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I dreamt about kissing someone of the same-sex, what does it mean ?

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luminousBlossom49
June 3rd, 2017 1:39pm
Dreams are just stories created by our collective thoughts in our minds. This couldve been a fragment of what you've seen somewhere or your sexual orientation. It will not have any specific meaning rather a display of our thoughts.
FeriWitch
June 4th, 2017 9:24pm
It could mean that you'd like some experiences with your own sex, or it could just be idle speculation. Things that happen in dreams don't necessarily mean "I want this to happen." Sometimes it means, "I wonder what that might be like," without any want attached to it. Only you can decide if your dream reflects in interest or just a passing thought. What you felt about it is more important than what happened in the dream.
creativePalm12
June 14th, 2017 11:10am
Personally, I don't think it means anything more than that, in life, we have natural curiosity for all sorts of things we see and experience, and sometimes that curiosity is expressed in dreams. I wouldn't automatically assume it means you're guy, but simply that you have a curiosity about that subject.
Anonymous
June 22nd, 2017 12:28am
It does not have to mean a specific thing, I mean.. maybe the dream was just, random? How did you feel after the dream, have you thought a lot about it. Was the dream realistic enough for you to consider doing in real life?
Anonymous
June 24th, 2017 9:38pm
It honestly depends. It might mean you have a preference for the same sex. It could also just be one of those dreams we have now and again that don't make much sense.
PrincessDove13
June 30th, 2017 6:20am
The best person to ask is yourself. In your real life awake, do you like same sex people? Do you ever see yourself having a potential for dating someonw of the same sex? Dreams can be very weird and many things happen in them, but they aren't always a reflection of our waking lives. Sometimes they mean something, other times they do not. Maybe try thinking this throufh with yourself to see if it has any meaning. :)
Anonymous
June 30th, 2017 1:53pm
Your dream does not have to mean anything unless you want it to. How do you feel about your dream? Do you want it to mean anything? What would you like for it to mean?
SethExplodes
July 6th, 2017 10:48pm
It may mean you are attracted to other people who of your gender. Homosexuality is nothing to be ashamed of!
marvelousFlute53
July 9th, 2017 9:02pm
It is okay, there is nothing wrong with kissing someone of the same-sex. It could mean a lot of things.
gracefulWatermelon91
July 26th, 2017 7:52pm
I believe it is a quite a normal thing to dream about something like this. It does not necessarily mean anything, a sexual curiosity about something we have not experienced is something that most people find themselves thinking about at some point or another.
Anonymous
August 9th, 2017 10:59pm
If this is the first time you've had a dream like this, maybe your brain is subconsciously telling you that you are attracted to the same sex. But try not to stress over a dream, it's what you feel when you're awake that's important.
kvo8
August 13th, 2017 4:02pm
I don't put much truth in dreams, sometimes your mind - especially while dreaming has thoughts based on things you have been exposed to. The dream might not mean anything at all, unless you think it might mean more. What matters is your thoughts and feelings while you're awake. If when you are awake, you have 0 thought or interest in the same-sex, then i wouldnt put much weight into your dream.
Georgia
August 26th, 2017 11:17pm
It could mean absolutely nothing, or it could mean a lot. Typically dreams are based off of things that have been on your mind subconsciously, and so if you watched a movie with a same-sex couple that could've caused the dream. However it could mean that you've been thinking about sexuality lately, and so that could've caused it. If you're worried about your sexuality you can always PM a listener and they'll be able to help you in more detail :)
Anonymous
September 2nd, 2017 9:13pm
Some dreams can deal with issues you don't have time to deal with in real life. It could be a sign that you would like to try a romantic relationship with a person of the same sex. It could also just be a dream. The best way to deal with it would be to do what you feel you would like to do
Anonymous
September 7th, 2017 2:12am
It might mean nothing, it might just be a dream; or it might mean that you are bi-sexual, pan-sexual, or gay / lesbian and maybe just weren't really aware of it before. At any rate I wouldn't worry about it. Sexuality is something that can be fluid, grow, and change with age; and we don't have to have all the answers right away. Try and enjoy it for what it was; and / or if you did / didn't enjoy it, then think of it as having learned something new about yourself. That you can have really interesting dreams! :)
Anonymous
October 19th, 2017 6:33am
This could mean nothing, but it could also mean you're attracted to the same-sex. This isn't wrong or weird, it's completely normal. If you want you can do some research on the lgbt+ community and maybe you are a part of it. Don't stress about putting a label on yourself right now, there are so many factors to this. Start by just researching and exploring.
Anonymous
November 5th, 2017 12:35pm
Thank you for sharing this with me! I think I should start off by saying this is very common in today Society a lot of people dream about fantasies of all kinds! Kissing someone of the same sex would basically fall into that same category! So basically you are not the only one to dream these thoughts! When human beings are born they are all created the same and one of the things you are born with is curiosity! So basically your mind is wandering with curiosity and to answer your question what does it mean? Nothing at all! The thing is sometimes people are afraid of things they do not understand when in fact there is nothing to be afraid of! Society tries to tell us that there are rules and regulations about things you can and cannot do but in the end we are all put on this Earth with curiosity and to live life to the fullest! The basic rules are if you are not hurting yourself or someone else there is nothing wrong with it! you have this dream and you are curious to pursue your dream! Then it is normal! If you do not like your dream it is also normal!
sophieishere
November 10th, 2017 1:56pm
Maybe this is your mind trying to tell you that you are curious as to what it feels like to be with the same-sex? It is nothing our the ordinary or anything weird. Maybe you should sit down and think if you have ever felt as though you have an attraction to the opposite sex and see if you feel as though you would like to act upon this?
Anonymous
November 15th, 2017 4:23pm
It could mean a variety if different things. Sometimes dreams don't always resemble real life situations and you don't always need to worry about what goes on in them.
caligulamAquarius
November 17th, 2017 3:25pm
It may mean that you are just expiriencing intrigue towards the same sex. It does not mean you are gay/bisexual, neccesarily. Many teens expirience this. It is completely normal.
Rebecca03
November 19th, 2017 8:19pm
What that means from my perspective is, that you're maybe questioning your sexuality and you could possibly be curious about finding yourself.
Cryptidchild
November 22nd, 2017 8:03pm
I personally don't think that dreams mean anything, if you're not bothered by that dream then I don't see any problem here.
creativeLeo281116
November 23rd, 2017 5:38pm
It may mean that you are attracted to someone and that you may be LGBT and that doesn't mean that you're definitely gay or lesbian it's a spectrum and it may mean that you are a different part of LGBT and that is perfectly okay
RiotRook1991
November 26th, 2017 3:45am
Not too much, dreams can be extremely strange and often make no sense. If dreaming of kissing of the same sex disturbs you, try and understand why, if it's because you feel repulsed at showing what you would feel is sexual compassion for the same sex, perhaps that's understandable. Another way of looking at it is that you might have the desire, no matter how slight, of affection with members of the same sex, not a bad thing, certainly something that shouldn't rule your life, not even for a day.
Anonymous
November 30th, 2017 2:23am
It could mean anything, something you possibly want to do or it could simply mean it's something that passed your mind the other day. On the Kinsey Scale of sexuality, you can see that rarely people are completely heterosexual or homosexual. In fact most people tend to fall inbetween!
LouisaCT
November 30th, 2017 4:08am
I can't tell you what it means, because dreams mean different things to each person. However if you know the person you were kissing maybe it could be telling you something about your relationship - not necessarily in a sexual or romantic way, but maybe you've drifted apart or you feel a need to become closer or reconnect? Maybe you are questioning yourself or your sexuality? Perhaps you have strange dreams in general and it really isn't a sign of anything? I can't tell what it means, so maybe journal about it and think on it :)
flowefulfi87
December 6th, 2017 11:48pm
My dream book says if you dream about some one you fancy you have some good coming youre way and if you dream about some one you dont like it means you have guilt but also some other people say if you dream about same sex gender you have luck on youre way.
honestabe26
December 10th, 2017 5:23am
It could mean many different things. Have you been questioning your sexuality? Have you thought about being with the same sex often? If either one of those, then it is possible you could be in the process of questioning. If you are questioning, you are not for sure whether or not you are LGBTQ+, and that is perfectly fine. It can take a while to figure out your sexuality. However, if you think/question about either little or no thoughts about what your sexuality is, it could just be a dream that did not mean anything. We all dream of things we never really think about sometimes.
Anonymous
December 12th, 2017 2:12am
That doesn't necessarily mean you are attracted to the same sex. Only you can know that for sure. A lot of straight people question their sexuality.
Debatablebean1789
December 21st, 2017 11:47pm
It could mean several things. It could mean that your curious about what being in a same-sex relationship feels like. It could mean that you watched something about same-sex relationships, could even just be hormones. If they are frequent, then I suggest experimenting safely with these thoughts. And remember, only experiment if it is safe to do so. If it could cause you harm, wait it out until you can safely do so.