What if you can't confront him?

That means fear! I should at least address it with my own self. I talk to my self about what I need to confront him with first, then I test those things if they are real or made up? is there a factual events that back those things I wan't to confront him with? are they about me? him? our relationship? is it Ok not to confront and live happily? what will happen if you didn't confront him? will they increased? your stress will rise up? your life will get darker? you will feel more uncomfortable? what are the risk of confronting? will get him mad and it will be hard to reconcile? I guess the problem is not in confrontation but in the communication between you that needs some fixing! Why your communication is poor? why things are building up without resolving or addressing? does he feel it? how his reactions? doesn't he feel the tension? doesn't he care to know what things are in your opinion? what is the impact of his behaviros in the relationship? doesn't he care? I think you need to talk to yourself first and to decide about either fixing the broken communication channel to gether or fixing the whole thing's structure! I just want to remind you that yourself is more important to you than any thing else. If you didn't have healthy feeling and satisfaction of the relationship you need to rethink the way you "both" "interact and live " in this relationship. I wish you all the best and hope you will soon get some clarity on the issue!