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What are the pros and cons of making friends online?

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Last Updated: 09/25/2020 at 10:46pm
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Anonymous
March 20th, 2020 8:24am
Some cons about making friends online is that you don’t actually know their personality. You need to actually meet that person to decide whether or not to be friends with them. From experience, I met a really nice person and they ended up sending me very unwanted pictures. Another con is that if you meet this person in real life, it may be someone completely different. This is known as catfishing. A pro is that you may meet some really nice people. Just be careful because there are lots of bad people out there so make sure you are being safe.
Marius2002
September 25th, 2020 10:46pm
Pros: - Easier to find a person that fits in with your hobbies, your type. You don't have to rely on luck as much anymore than before. - If they are from another country you will learn about their traditions and culture. (Examples : Germany,Russia,Latvia,Poland) - More likely to understand and help, less anxiety asking for help with a problem, because you wont meet them in person the next day. Cons: - They could be living very far away, thus meeting them would be very difficult! And that you don't actually know how they are in person. - Possible ghosting. Which could make you feel guilty or sad.
ListenerToHelp
August 13th, 2016 6:50pm
You wouldn't know if they're dangerous in real life. But it's fun making friends that are miles away or days away.
Anonymous
August 21st, 2016 3:54pm
Pros: You gain new friends. Cons: You are not sure if it is safe to talk to strangers. Your safety should be your priority.
Anonymous
August 27th, 2016 9:24pm
Online friends give you a new perspective on your life because they usually have a different culture. But it can be hard if you get too attached because they're so far.
Themasterofunlocking
September 2nd, 2016 8:15pm
Pros... you can be yourself. It can be easier for.the individual if socialisation is a cause of stress otherwise. Con... over reliance can impede ones ability in person for socialisation, you dont know who is who,
blackstar
September 3rd, 2016 7:21am
Pros: You made friends, you have someone to talk to, you have someone with whom you can relate Cons: They're online so you might not actually know them, possibly catfish (stalker, liar), sharing too much info could get you into trouble. Just be safe :)
SoulfulBooks
September 4th, 2016 4:28am
I make a lot of friends online, and they end up being halfway around the world. So pro, I get friends halfway around the world. Con, I have to match up the different time zones.
AdmirableTree
September 9th, 2016 1:55am
Making friends is wonderful if you can gain fellowship from the relationship. However making friends online can often be shallow or topical, and people may treat each other lightly. Base the relationship around a solid foundation that you can leave happily at any time and satisfaction will not be fleeting.
GottafallBeforeyouFLY
September 9th, 2016 9:45pm
Cons: they could be catfishing you (fake), they can leave you randomly, if something goes wrong you can't hug them or drive to them (depending on situation of living distances and stuff) Pro-you don't get nervous as easy, they seem to open up more. create strong bonds, some speak better online then in real life
Anonymous
September 10th, 2016 2:21pm
Pros: you feel confident that you can connect to someone and help with anxiety in social situations. Cons: it may cause anxiety and fear of not being private, and you never know who you are talking to on the other end.
Anonymous
September 14th, 2016 12:37am
pro: bring each other hope, compassion, love, faith con: not really knowing them, not knowing if you can trust them or if they are a good friend
tranqq
September 14th, 2016 8:30am
Pro: You get to choose from a very wide selection of people. Pro: They're usually your type of person. Con: You don't get to meet them. Con: They could be dangerous. Con: They could be someone other than who they claim to be.
Anonymous
September 21st, 2016 2:16pm
There are lots of pros - just being able to remain mostly anonymous and not be judged by your looks is two big ones. The cons are never really being able to meet up or having weird hours from the other.
Anonymous
September 22nd, 2016 2:41pm
I think pros are possibly things like ease of access of the inability to judge by appearance and whatnot (like people admittedly do, even myself sometimes). Cons are that people can still have bad intentions and lie to you and a lot of body language is lacking so there can be maaany more misunderstandings.
MissLayla222
September 24th, 2016 5:12pm
As long as you are careful about sharing personal information, I think it could be a wonderful thing!
Anonymous
September 30th, 2016 1:13pm
Pros: You get to meet new people without having to go out yourself. Cons: It's very easy to lie on the internet, so most of the friendships made are not entirely genuine.
Elvalight
September 30th, 2016 11:38pm
Pros; you will have a much easier time finding people who share your interests and some will be really nice and friendly cons: they could be murderers
LauratheListener94
October 5th, 2016 7:57pm
Making friends online can be great! It can be fun and exciting to find somebody on the internet who may live miles and miles away from you, having the same interests as you. Long-distance/online friendships can people happy, especially for those who are socially anxious and find it difficult talking to people in public and feel more comfortable talking online. But my warning would be to make sure you know exactly who you're talking to. Never share contact details like your address, telephone number immediately and never share further details such as bank details and never be forced into doing something on webcam that you don't feel comfortable doing. Make sure you for definite this person online is exactly who they say they are!
Anonymous
October 7th, 2016 7:58pm
Pros is that you always have someone to talk to, you get to have fun with them and they're there for you when times are tough. Cons are that they live far so you won't probably see them as much as you like.
LoveAaru18
October 12th, 2016 7:25am
Pros are you get to know different people and hence about different places and culture, Cons meanwhile are, if you turn out to be close friends, distance will sometimes become a barrier.
majesticturtle33
October 13th, 2016 4:10pm
The pros are that you can make friends with people who you get on with or share interests with all around the world. The cons are that people can lie about who they are on the internet and it can be difficult in knowing who to trust.
Sharada
October 13th, 2016 8:51pm
Pros: It's easier to find people with the same interests. It helps if you're introverted or suffer from social anxiety. You can meet people from different cultures all around the world. Cons: The chance of meeting them in real life are rather small.
Thebeatlesgirl
October 16th, 2016 8:30am
Well of course, the pros of having online friends are that you can connect to like-minded people despite the distance that separates you. You can also meet some really great people online. The cons are that you might not always meet a trustworthy person and you can't meet them at will
BronyDice
November 1st, 2016 8:40pm
Pros: You get to know the person for who they are (or who they want to be) and vice versa - not a friendship based on looks or habits or common friends. It's also a safe place to spend time together and you don't need to travel far. Much like a pen pal without the stamps! Cons: They might not always be completely honest, and the anonymity of being online might tempt you to act a little less honest sometimes as well. It can be difficult to interpret some sentences since text does not carry a tone to it, so sometimes intentions can be misunderstood.
Anonymous
November 4th, 2016 5:39am
Online is amazing when it comes to meeting new people but we sometimes forget the reality that comes this, a pro is having someone to talk to, but a con would be that ability to want to meet that certain person and at times, there can be trust issues in certain situations.
Anonymous
November 9th, 2016 8:53pm
The Pros are you will meet new people and you will have friends but the Con is some people online can not be trusted.
lilacskiedd
November 10th, 2016 2:07am
there are multiple pros and cons to making friends online, there is the fact that if/when you get anxious about meeting someone, you can just message them what you are afraid to say. but the distance can sometimes get hard once you get to know them.
Anonymous
November 13th, 2016 11:37pm
Making friends online is a nice experience, I discover their world, they discover mine, I think that we have a lot to learn to each other!
Bree96
November 17th, 2016 4:18am
Making friends online is a lot easier than making friends Offline. There is not much tension and not as much awkwardness. One of the biggest cons is that it is sometimes harder to meet with them and actually hang out.