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Why does my ex still block me when he's with his new girlfriend? I was the one that finished it and I'm OK with it

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Last Updated: 01/28/2020 at 5:35am
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August 14th, 2018 12:04pm
He is an ex for a reason so why would it matter if he did block you let him go move on with your life without him and don't fret about what he is doing or not doing because you are giving him space in your head and he doesn't need to be there. Maybe he has his own issues and there may be no reason. Only you can move ahead and be happy.
September 30th, 2019 4:54am
I guess my question would be that since you finished the relationship and you say you're okay with it, why is it bothering you that he still blocks you? Do you somehow feel the need to check up on him? If you were honest with yourself, do you think that maybe you might be a little jealous that he was able to move on so easily? If you did check up on him, what do you think you would find out or accomplish by knowing what he's doing? I know it's hard to go through a breakup, even if it was your decision, but in the end, it is his choice to block you. Maybe he did it out of spite or resentment at you breaking up with him.
January 28th, 2020 5:35am
Hey there, I think it might because he want to get over you. I don't know how long you guys were together but to overcome those memories is a hard choice so i guess him blocking you is just a way of getting over you. . . . And also, it's better when you give him his space to give him a better chance of getting over you. And i guess you being like this might be because you haven't gotten over him yet. I suggest you should cause he already have a girlfriend now. I don't know if this helped but I'm just saying my opinion.