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Introducing “The Way of the River” Series (Masterpost)

User Profile: GlenM
GlenM October 29th, 2025

Dear Community,

I’m excited to share this series with you. I’ve been working on these ideas - on and off - throughout my life. It is my best attempt at providing a map that I hope you all will find practical, helpful, and uplifting.

Like all things on 7 Cups, I see this as a conversation. Some of these points will resonate with you. Please let me know what parts you like or find meaningful. Some points will be less helpful. I’ll work to sharpen all of the points through dialog with you.

One other interesting piece of information - this series is the conceptual framework or underlying philosophy behind 7 Cups. I didn’t have all of these pieces when we started back in 2013. You all have been teaching me these concepts. Just recently, I’ve finally been able to articulate them.

Thank you again for teaching me these ideas and for helping me to refine them. Here is the guide to the series: 

The Journey

This series will have the following parts:

Part 1 - The River - Exploring life as a River 

Part 2 - Navigating Your Own Kayak: Learning to Steer Through Calm and Rapid Waters

Part 3 - Paddling Alongside Others: The Art and Practice of the Wounded Healer

Part 4 - Charting a Course for All of Us - Next steps on the Mission!

Part 5 - Understanding The River Map: Finding Your Flow

Each week, we’ll release new forum posts connected to these parts. 


This masterpost will include all links as they’re released, acting as your blueprint to navigate the full series.

This series offers insights on self-awareness, resilience, and compassionate connection. You will get to discuss, learn, and grow with others on the same path. We have also created the following badges that will help you keep track of your progress:

Badge 1: The First Paddle - For beginning your journey and taking your first step into The Way of the River. Please read and comment here to get this first badge. 

Badge 2: Kayaker - For learning to paddle through calm and rapid waters; finding balance in the flow.

Badge 3: River Fellow - For traveling alongside others - sharing compassion, strength, and understanding on the river.

Badge 4: River Guide - For completing The Way of the River and helping others navigate their own path.

Badge 5: The River Map - For exploring life’s river with curiosity, reflection, and an open heart.

River Guides are community members who’ve completed the journey and are invited to help support new participants who join later.



Ready to Get Started?

For each section in the series, please make one comment for yourself, and please comment on 2 other comments per thread.

1. Start the journey by completing part 1 here
2. Take the next step and start part 2 here
3. Part 3 can be found here.
4. Part 4 can be found here.
5. Part 5 is here.

We have a private space for those who wish to go deeper: “Way of the River” (adults only) - a small, safe group chat to help one another through the series, share personal insights, and discuss how we apply the lessons to our lives alongside peers.



📘 For all the links in one accessible google document, bookmark the Series Guidebook!

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User Profile: daydreammemories
daydreammemories October 30th, 2025

@GlenM

that's a really cool metaphor, and thought provoking! will be looking forward to it🙂💚

User Profile: Spiritriver
Spiritriver October 31st, 2025

@GlenM

I'm not usually inclined to join groups, but the name of this group got my attention.  Can you guess why? 😊 I do relate to life as a river.  It's useful, especially if one considers the huge variety of characteristics that a river may have, and degree of accommodation or resistance it can offer.  However, the main reason I chose the screen name is to remind me that my goal is to be like a river or channel of Spirit energy.  I've been using the screen name for over 20 years, and it continues to remind me of my purpose.  

Although I'm joining, I'm not sure if I'll be able to keep up, unless it's self-paced.  

Thanks for the idea and facilitating it.  

User Profile: GlenM
GlenM OP October 31st, 2025

@Spiritriver great to have you as a part of the crew here! yes, all self-paced - so follow your own current SpriritRiver! (great name 😊)

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User Profile: Hope
Hope October 31st, 2025

@GlenM

Thank you for taking the time to create this series. I can see that you have put a lot of thought and effort into doing so. These concepts are not easy to grasp or explain ,so teaching them is a labour of love. 


I feel like humans tend to spend a great majority of our lives resisting the reality of the situation. It is helpful for someone to acknowledge that yes it is painful, challenging and even downright devastating at times but it is what it is and here is how to make peace with it. 


I appreciate the fact that you have kept the main language open so that the concepts are still relevant to people who follow a specific faith. 


User Profile: GlenM
GlenM OP October 31st, 2025

@Hope so well said our resident Stoic! Thank you for all of the feedback and help!

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User Profile: thoughtfulSail5983
thoughtfulSail5983 October 31st, 2025

@GlenM 🌊 Part 2 Reflection — Navigating My Own Kayak

Right now, my river feels calm but quietly restless — like it’s whispering that change is near. There’s a gentle rhythm in the flow, yet every ripple reminds me that stillness and movement can coexist.

My rock → My teacher: Uncertainty → Trust.
The unknown used to feel like chaos, but now I see it as a current guiding me somewhere I can’t yet see. I didn’t plan for certain chapters to end, but they taught me how to breathe even when the water gets rough.

When I tried the forgiveness ladder, I found a younger version of myself — small, scared, waiting for reassurance. I told her, “You’re safe now. You can let go.” That moment softened something in me I didn’t realize had grown hard.

Life leveled me up the day I stopped forcing the current and started flowing with it. I’m learning that surrender isn’t weakness — it’s the highest form of strength.

Today I’m grateful for the current that carried me through fear, into a deeper kind of faith — the kind that doesn’t need to see the shore to know it’s there.

✨ Key insight: Every rock I hit teaches me balance. Every rapid humbles me. And every calm reminds me that I’m still afloat — still learning, still becoming.

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thoughtfulSail5983 October 31st, 2025

@thoughtfulSail5983 didn't meant to post to this thread . sorryyyyy

User Profile: GlenM
GlenM OP October 31st, 2025

@thoughtfulSail5983 no worries! I see you posted on the other thread too, so I'll respond there!

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 5th, 2025

@thoughtfulSail5983

Great use of the analogy 🥰

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 5th, 2025

@GlenM

@CliffH

Part one 🥰

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VampireBats November 6th, 2025

@GlenM

Completed! Thank you for this!

User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 November 7th, 2025

@VampireBats

oh that's exciting!! I'll have to go check out your insights. thanks for taking the full river journey!!

User Profile: GlenM
GlenM OP November 9th, 2025

@VampireBats great work!

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ScorpiaD November 8th, 2025

@GlenM

I completed the series!

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GlenM OP November 9th, 2025

@ScorpiaD nicely done!

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User Profile: Diana44
Diana44 November 10th, 2025

@GlenM

I have to admit, I haven't been as active on the site as earlier, I somehow lost motivation. I really needed some kind of inspiration when I suddenly spotted this series. I immediately liked the metaphor, it reminds me of a choir piece we used to sing (called 'River Song'). I can't wait to start with the first chapter and thanks for this wonderful opportunity :) 

User Profile: GlenM
GlenM OP November 10th, 2025

@Diana44 please drop a link to that song. would love to hear it! and i hope you find this series meaningful. looking forward to paddling alongside you :)

User Profile: CalmRosebud
CalmRosebud December 6th, 2025

@Diana44

What an absolutely cool association with your choir song! I would love to hear the song as well!

Dropping a rose for you in appreciation for your post.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 5th, 2025

@GlenM

@AiluraPhilelove8tear9 I love the way of the River series because ultimately it talks to me about the ebb and flow of life, when sometimes we can find ourselves in deep and rocky waters. It's ok to ask for a paddle- the paddle being an analogy for help, support and knowing you don't have to fight the rough terrain alone 🥰

User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat December 6th, 2025

@Amanda84 💜

Thank you so much for sharing this 🤍 I’ll definitely look into the series and give it a try.😊🌿

User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 6th, 2025

@Ailuraphilelove8tear9

You are welcome!

It's a very helpful series 💕

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 5th, 2025

@GlenM

@peachThinker662 I thought of you when I started the way of the River series. The analogy of needing a paddle in life when we have to face turbulent waters. I think this is a very helpful series that might also allow you to see just how far you've come 🥰💜

User Profile: peachThinker662
peachThinker662 December 5th, 2025

Thank you. I’ll look into it ❤️

User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 6th, 2025

@peachThinker662

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