’m a guy and the thought makes me happy but also terrified and I’m not sure what to do?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 13th, 2017

how do i stop being trans, it makes me so unhappy and my family hate me for it, i just feel like such a burden to everyone, i just want to know if there is anything i can do?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 13th, 2017

I am sexually aroused by men but not women. Yet I am still attracted to women and can imagine a future with them but not men. What does this mean?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: December 13th, 2017

Am i bisexual? Im a guy who has considered himself straight, and lately i've noticed that i've been looking at men differently lately. I think i even have a crush on Mitch Grassi from pentatonix...

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: December 13th, 2017

Why do I always reconsider my sexuality and gender identity?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

My parents don't know I'm gay and they are super religious, and homophobic how do I deal with this?

Answers: 3 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

Why do some cultures reject people of the same sex for sharing love ?

Answers: 19 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

Why do I wake up thinking about things I cannot have or be?

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

What is asexuality?

Answers: 55 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

Are you gay by birth or is it something you develop?

Answers: 26 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

How can I be a good ally to the LGBTQ+ community?

Answers: 22 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

It is normal to have feelings about the same gender?

Answers: 26 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

Is it okay to be confused around your sexuality?

Answers: 36 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

What if there is no label that defines me?

Answers: 27 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

Why do I feel as though I am the opposite gender and is it wrong to feel attracted to ones self of the opposite gender?

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

Can I just be a person, not a girl or a boy?

Answers: 5 | Last Answer: December 12th, 2017

What are the differences between pansexual and bisexual?

Answers: 24 | Last Answer: December 11th, 2017

why do people always want to label me/my sexuality?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: December 11th, 2017

How can I support my friend who is gay?

Answers: 32 | Last Answer: December 11th, 2017

Why are transgender issues lumped in with gay and lesbian issues?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: December 11th, 2017

What's the best way to react to extended family's questions once you've come out?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: December 11th, 2017

How can I figure out if I am bisexual, or if I am just going through a phase?

Answers: 20 | Last Answer: December 8th, 2017

What's the best way to get over relatives who are completely against it or ignore the fact that you might be gay?

Answers: 18 | Last Answer: December 5th, 2017

Will my family accept me ? If not, what do I do ?

Answers: 17 | Last Answer: December 5th, 2017

Actually I spent most of my life trying to determine my sexuality, Did you face the same phase?

Answers: 22 | Last Answer: December 5th, 2017

I don't like sexual relationships at all. Is it wrong?

Answers: 39 | Last Answer: December 5th, 2017

I am scared of coming out because I've assured people I am straight for years. How do I come out without disappointing people?

Answers: 4 | Last Answer: December 5th, 2017

Why am I not able to feel romantic love?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: December 5th, 2017

Is being gay or lesbian or bisexual a sin?

Answers: 42 | Last Answer: December 5th, 2017

Is it better to use LGBTQIA or MOGII?

Answers: 17 | Last Answer: December 4th, 2017

Why does everyone hate me just because of my sexuality?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: December 4th, 2017

Why are so many people close-minded when it comes to LGBTQ individuals?

Answers: 25 | Last Answer: December 4th, 2017

Do I even need to identify myself on the LGBTQ spectre?

Answers: 24 | Last Answer: December 4th, 2017

I'm scare if I tell everyone that I'm gay. They will treat me differently and keep distance. Why am I gay?

Answers: 4 | Last Answer: December 4th, 2017

How can the T and Q in LGBTQ be better considered and understood by average people?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: December 4th, 2017

Why is it easier to "come out" to someone I just met than to my friends of years?

Answers: 37 | Last Answer: December 1st, 2017

How can I know the legal situation about LGTB+ people in my country?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2017

I came out to my parents as transgender over six months ago, they have ignored it entirely. How can I gently bring up the subject again?

Answers: 4 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2017

Can someones romantic orientation and sexual orientation be very different (aromantic pansexual or asexual polyromantic) or do they have to go in hand (aromantic asexual, biromantic bisexual)?

Answers: 22 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2017

I know what I identify with but no one aknowledges it, how can I explain to my friends and family my sexual orientation?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2017

How can i know for sure if im a lesbian or just bisexual?

Answers: 20 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2017

Why is my daughter a lesbian?

Answers: 128 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2017

Am I an asexual? I lack sexual attraction but not sexual drive.

Answers: 16 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2017

What is the difference between pansexuality, polysexuality and bisexuality?

Answers: 193 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2017

Do you have to come out to everyone?

Answers: 41 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2017

How can I be comfortable with my sexuality while living in a conservative town?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2017

Can gay people have stable romantic relationships?

Answers: 44 | Last Answer: November 27th, 2017

How can I know if I won't regret sex change treatments?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: November 27th, 2017

I don't really feel like a girl or a guy. Is it possible to be neither?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: November 27th, 2017

Why do people feel the liberty to ask personal questions about my sexual life when I "come out" or let them know my sexual orientation?

Answers: 18 | Last Answer: November 27th, 2017

for the past year or two i been questioning my sexuality i think am a lesbian i find my self attracted to females and even been thinking about what it would be like spending my life with a female ?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 27th, 2017

What is the safest way to bind your chest for FtM?

Answers: 16 | Last Answer: November 27th, 2017

How can I connect to other LGBTQ+ people in private?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: November 27th, 2017

I've heard a fair amount of bad rep about bisexuals, often from people who've never even dated one. Why is there so much unfair judgement, especially from people of the LGTBQ+ community?

Answers: 8 | Last Answer: November 27th, 2017

Just because I am bisexual doesnt mean I want to be with just anyone, how do I make that clear to my friends that tease me?

Answers: 20 | Last Answer: November 27th, 2017

How do I deal with bullies at school or confrontations in public/online?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: November 27th, 2017

How do I come out as non-binary at school, knowing most of my classmates don't even talk to me?

Answers: 4 | Last Answer: November 23rd, 2017

How do you meet other members of the LGBTQ community in real life?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: November 22nd, 2017

How do I know if I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual?

Answers: 295 | Last Answer: November 22nd, 2017

Is it ok to not want to come out right now?

Answers: 45 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

Will people see me differently because of my sexual orientation?

Answers: 23 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

When is the right time to come out?

Answers: 35 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

I feel somewhat attracted to my same gender, but only want to date the opposite and would rather go all the way with them. I don't want to be bisexual because of religious beliefs. What do I do?

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

What helped you accept your own sexuality and gender identity?

Answers: 33 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

What does it mean to live authentically as an LGBTQ person?

Answers: 23 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

Sexual attraction: What's the difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction?

Answers: 313 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

What's the difference between Pansexuality, Bisexuality and Polysexuality?

Answers: 28 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

Why is it that so many people who identify in a way that has attraction to the same gender end up falling for one of your best friends?

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

how to know if I'm really attracted to someone in the same gender,specifically a boy in my class???

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

Does not coming out as bisexual mean that I'm ashamed of it even though I don't think I feel that way?

Answers: 29 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

Why is my son gay?

Answers: 118 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

If everyone around you (family, friends, etc.) is hostile towards LGBTQ people, how should you come out? Should you come out at all?

Answers: 24 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

Why do fellow LGBT people not want to discuss about their sexuality when they are just as alone in this as me?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

If I am demisexual, do I still need to come out to my friends and family, and if so, how do I explain?

Answers: 7 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

Why am I so scared of coming out when I know my family fully supports LGBTQ rights?

Answers: 34 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

My sexuality keeps fluctuating and I'm not sure I fit into one single box, how do I explain that to others when I don't know how to feel about it myself?

Answers: 19 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

I am so confused about my sexuality. I am attracted to men and some women but when I think of sex personally I am revolted the thought of doing something. Has anyone else felt this way?

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

I don't like male genitalia, but I have a ftm transgender boyfriend and he doesn't want the surgery. I'm confused on what my sexuality would be. Can anyone help?

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

Why is it so hard for people to understand my sexuality?

Answers: 22 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

Why do people assume that all bisexuals sleep with anyone that comes up to them?

Answers: 25 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2017

How to deal with my homophobic parents?

Answers: 8 | Last Answer: November 20th, 2017

Am I bisexual or am I lesbian?

Answers: 35 | Last Answer: November 20th, 2017

Can I be attracted to a gender but not in a sexual way? Like I want to be with them but not have sex with them?

Answers: 38 | Last Answer: November 20th, 2017

How do I know for certain about my sexuality?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: November 20th, 2017

I'm confused about my sexuality. I'm a male and only date women. , I also like oral sex on a male if a girl is involved. I've had mmf 3 somes and attracted to transexuals. Help?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 17th, 2017

It's almost impossible for me to accept my reality and truth that i'll never be able to have normle that a girl has since i'm a male to female transgender. How do i make myself accept?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 17th, 2017

What's transexuality? And what's the difference between that and transgender?

Answers: 3 | Last Answer: November 16th, 2017

I have recently developed feelings for my same sex friend who is gay, but I’ve never had feelings for the same sex before. What do I do?

Answers: 4 | Last Answer: November 15th, 2017

Why do people think my sexuality is a mental disorder and/or invalid?

Answers: 21 | Last Answer: November 14th, 2017

How can I support my friend who is transgender?

Answers: 32 | Last Answer: November 14th, 2017

I'm emotionally attracted to men and women but only sexually attracted to men. Is there a word for that?

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: November 13th, 2017

How do I come out as gray-a and it explain it to others?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 13th, 2017

Why do others feel the need to invalidate my sexual/gender/romantic identity?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: November 13th, 2017

What are some ways to navigate a romantic (non-sexual) relationship in such a sex-obsessed culture? Sometimes it's hard to avoid anxiety, stress, or feeling "fake."

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: November 13th, 2017

I don't identify as either gender consistently. What does this mean?

Answers: 24 | Last Answer: November 13th, 2017

I am currently in the closet transitioning FTM any advice?

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: November 12th, 2017

How can I determine my sexuality without having had any romantic attraction yet?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 10th, 2017

Am I in love or emotionally attached to my best friend?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 10th, 2017

How can I come out as a pansexual?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 9th, 2017

How do I tell my family I'm gay?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 9th, 2017

I am female and attracted to women, but I have no desire to date or have sex with other women. What does this mean and am I still considered as bi?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 9th, 2017

How do I come out to deeply religious parents? My fiance's mother discovered..and may tell my mother. I'm so scared.

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 8th, 2017

I'm 42 yr old, a mom of 5. I have always ? my sexual orientation. In HS, i was a hoe, but didn't like it. I was mostly friends with guys, i was attracted to my female friends. Now I'm dreaming of

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 8th, 2017

I hate being gay. Help?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 8th, 2017

How can I stop hating myself for being bisexual?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 8th, 2017

I have had bad luck with boys, and I have dreamt about girls for this past year. I'm questioning my sexuality now because the thought of a girl and me doesn't sound all that bad. What does this mean?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 8th, 2017

what sexuality am i? Im a girl who likes boys and girls, but the girls have to dress tomboy. Just curious if that means anything?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 8th, 2017

Why does my gender/sexuality seem so complicated?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: November 8th, 2017

I am a nonbinary person who presents as masculine. I want to experiment with my presentation and try things that are more androgynous and/or feminine. Can you recommend some specific things to try?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: November 8th, 2017

Will my friends push me away if I tell them my sexual orientation?

Answers: 25 | Last Answer: November 8th, 2017

Why is it so hard to understand that gender isn't a binary?

Answers: 19 | Last Answer: November 7th, 2017

Where do you find other romantic asexuals? Or just other asexuals? It would be nice to have someone to talk to… because everyone else are so focused on sex.

Answers: 2 | Last Answer: November 6th, 2017

How can I know my sexuality?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: November 6th, 2017

What are some good things to have in place before coming out to your parents that might not be accepting?

Answers: 16 | Last Answer: October 31st, 2017

I don't know what my sexuality is. I sometimes like men, sometimes women other both but really often no one. What does that mean?

Answers: 8 | Last Answer: October 31st, 2017

When should I come out of the closet?

Answers: 43 | Last Answer: October 30th, 2017

Is it normal to have been really sure that you're trans, but then later feel more confused and unsure?

Answers: 4 | Last Answer: October 28th, 2017

How can I tell my same-sex friends that I am gay/lesbian/bi without them thinking I like them?

Answers: 25 | Last Answer: October 24th, 2017

What is the best way to come out to unsupportive parents?

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: October 17th, 2017

I'm not sure if I'm straight but I don't want to come out if I take it back in the future. What should I do?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: October 17th, 2017

Am I bisexual if I only get the urge to have sex with the same gender when I'm lonely?

Answers: 3 | Last Answer: October 17th, 2017

Why cant we just live in a world where everyone is treated as a human, regardless of sexuality?

Answers: 18 | Last Answer: October 17th, 2017

Would it be appropriate for me to tell people at work my sexual orientation?

Answers: 19 | Last Answer: October 16th, 2017

When is the best time to tell co-workers that you are gay?

Answers: 16 | Last Answer: September 26th, 2017

Why is it that people are so stuck on there being just 'female' and 'male'?

Answers: 23 | Last Answer: September 26th, 2017

How do you deal with homophobic, transphobic, hateful, and violent news stories against our community?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: September 25th, 2017

How do I know how to label myself?

Answers: 18 | Last Answer: September 25th, 2017

Am I really who I want to be?

Answers: 19 | Last Answer: September 25th, 2017

How can I know if the person I am in love with have my same sexual orientation?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: September 25th, 2017

If my partner is out of the closet and I'm not out yet, will this cause a lot of issues in our relationship?

Answers: 24 | Last Answer: September 19th, 2017

Why am I always concerned about what my sexual orientation is?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: September 19th, 2017

Why does being LGBTQ+ always have a stigma with being unfaithful in relationships?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: September 18th, 2017

What is the best way to come out to older relatives?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: September 12th, 2017

Do you have to accept the labels you're given? How can you avoid them?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: September 11th, 2017

Sometimes I really think I was meant to be a different gender, but then other times I really like my gender. What's wrong with me?

Answers: 36 | Last Answer: September 4th, 2017

Why am I gay?

Answers: 109 | Last Answer: September 4th, 2017

How can I know if I'm bisexual if I had only one-gender experiences?

Answers: 25 | Last Answer: September 4th, 2017

Are you born gay or is it society which makes a person gay?

Answers: 32 | Last Answer: August 31st, 2017

Do I have to label myself?

Answers: 39 | Last Answer: August 29th, 2017

I don't want the same things other people do. Is there something wrong with me? Am I broken?

Answers: 30 | Last Answer: August 28th, 2017

How can I help my parents to understand this is not a phase, this is just who I am?

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: August 28th, 2017

How can I spread LGBTQ awareness?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: August 22nd, 2017

I have always been confused on whether sexuality is attraction to a specific sex or a specific gender?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: August 22nd, 2017

Is it normal to not know who you actually are 100% till your an adult?

Answers: 25 | Last Answer: August 21st, 2017

My daughter is struggling with her sexual identity. Any advice on how to support her?

Answers: 31 | Last Answer: August 15th, 2017

How can my asexual friend be with her sexual boyfriend?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: August 14th, 2017

How can I tell if I am really ready to come out of the closet?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: August 14th, 2017

Is it wrong to be gay?

Answers: 75 | Last Answer: August 14th, 2017

Can I really go on with my life even if my family doesn't accept what I am?

Answers: 17 | Last Answer: August 7th, 2017

How can I come out to people in my school as bisexual?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: August 7th, 2017

What is the difference between pansexual and bisexual?

Answers: 37 | Last Answer: August 7th, 2017

What might help me figure out my sexual identity?

Answers: 20 | Last Answer: July 25th, 2017

How can I break the news to my conservative parents?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: July 24th, 2017

How do I deal with coming out to a Catholic family?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: July 24th, 2017

What's the best way to tell your friends you are homosexual?

Answers: 16 | Last Answer: July 18th, 2017

Has it been hard for other people, that are a part of the LGBTQ community, to have an open relationship in front of parents/ loved ones, even though they know you are LGBTQ?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: July 17th, 2017

How can I explain to my friends that me being attracted to girls (without sounding rude or mean) doesn't necesarily mean I like them?

Answers: 19 | Last Answer: July 17th, 2017

How can I tell what gender I prefer?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: July 11th, 2017

What is my sexuality ? Is it wrong ?

Answers: 17 | Last Answer: July 11th, 2017

What's the difference between Queer, Transgender and Intersex?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: July 11th, 2017

How do I sort out 'who I am inside' from the socialization that society has tried to impose on me?

Answers: 6 | Last Answer: July 4th, 2017

I'm a bi girl but I'm concerned that women won't want to date me because they'd think I'd leave them and men will think I'm a cheater or just want sex. How can I get past this fear?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: July 4th, 2017

Can be internalized homophobia the cause of anxiety ?

Answers: 3 | Last Answer: July 4th, 2017

How can I accept the fact that I'm a bisexual and not have it change my life?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: July 4th, 2017

How do you show your pride when you're constantly belittled or put down for your identity?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: July 3rd, 2017

Why is it so hard to figure out who I am, and who I want to be?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: July 3rd, 2017

Why am I attracted to people of the same gender?

Answers: 19 | Last Answer: July 3rd, 2017

How do you understand if you're gay or bisexual?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: June 27th, 2017

What's the best way to stop people making fun of you?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: June 20th, 2017

How can you tell if you are a boy or a girl, or something else entirely?

Answers: 204 | Last Answer: June 20th, 2017

I don't know if I feel like a guy, or feel like a girl. I only know that I feel like a kid. Would that make me agender?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: June 20th, 2017

How can I not lose my friends when coming out of the closet?

Answers: 26 | Last Answer: June 19th, 2017

Where can i meet others like me?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: June 6th, 2017

How can I know for sure that this is who I am, and not just a "phase" like some people have said?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: June 5th, 2017

Can I know my sexual orientation without having any romantic or sexual experiences?

Answers: 17 | Last Answer: June 5th, 2017

How can I get my parents and or family to use the right pronoun and name?

Answers: 17 | Last Answer: June 5th, 2017

What's the easiest way to come out of the closet?

Answers: 26 | Last Answer: May 30th, 2017

I am gay and I'm in love with a straight, what can I do?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: May 23rd, 2017

Why do I worry so much about putting myself in a box and labeling myself?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: May 23rd, 2017

Why do I feel the need to copy a stereotype so that I might get recognized as part of the LGBTQ community?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: May 23rd, 2017

Why do so many things have masculine or feminine connotations?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: May 22nd, 2017

How do I come out as asexual without people thinking something must have happened (hormonal, trauma, etc) to me?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: May 22nd, 2017

How can I be sure of my sexuality?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: May 16th, 2017

I would date both genders, but I only want sexual relations with one gender. Can someone please tell me what that is called?

Answers: 4 | Last Answer: May 15th, 2017

Why can't I just be "Normal"?

Answers: 28 | Last Answer: May 8th, 2017

What can I say to people that tell me that my sexuality can be "cured" or fixed?

Answers: 19 | Last Answer: May 8th, 2017

How can I be a great advocate for the trans community as a cisgender individual?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: May 2nd, 2017

How can I break into the LGBTQ dating scene, as I've recently come out and don't know many other LGBTQ women?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: May 2nd, 2017

Why do people think I'm different after they find out I'm bisexual? I'm still me.

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: May 1st, 2017

Are people born gay?

Answers: 17 | Last Answer: April 25th, 2017

It's not safe for me to Come Out yet. How can I make it easier, emotionally, to be in the Closet?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: April 11th, 2017

How do I tell my family about it without jeopardizing our relationship?

Answers: 7 | Last Answer: April 11th, 2017

How can I come out to my friends?

Answers: 16 | Last Answer: April 11th, 2017

I'm a survivor of child physical and sexual abuse: how do I know if I'm really trans, or if these feelings are just something coming from my traumatic background?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: April 11th, 2017

Will I learn to deal with the scrutiny I receive for my orientation?

Answers: 7 | Last Answer: April 11th, 2017

Why can't I feel comfortable publicly or openly loving who I love?

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: April 4th, 2017

Why can't I just be straight?

Answers: 18 | Last Answer: April 4th, 2017

Is there any way not to feel awkward when coming out?

Answers: 16 | Last Answer: April 3rd, 2017

What's the best way to cope with family members who will not accept your sexual orientation?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: March 28th, 2017

Why can't I love only one gender?

Answers: 20 | Last Answer: March 27th, 2017

How can I stop being the 'me' other people think I am?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: March 27th, 2017

How can I learn to accept and love who I am when I live in a town where almost everyone is homophobic?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: March 14th, 2017

How do I not fall for someone that is straight?

Answers: 18 | Last Answer: March 6th, 2017

As a bisexual woman, how do I combat biphobia in the dating sphere?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: March 6th, 2017

How will I ever be able to start my transition and become who I really am?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: March 6th, 2017

What if you come out, and everyone turns against you?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: February 27th, 2017

How does one reconcile themselves with a sexual fetish attraction that they only associate with negative things, and is at odds with their life? Is it possible fetish attractions can be changed?

Answers: 1 | Last Answer: February 14th, 2017

Am I wrong for being the way I am ?

Answers: 24 | Last Answer: February 7th, 2017

What is the best way to come out without making them hate me?

Answers: 18 | Last Answer: February 6th, 2017

What does feeling sexual attraction feel like?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: February 6th, 2017

I think that I am transphobic even though I am trans myself and I don't know how to get over this. Any help?

Answers: 4 | Last Answer: February 1st, 2017

Why do I have to tell my parents that I am queer but my straight friends do not have to tell their parents that they are straight?

Answers: 20 | Last Answer: January 23rd, 2017

I am married, so why am I attracted to other men?

Answers: 5 | Last Answer: January 16th, 2017

Is it hard to get acceptance from others? How to cope with intolerant people?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: January 9th, 2017

What if you don't want to be labeled, but you want to explore without people guessing?

Answers: 8 | Last Answer: January 9th, 2017

How can I come out to my parents?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: January 2nd, 2017

How should I discuss my sexuality with my therapist?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: January 2nd, 2017

i have always struggled with people who ask if they are genderless, i can't really get my head around it.

Answers: 17 | Last Answer: December 13th, 2016

Why do I have to constantly prove to people im Bi?

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: November 28th, 2016

Does gender dysphoria ever end?

Answers: 8 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2016

How can I come out to my dad if he is homophobic?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: November 21st, 2016

Why do I always feel like who I am is wrong and something I should be ashamed of?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: November 15th, 2016

Is it really ok to be different or do people just say that to make you feel better about yourself?

Answers: 26 | Last Answer: November 15th, 2016

What does it mean when you aren't attracted to anyone but you don't want to be alone?

Answers: 17 | Last Answer: November 14th, 2016

How have you dealt with biphobia and bi erasure within the LGBTQ community?

Answers: 6 | Last Answer: November 14th, 2016

What does it mean when you're demi? I never fully understood.

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: November 7th, 2016

Why are people so concerned with binary gender?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: November 7th, 2016

How can I tell the difference between aesthetic, romantic, and sexual attraction?

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: October 24th, 2016

I'm I actually like this or is a phase?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: October 24th, 2016

Why are the chances of finding someone to love in the LGBT community so slim ?

Answers: 19 | Last Answer: October 24th, 2016

Why do I seem to be attracted to my friends that are the same gender as me?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: October 11th, 2016

What its like being straight/heterosexual?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: October 10th, 2016

How can I find a partner suitable for dating?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: October 4th, 2016

How do you choose to come out in a conservative work environment?

Answers: 8 | Last Answer: October 3rd, 2016

How can I meet other LGBTQ people in a small and conservative town?

Answers: 15 | Last Answer: October 3rd, 2016

Does it make me annoying to tell my entourage about my sexuality?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: September 26th, 2016

Why can't my family and peers just accept that I was born into the wrong body?

Answers: 12 | Last Answer: September 20th, 2016

Why so people think it's right to treat us like we are less of a human being than they are?

Answers: 8 | Last Answer: September 13th, 2016

Why do I always feel like I am the wrong sexuality?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: September 12th, 2016

How do I know if what I'm feeling is something more than friendship related to my friend?

Answers: 7 | Last Answer: September 5th, 2016

How can i stop being abused by people for being gay?

Answers: 8 | Last Answer: August 26th, 2016

What is the best way to come out to your family?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: August 9th, 2016

How do I stop thinking about how other people are judging me?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: July 25th, 2016

Where can I find support when my parents aren't supportive of my identity and I don't have any LGBTQ friends either?

Answers: 16 | Last Answer: July 12th, 2016

Is love between certain people more legitimate than love between other people?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: July 12th, 2016

What's the best way to help your family understand your lifestyle?

Answers: 16 | Last Answer: July 12th, 2016

How do deal with the anxiety of possibly being targeted in a hate crime when out in public as a member of the LGBTQ community?

Answers: 5 | Last Answer: June 27th, 2016

What is the best way to get over the pain caused by close family such as a mom who is "repulsed" at the fact that her son/daughter is gay, but sends her love despite this "shortcoming"?

Answers: 7 | Last Answer: June 27th, 2016

How can I cope with my family not accepting me as being gay?

Answers: 10 | Last Answer: June 21st, 2016

How do I deal with having to hide my girlfriend from my parents? It's wrong, but I'd rather not be disowned by the two people in my life that mean the most to me.

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: May 31st, 2016

Where can I find information about the different identities?

Answers: 9 | Last Answer: May 31st, 2016

How can I explain to others my relationship with XXX person is a QPP (queerplatonic partnership)?

Answers: 8 | Last Answer: April 18th, 2016

Why are people questioning if being gay was a choice?

Answers: 14 | Last Answer: April 11th, 2016

How do I come out to someone I like romantically?

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: March 29th, 2016

Why can't I start to talk with my crush ?

Answers: 6 | Last Answer: February 23rd, 2016

How do I tell my parents I'm not straight without having them freak out/ kick me out/ hate me?

Answers: 11 | Last Answer: February 6th, 2016

How can I learn to accept myself?

Answers: 6 | Last Answer: January 26th, 2016

How can I feel safe as a lesbian in my community that is not accepting?

Answers: 6 | Last Answer: January 19th, 2016

Any advice or tips on how to support your aromantic partner but keep your relationship healthy?

Answers: 6 | Last Answer: January 19th, 2016

Why do we have to label our relationship?

Answers: 13 | Last Answer: December 28th, 2015

What are some good transgender resources?

Answers: 7 | Last Answer: December 14th, 2015

Where can I find information about gender identities?

Answers: 6 | Last Answer: November 25th, 2015

How do I find health care or mental health support that is trans inclusive?

Answers: 6 | Last Answer: November 14th, 2015

How do I express my gender identity in a way that fits with other parts of myself?

Answers: 6 | Last Answer: November 9th, 2015

How do I figure out if these feelings are real?

Answers: 7 | Last Answer: September 30th, 2015

Why can't I just be happy with what I have?

Answers: 6 | Last Answer: July 27th, 2015

How do I help my family understand that this is not choice for me?

Answers: 7 | Last Answer: July 6th, 2015

How Can I furgure our if I’m bisexual? or if it’s a phase

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

I think I'm asexual, but I'm not sure. Is there anyway to verify it?

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

What if called when you are both romantically and sexually attracted to women but I'm still romantically to men? I'm occasionally sexually attracted to men but only some days?

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

Hi my name is Taytay and by birth I am a girl , but I want to be a boy named kovu and I want to be like that but how would I tell my family and friends ? I am scared and any advi at all would be nice

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

How can I tell if Im bisexual or lesbian?

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

Why am I so different and a disgrace just for loving?

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

I'm a man and I feel comfortable in relationships with women, but I love to watch all male porn. I also love to wear women's lingerie. Does that mean I'm gay, bisexual or straight?

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

I’m non binary and I don’t know how to tell my teachers and school, any ideas?

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

How do i know if im a lesbian?

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

My husband said he was gay is it a phase or no?

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

I developed feelings for my straight friend. He says he likes men, but not sexually. I think he might have feelings for me. How would I know?

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

Why am I gay. I hate it. Why am I gay?

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970

Am I transgender? FtM

Answers: 0 | Last Answer: January 1st, 1970