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Adult-Teen Listener Oath
by ArwaS
Last post
 July 3rd
...See more As an Adult-Teen Listener you become a part of this amazing community, the Teenside is a special place with so many different individuals. if you are an Adult-Teen Listener and would like to make a commitment to the Teenside, write this out below (you can copy and paste it, but that can take away from it) I (username), as an adult teen listener pledge, To understand that the teens in the community are not to be belittled or spoken down to. To support the teen community with the knowledge that I have as well as being open to learn, gain knowledge and skills from the teens. To guide the teens to take on their own initiatives and become their own leaders and not underestimate their potential for growth. To not pressurise the teens into doing anything they do not want to do, including encouraging offsite contact. To not overstep or overshadow the teens when supporting and guiding them, or monopolise within the teen community. To have a duty of care when caring for and supporting the teens in the community, so that I am not pushing boundaries and keeping the teen community safe and supportive. To be mindful of our speech and how it may be perceived, to not patronise or undermine anyone in the community no matter their age. To be responsible and to take accountability for my own actions. *Name* *Date* Please note that this is for Adult-Teen Listeners only, if you are a teen and would like to take an oath there is one here ~ goo.gl/CtBZj1 [https://goo.gl/CtBZj1] ------------------------- This post is brought to you by the Teen Transition Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
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🌞Seventeen To Eighteen? Read on!
by MistyMagic
Last post
 May 23rd
...See more Many people may not be aware that here at 7 Cups we are divided into two parts. This is so we can keep all of our teens as safe as possible. Everyone 18 or over is on the ‘adult side’ which is fondly called the ‘oldie side’. And the ‘teen side’ which is populated with teens:- Teen members aged 13-17 Teen listeners aged 15-17 And also with adults called ‘ATL’ (adult - teen listeners) who are aged 18 + but who have been approved by the admin team to listen to teens. They will have the ATL badge by their name in the rooms and on their profiles. You can read more about them further down this post. As you know 7 Cups reaches world-wide! As such different cultures can have different terminology about when a person reaches adulthood, for 7 Cups this is on the 18th birthday! It might be called ‘transitioning’ from teen to adult, or it might be ‘aging-up’, or it could just be the beginning of adulthood. For some, reaching twenty-one is a more auspicious age when they reach adult status!  Did you know that we have a special team of listeners called Teen Transition Mentors? [https://forms.gle/RTZTeNxyFBeehz2eA] These are a team of listeners that specialize in supporting teens during the time when they approach their 18th birthday and after. We can offer support in the form of information about what changes to expect, or perhaps by helping guide you through the adult side.  Here is the link to request a Teen Transition Mentor (TTM) to reach out to you  https://forms.gle/RTZTeNxyFBeehz2eA [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://forms.gle/RTZTeNxyFBeehz2eA&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1767456448255367&usg=AOvVaw1hGAqc0O9vYb1Hf13VH_9h]  Helpful Links for Turning 18 FAQ helpful tips about aging-up https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/TeenTransitionFAQs_337189/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/TeenTransitionFAQs_337189/]    About ATL (Adult - Teen Listener) https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/]  Why you should become an ATL, because . https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/?p=3 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/?p=3]  Helpful FAQs about the group support rooms FAQ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/FrequentlyAskedQuestionsGroupSupport_215692/?p=2]  Changes to Group support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/ChangestoGroupChatStructuretoFosterCommunity_335497/] Community Mod Schedule [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/CommunityModeratorsLounge_2143/CommunityModSchedule_318786/] Don't forget to join and visit the Aging-Up Support Community forums to keep updated about all things aging-up! https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/]   Don’t forget to click the Join+ button to support the community and get notifications also add your name to the taglist to be tagged in future posts https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/AgingUpSupportCommunityTaglist_351372/ Answer our questions about turning 18 https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/Turning18_350981/?post=3843020 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/Turning18_350981/?post=3843020]
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2026 - All About 18! and Aging Up! ✨
by MistyMagic
Last post
 January 13th
...See more Celebrate Your 18th Birthday With Us! This is the beginning of a new year and for many of you this will also mark the beginning of a new episode of your life - Adulthood - when you reach 18! At 7 Cups when you reach 18 you will be switched to the adult 18+ side. This happens at midnight 12:00 GMT.*  Why 12:00 GMT? I have no idea, but it has to be some time so why not lol? ~ What is the Teen Transition Mentor Team ~ We have a whole team on hand to offer you support. The Teen Transition Mentor Team (TTM) has the knowledge and information needed to support you through all changes. - We can answer all your questions - We can buddy you when you visit the 18+ chatrooms. - We can show you how to keep in contact with your teen friends - We can offer support and share knowledge of the differences between teen-side and 18+ side Here is the Request Form https://forms.gle/WymZKAHD7SnVDpnLA [https://forms.gle/WymZKAHD7SnVDpnLA]   Just a short form to fill in. and then a teen transition mentor, or one of the team, will reach out to you and answer all your questions, and support you through the process. It’s fun and friendly, and together we can make it better! Here are some more information posts to help you during this time:- Growing Old Is Compulsory, Growing Up Is Optional! 17 - 18 years old? Read on Here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/SeventeenToEighteenReadon_353203/] The Aging Up Support community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/] Aging Up Support Thread [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportThread_216653/] Join the Aging Up Support tag list here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/AgingUpSupportCommunityTaglist_351372/] Review your TTM or give team feedback [https://forms.gle/m3Kbqwyo6PWJtVX68] ~ What is an ATL ~ You will see these three letters A T L in lots of places, including profiles, and in the teen rooms. The listeners that hold this badge are all 18+ and they have been trained to listen to teens and adults. They have had a background check and an interview with an admin. Here is a post all about ATL’s Here is the ATL application form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewformhttps://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewform] Join the TTM Team When you are an ATL you will then become eligible to join the TTM Team and share your wisdom and knowledge of the aging-up process and help support other teens. Here is the form to apply to be a TTM https://forms.gle/UQyQ4JtmenxZCscy8 [https://forms.gle/UQyQ4JtmenxZCscy8]  We look forward to sharing this exciting time with you! *Rarely, there will be a few of you, members that joined us at a young age, who will be switched to the adult side at the end of their birthday month. This is because we never used to ask members their birth day, only their birth month and year. Now we ask for a full birthdate. So now we can move people exactly on their birthday.
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The First Thing . . . .
by MistyMagic
Last post
 May 1st
...See more Hey Everyone! Time for an ice-breaker, check-in, fun question .  .  .  What was, or is, the first thing You are going to say, do, or eat when you are 18? 😀The first thing I am going to say is 💃The first thing I am going to do is 😍The first thing I am going to eat is If you could organise anything for your 18th what would you choose?
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✨✨December Sparkles! ✨✨
by MistyMagic
Last post
 December 8th, 2025
...See more ✨✨December Sparkles! ✨✨ There is always something special about December and this time I am saying anything that sparkles goes! Yes, I love sparkly things, just look at my butterfly! But, also, sparkles are so playful, they keep us young and having fun. ✨ So what do you love about December? ✨  Or, do you prefer another month? ✨ 1. Tell us one thing about yourself that is fun, or cool, or just typical of you! ✨  ✨ 2. What are you glad to say goodbye to this year? ✨  ✨ 3. What are you looking forward to next year! ✨  ✨ 4. What might you decide to change next year starting January 1st? ✨ 
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Aging Up Support Community Taglist! 2026
by MistyMagic
Last post
 October 9th, 2025
...See more Taglist! Welcome  to the  Aging Up Support Community Taglist The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. These are people that recently showed interest in this community, so if you would prefer not to be tagged in future then please just reply below and let us know. Taglist https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/ @andrewtan99 @Aninfp @AsilentObserver @AquaNyo303 @daydreammemories @fossilfellow @Kayleethecatlover @Mino1522 @MistyMagic @NobleSeeker @PeanutbutterTheSystem @JoyfulAndSpacious @bloom126 @brightApricot4820 @determinedHuman6138 @Heather225 @hopefulSmiles6137 @jaboo @nide12 @njjjj @pikaTangerine1 @shadowbeing @soulsings @starryWillow9852 @sweetsummerday @sympatheticMoon3961 @torakkii @wishfulWillow7295 
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Here's To Our Aging-Up Taureans♉ and Geminis♉!🎊
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Last post
 October 3rd, 2025
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys,  I want to take this chance to celebrate and wish a happy (late/early) birthday to those who have aged up (or going to) this month * throwing petals and giving cookies*. The adult side is greeting and welcoming you with wide open arms! Wish the best for you in life and living in happiness, health, and wealth. Happy birthday!! (Now, make a wish😃) Please, feel free to share with us: 1) How did your birthday go for you? 2) Anything special happened or was done that made your day even more? 3) Since it's your 18th birthday, how do you feel about it? Is it any different? * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
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Now or Not - School or not?
by MistyMagic
Last post
 August 15th, 2025
...See more Open To All! So let's ask a few questions.  The questions can have any letter in . .  But the answer cannot have an  N or O in it! So no NO! So for instance:- Q. Which month are you turning 18 and aging up? A. Which is November but that word contains N and O 😲😞😶🤭 but which  can't be used so we might say. .  A. I age up a few weeks after October!💜💯 Or Q. What do you want for your 18th birthday? A. A car! 💯 A. A. Party 💯 A. A new laptop ✖️ A. Another pair of trainers✖️ Get the idea?        ✖️💯✖️💯✖️💯✖️💯✖️💯✖️ Q. Where do you want to go on holiday?
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Transition Support Prompt #1: What are your biggest fears and concerns about transitioning from being a teenager to an adult?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 February 10th, 2025
...See more Hello everyone and I hope you are all having a bit easier week. How are you all feeling? I am starting the Prompt Series with the goal can share our transitioning thoughts & challenges and supporting each other by responding to the comments and thoughts in this thread. Today's prompt is: What are your biggest fears and concerns about transitioning from being a teenager to an adult? I know how transitioning can be worrisome and draining for one's well-being. But please know you are not alone and you have all of us here to listen to and support. Take a moment to share your thoughts and discuss with or support others as well. Also, you can request a Transitioning Mentor to support and guide you as well! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] -------------------------
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Welcome to the Adulthood! You've got this
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 June 20th, 2024
...See more Hello and welcome all to the adult side of life & community! I am Obs and I can understand how exhilarating and transformative a journey can be. As you start a new phase, I want you to know that you are not alone. We are all here with you to support and guide you as you navigate the world of adulthood. Transitioning from being a teenager to becoming a young adult can feel overwhelming at times, but trust me when I say that it is also an incredible opportunity for growth and self-discovery. As you spread your wings and embrace your newfound independence, remember that we're all here to help you along the way. In this post, I'll be sharing three initial resources that you can explore and use:  * Request for Transition Support through this form: [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] It will allow you to pair with a transition mentor to help and guide you through the transition, your questions, and queries related to the adult side.  * Check out the Self-esteem discussion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/selfesteem/BuildingSelfesteemseries_2655/BuildingSelfesteemSelfesteemandallthatitimpacts_321258/] to learn more about self-esteem and how you can improve it.  * Take your steps to explore group chats [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] to seek and receive support.  Please know, that adulthood is a journey, not a destination. There will be bumps along the road, there will be moments of doubt, and that's totally okay. The key is to embrace the ride, learn from your mistakes, and never stop evolving. Once again, welcome to the adult side! Embrace the journey, stay curious, and never stop growing. Together, let's make the most of this exciting phase of life. We've got this! Note: This thread will be the welcoming space to meet fellow teens who transitioned every week, so please subscribe to the thread and welcome & connect with your transitioned group to support each other while we together navigate the adult side.   P.S. If you have any tips or resources for fellow new adults, share them in the comments below! Let's build a supportive community where we can all thrive and shine together. -------------------------
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New fun weekly sessions - Wednesdays 6pm ET
by wishfulWillow6962
Last post
 December 27th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone who is reading this, I am excited to announce a new weekly session that will be starting this week! This will be a time for us to gather together to play games – all teen members and listeners are welcome, along with any ATLs who would like to join us. These sessions will be held in the Support Session at 6 pm ET on Wednesdays. The first session will be held this Wednesday (6th December). This room will be opened around 5:50 pm ET each week. The first session will be more of an introductory session although a game may be played as well. I hope to see some of you there! Also, if you have any suggestions on games you would like to play during these sessions, you are welcome to either share them below or drop me a message. 
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Dear Adult Me...💭🖋️
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 November 9th, 2023
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and here we are with another icebreaker! Aging up is another roller-coaster ride in life, and for those who are about to go through it, or still a newbie in this new phase, you better watch out for what's coming your way! New stage, new start, new goals, and maybe a new you. " Is it going to be for the best or the worst?" Well... stay tuned. So, our icebreaker for today is: What would you -your teen self- like to say to your adult self? It could be anything; make it deep, meaningful, funny, honest, sarcastic etc. as long as it comes from your heart. Alright! Let's start this with: " Dear Adult me..." * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.
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Transition Support Prompt #3: What kind of person do you want to become as you enter adulthood?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 September 18th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone, I hope you are all being easy on yourself this week. Last week we discussed: How do you plan to prioritize your well-being as you become an adult? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/TransitionSupportPrompt2Howdoyouplantoprioritizeyourwellbeingasyoubecomeanadult_311507/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt12Doyoufeelpressuretoconstantlyachieveandexcelatworkduetoanxiety_308224/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt11Doyouthinktherearecertainpersonalitytypesthataremorepronetofeelingmisunderstoodordismissed_307445/]Thank you to all who participated and shared their thoughts for discussion. I enjoyed them. I hope you all did too. If you didn't share yours, please share them here and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/TransitionSupportPrompt2Howdoyouplantoprioritizeyourwellbeingasyoubecomeanadult_311507/] This week's prompt: What kind of person do you want to become as you enter adulthood? This week I want us to reflect and explore the thoughts of the person we want to become as we age up and grow. Imagine your best future self and share what kind of person you may want to be. Are there any specific personal or professional achievements you hope to accomplish? Let's get started and all thoughts are welcomed! Also, you can request a Transitioning Mentor to support and guide you as well! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform]
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Transition Support Prompt #2: How do you plan to prioritize your well-being as you become an adult?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 August 29th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone, I hope you are all being easy on yourself this week. Last week we discussed: What are your biggest fears and concerns about transitioning from being a teenager to an adult? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/TransitionSupportPrompt1Whatareyourbiggestfearsandconcernsabouttransitioningfrombeingateenagertoanadult_311246/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt12Doyoufeelpressuretoconstantlyachieveandexcelatworkduetoanxiety_308224/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt11Doyouthinktherearecertainpersonalitytypesthataremorepronetofeelingmisunderstoodordismissed_307445/]Thank you to all who participated and shared their thoughts for discussion. I enjoyed them. I hope you all did too. If you didn't share yours, please share them here and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/Anxiety_2560/WeeklyPrompt13Doyoufinditdifficulttoembraceyourimperfectionsandacknowledgeyourstrengths_310434/?post=3337350https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/TransitionSupportPrompt1Whatareyourbiggestfearsandconcernsabouttransitioningfrombeingateenagertoanadult_311246/] This week's prompt: How do you plan to prioritize your well-being as you become an adult? This week I want us to reflect and explore the importance of self-care and mental health. Let's get started and all thoughts are welcomed! Also, you can request a Transitioning Mentor to support and guide you as well! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] -------------------------
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Here's to our Aging-Up Geminis ♊ and Cancers ♋! 🎊
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Last post
 June 27th, 2023
...See more Hello Hello! This is Dys, and I'm a Teen Transitioning Mentor. I want to take this chance to celebrate and wish a happy (late/early) birthday to those who have aged up (or going to) this month * throwing petals and giving cookies*. The adult side is greeting and welcoming you with wide open arms! Wish the best for you in life and living in happiness, health, and wealth. Happy birthday!! (Now, make a wish😃) Please, feel free to share with us: 1) How did your birthday go for you? 2) Anything special happened or was done that made your day even more? 3) Since it's your 18th birthday, how do you feel about it? Is it any different? * * * Thanks for participating. If you're a teen about to age up or have recently aged up, or a recently badged ATL, don't hesitate to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] for any queries or concerns you've got in mind, and you'll be paired up with a TTM asap.

Hey Everyone!


✨Welcome to the Aging-Up Support Community! ✨


This is the place to find out everything about aging-up on 7 Cups. 

From 17 years old we can support you and guide you through the process and then build your confidence and self-esteem. If you are newly 18, a new ATL, or someone that is just interested in learning more about the teenside and the adult side of Cupsworld then this is the right place.

Read on for  . . . .

  • Information about the TTM Team
          (that’s the Teen Transition Mentor Team)

  • Information about ATL’s
       (that’s an Adult Teen-Listener)
    How to apply and what they can do!

  • Information about aging-up (that’s what 7 Cups call the period of transition from 17 years old to 18 years old.)
     

  • Find out all the in’s and out’s and also share with others your tips and tricks!


Please follow the usual guidelines for 7 Cups forums - Rules can be found in detail Here 

And, please be aware that 7 Cups is accessible by youngsters so everything has to adhere to our Community Guidelines https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/ 


Community Guidelines

Hey Everyone!


✨Welcome to the Aging-Up Support Community! ✨


This is the place to find out everything about aging-up on 7 Cups. 

From 17 years old we can support you and guide you through the process and then build your confidence and self-esteem. If you are newly 18, a new ATL, or someone that is just interested in learning more about the teenside and the adult side of Cupsworld then this is the right place.

Read on for  . . . .

  • Information about the TTM Team
          (that’s the Teen Transition Mentor Team)

  • Information about ATL’s
       (that’s an Adult Teen-Listener)
    How to apply and what they can do!

  • Information about aging-up (that’s what 7 Cups call the period of transition from 17 years old to 18 years old.)
     

  • Find out all the in’s and out’s and also share with others your tips and tricks!


Please follow the usual guidelines for 7 Cups forums - Rules can be found in detail Here 

And, please be aware that 7 Cups is accessible by youngsters so everything has to adhere to our Community Guidelines https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/ 


Read the 7 Cups Guidelines
Community Leaders
Community Mentor Leader
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Community Resources

ATL Application Tips 


ATL Application Form


ATL Info and Criteria


ATL Frequently Asked Questions



ATL CRITERIA
Basic Requirements

In addition to that, a few more criteria

  • Full legal name

  • To verify identity, you would need to submit a photo of 1 government ID. (Please send the ID via email to bookworm4@7cups.com)

  • Successfully complete a video call interview with a community leader

  • If you reside in the USA, you will need to provide a phone number for safety check purposes. If you do not live in the USA, this is NOT required.


You Should Become an ATL Because . .

Teen Transition Supporter


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