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August 2022 Community Update!

User Profile: GlenM
GlenM September 1st, 2022

Hello Crew!


I hope you all are well!

I’ve been thinking of this idea that I wanted to share with you all. I’ll make a more comprehensive post soon, but wanted to drop here to get some initial feedback and to ask you all to percolate and maybe experiment with me on it.

Here is the gist of it. Approach as many conversations or relationships as you can with the intention of believing and hoping for the best for the other person. This could be a person you chat with at a store, a family member, a friend, or even a person that you don’t particularly enjoy being around.

It is a pretty simple process. When you start talking with a person, settle in and allow yourself to relax. Don’t make any asks of them. Then, allow yourself to feel/experience/hope for the best for that person. Whatever that person naturally wants or hopes to happen; just allow yourself to go along with that and see what happens.

If you want to join me in this, then try it out for a few weeks. I’ll make a post soon and we can share ideas and iterate on the ideas.

One other quick announcement. We have season 2 of huddles starting up soon. If you like small groups and a tight knit group of people to help you, then I highly recommend them. Connect with @soulfullyabutterfly to learn more.

Thank you!
Glen

Heather (H)

This month I launched a new open chat event led by myself to answer questions about the site with a focus on welcoming and guiding newbies, both members and listeners, and providing live support to the community. Held on both teen and adult side, it received positive reception so if feedback continues to be good I will consider increasing the frequency of them and/or extending the length. Here’s the initial announcement post. I am aiming for the second Thursday of each month, but keep an eye on my space for confirmation.

I’d also like to draw your attention to this month’s spotlighted leaders: jersey123456 LavenderHere and Izzy274. Please give them a moment of your time to reply, and if there’s a leader out there you feel deserves recognition, please fill out this form!

And as always, thank you to everyone who has continued to utilize our official feedback form! We strive to incorporate your feedback, whenever possible, into how we grow to keep building our ideal community. We have gleaned a great deal of helpful insight from your submissions and will continue to implement suggestions that are actionable. Tech items are raised for consideration to our dev team and all domain-related feedback is also relaid to the respective leads. If you have any questions about your feedback, you can always drop me an email at heather.nelson@7cups.com.

Laiba (Hope)

In academy news, we have been focusing on providing more support to our enrolled trainees. The academy team has been working on providing group check-ins for academy trainees which can be attended by graduates and mentors. We trailled the check-ins and decided on these times. These sessions happen weekly on the following days and times.

  • 6:00 PM - 7:00 PM ET Wednesday (Adults)

  • 11 AM - 12 PM ET Thursday (Adults)

  • 4:00 PM - 5:00 PM ET Sunday (Adults)

  • 9:30 AM - 10:30 AM ET Thursday (Teens)

  • 11 AM - 12 PM ET Wednesday (Teens)

All academy trainees/interns, graduates and mentors are welcome to participate in these check-ins. You can attend them in the academy hub room, available to academy associated users. If you wish to host them, please express interest here. We are very grateful to @GoldenNest2727, @SirenOfSerenity and @yourbuddy30 for leading our very first sessions and making this initiative a possibility.

Additionally, we now have two fresh academy materposts with the latest academy programs information. You can view the post for members here and click here for listener’s post. Credit to @Soulfullyabutterfly for helping shape these posts.

Ending the update with a fun academy fact! The 7 Cups Academy has had 1278 graduates and currently has 404 enrolled trainees/interns.

Obs

In the Group Support news, we were working on a few initiatives and progressed. Teen Take Over, Scheduled Discussions, Teen Positivity Discussions, Introduction of Health Care Workers Support Session are a few to name. All the members who participated in them so far, finding them meaningful and impactful experiences. Check here for what community has to say about these sessions & Sharing Circles. We are working further on scaling it up and diversifying the topics to bring support on all issues.

On the Listener Chatroom front, we are making a lot of progress. Some upcoming ones are introduction of Chat Supporter Refresher Quiz, Checklist for new chatroom leaders, swiftening the applications processing and onboarding. Also, we working on bringing new leaders.

On the Recruitment news, we onboarded 2 new Group Support Mentor Leaders. Both Bunny and Lou are already making some progress on the ideas they started working to improve and strengthen their tracks. On the communication front, we built a Room Supporter / Moderator dashboard for better communication, problem solving, brainstorming and alignment in actions and steps as a team. A big big shout out to all the team members for making it helpful for new leaders.

SoulfullyAButterfly

This month marked the successful completion of our Huddles project! A Huddle is a closed group where the same participants meet up to provide continuous support and social connection to each other over multiple weeks. Huddle sessions are held once a week for 8 weeks in a private group chat with trained facilitators, and Huddlers also have a private forum space to maintain connections in between scheduled meetings. We have successfully completed the Huddle journey with 6 closed groups and are now looking forward to launching Season 2 of Huddles with some better modifications!

At the moment, we have launched the facilitator sign-up phase so that we can start prepping for the next round of Huddles. This also includes the opportunity to host the very first prospective teen Huddle. To consider volunteering to host a Huddle for your idea, click here to sign-up. You can also find the teen Huddle information here if you are an ATL or Teen Listener/Leader.

Our Huddles have helped us experience closer connections amongst community users and we would like to find more ways to maintain that. One new thing which we will roll out starting next month is a monthly community-wide challenge involving a mix of all the great features we have at 7 Cups. Stay tuned for a notification to subscribe to the September challenge with a gratitude theme.

For translation projects, we are focusing on completing the following app projects: Arabic, Chinese, French (general), German, Hindi, Portuguese, Spanish and Turkish. These are all above 90% completed so if you would like to help us get to the finish line please sign up here.

CheeryMango

Our forum restructuring efforts have been ongoing for the past month. The community was updated on the status of the ongoing forum restructuring. You can read it here if you missed it. There will be numerous opportunities for you to share your suggestions and also help with testing out new features in the coming weeks. Please keep an eye out for the information.

All subcommunity leadership applications will be reopened in the next week, once all final changes are completed.

As always, please use this thread to provide any feedback, suggestions on forum functionality (functions, features, utility, any technical aspects only) or bugs that you encounter.

EvelyneRose

We are making great strides in quality assurance. The Anonymous Evaluations Team has reached an impressive 800 evaluations for the month with only 16 teammates. They will be soon partnering with the Verified Listener program to create a robust partnership to bolster quality in our listener community. These plans will be announced soon. Interested in joining? Please contact @FrenchMarbles or @InternalAcceptance for details.

The Care Team and Listener Coaching Team are expanding, and requests are increasing to expand care across the Listener community. Interested in joining? Please contact @Chevy81!

SPOT is restructuring and revamping and is in need of a few people to help out! Interested? Contact @Rebekah or @Midnightraven999.

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User Profile: SoulfullyAButterfly
SoulfullyAButterfly September 1st, 2022

@GlenM Thanks for sharing! Love the idea of being there for the person only - analyzing our thoughts that do come up during this process helps us understand bias or other factors that we can work on to strengthen our active listening. I usually take this approach and feel like your process is a good way to practice getting there.

Really excited about all this progress and Season 2 of Huddles!

User Profile: Ru3z
Ru3z September 1st, 2022

@GlenM i like it the idea's and the updated info thank you so much for letting us know :) have a wonderful day you guys!

User Profile: HopefulBambi
HopefulBambi September 1st, 2022

Thank you for the community update!

User Profile: Happy900
Happy900 September 1st, 2022

@GlenM Thanks for the updates.

I love how you keep the community updated, on what is happening.

I enjoy reading your updates.

Very educational and thought producing.


User Profile: EmbStitcher33
EmbStitcher33 September 1st, 2022

So happy to hear there will be a season 2 for Huddles. Enjoyed the first one very much.

I tried the 'being there' today. Noticed D wouldn't give me much eye contact across the table at the restaurant when I was talking to him. Annoyed me. But I remembered reading your post just before we left so I just swallowed it. When he talked to me, he did give me eye contact. I just let it slide. So, I didn't say anything...sometimes I do and it only serves to irritate him...lol. So for the sake of good air between us, I kept my mouth shut...lol.

Setting intentions for others makes me think of how I do that when I see or hear an ambulance or police car going by with lights and siren blaring. Since my dad was killed in a traffic accident I'm more mindful of what can happen on the streets or highways. I say a prayer for strength, patience and healing - for the one who may be hurt, I say a prayer for them for healing, for the emergency workers I pray for appropriate skill and patience. If it's a lone police car I pray they have patience for whoever they encounter, awareness to be safe, and strength to deal with any situation that might be strongly emotional for them to face.


User Profile: HealingTalk
HealingTalk September 1st, 2022

@GlenM

I love the idea of befriending strangers "with the intention of believing and hoping for the best for the other person.", spreading Kindness.

This reminds me of the "Loving Kindness" (Maitri of Metta) practice of Theravada Buddhism, which cultivates the hope for the best for other people, starting with a loved one, then expanding the circle, to us, to neutral people, to annoying people (and even if possible to people that hurt us).

There is a guided meditation by Tara Brach in the 7 Cups "Mindfulness Exercises" section:

https://www.7cups.com/exercises/mindfulness685/

The version I like the most is by Pema Chodron: https://youtu.be/PRhkrQFbERs?t=1100

So in this spirit, of spreading kindness, and the aspiration for the well-being of the people we encounter in our lives, it seems a wonderful ideato me, that might also improve our well-being as a side effect.

I happily join the "challenge" and will report back in a few weeks.

User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou September 2nd, 2022

@GlenM

This idea sounds pretty interesting, something like a "meet people from where they are, without any expectations or assumptions, just a natural flow". Looking forward to hear more on it. ❤

@CheeryMango

"You can read it here if you missed it."

"here" seems to miss the link intended, I'm guessing it's this one- https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/Siteupdatesandchanges_2007/ForumRestructuringTimelineandUpdatesCommunityVersion_284231/


Thankyou for the updates. Always great to see our community flourishing. ❤ Way to go, team.


User Profile: SparkyGizmo
SparkyGizmo September 2nd, 2022

@GlenM

Hi O.G.! 😊❤️ Oh my gosh! This sounds so amazing and I must say, the universe does work in mysterious ways! I had a conversation with someone, just yesterday 😳, about self fulfilling prophecy and the power of positive thinking! I spoke of thought replacement or reframing the thought. As for me, I think there is much to be said for assuming the best of others. 😊❤️😊

Everything goes wrong? Nothing goes right? Sometimes the common denominator in all of it, could simply be us. I think this is actually good news! 😊 Where ever you go.......there you are, and so changing all of your friends or where you live or your job could require a great deal of energy and could potentially yield all of the same outcomes.

The only thing we can control is ourselves. So.......what if the thing in the equation that changes is simply us? That sounds much easier than changing others. If we change, maybe others will also, based on how we "receive them" and how we "perceive them" ❤️

I'm really excited about your social experiment, interested in reading your next post that will come along in regard to this and really excited to hear everyone's feedback to see if through changing their outlook, if the world around them ends up changing right along with it. I even have to wonder if someones personal happiness increases and ergo quality of life, right along with it.

Dr. Seuss "Oh, the places we'll go". 😊❤️😊

Thank you everyone for the great work that you do for our community as well as all of the updates!

*high fives* 😊 and *hugs* ❤️

User Profile: Tyedyedbutterfly65
Tyedyedbutterfly65 September 3rd, 2022

@GlenM Thanks for the updates ! You all rock!

@GlenM- I have read and reread and even read it to my Hubby and said this-- Should we not be doing this and haven't we been doing this all along ?? He replied with- This is Christianity .. I do agree with him ! ❤️

I would hope that people are doing this already as Listeners and as People out there in the world. I am the type that never meets a stranger I smile at everyone and say Hello and ask how they are and I stop people all the time and say things like You are so sweet, kind , Beautiful !

Now after knowing someone for some time yes of course you can see how they may be or we may think they are and form opinions right ?..

I am so open and outgoing but I did not use to be so for me I am gonna listen to everyone and yes talk I am a talker too lol as some may know here. I love to Listen to others Life Stories .

I just hope and Pray people here as listeners are being KIND to others and really do Listen with their ears, mind, heart and soul.

I may not agree with some here on some things and may not believe some should have some roles they have but that is part of who we are and because I may think this does not make what I think right nor true.. Because I could be wrong ! 😜😋👍 which is rare for me to be wrong ! hahahaa!

Anyway I do wanna see more about what you are meaning and sharing with us all!

Thanks so much for a great site !

Tye

Oh and do I know some may think I should not be in some roles of course I do but that is okay we are who we are and that is what makes us Unique! Special and Imperfect ( perfection does not exist ). Wait my son is my grandson is and My Lord is ❤️

User Profile: Hope
Hope September 7th, 2022

The reminder is refreshing! I think as humans we get so overwhelmed with our own lives that it is easy to forget everyone around us is also carrying their own burdens.

It is a good practice overall. It helps one think of others and doing good in any way is a wonderful practice. I have been attempting this for a little while and have found that it helps me feel more positive about the world.

It benefits you, more than it benefits the other person.