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'What Do You Do' Mega Thread!

User Profile: Rebekah
Rebekah December 28th, 2025

Hello!

I've been doing a big clear out of the sub-community, and came across some old posts that follow a, "What do I do?" format. I decided to create a mega thread for these as there are quite a lot! Even though they're old, feel free to have a go at them.

As always, please feel free to message me with any questions or concerns regarding safety stuffs!


🤔 What Do I Do? 🤔

Asked for Photos

Blocked by a Listener

Blocked by a Member

Confrontation is Scary

Discomfort in Rooms

Doesn't Believe the Member

Offsite Chatting

Needing to Leave a Chat

Overwhelming Chat

Rude/Inappropriate User

Triggering Chat

WhatsApp Number

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User Profile: Remina
Remina December 28th, 2025

@Rebekah

This is awesome

User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo December 29th, 2025

@Rebekah This is a great list of some old threads. I'm wondering about the blocked by a listener one. It can be helpful to hear others feel like how we feel, but aren't the heaviest ways to respond. Some of them also can turn into breaking guidelines if too many details are given (complaining in the forums or group chats) although may be a good way to get support outside a 1-1 if the details stay focused on how someone feels. Giving an honest review sounds reasonable, but isn't actually possible after being blocked on 7cups.

More answers can be added but would be further down. I'm wondering if we need a more how-to thread for this (How to respond if a listener blocks you), while also leaving this thread as I think it does have value, both for members and for listeners to see how this makes members feel.