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What's the difference between bullying and teasing?

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Last Updated: 06/11/2022 at 2:26pm
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missriverlily
May 12th, 2022 3:22am
bullying is intended to harm someone and to make them feel guilty or bad in some way; its meant to hurt a person or group of people. meanwhile teasing is intended as a joke, its playful and not meant to hurt anybody. for example, homophobia/racism/sexism. these "topics" are used against people, and many homophobes/racists/sexists use hurtful slurs to purposefully make people of those minorities feel bad about themselves and feel hurt about who they are. teasing is almost the opposite, its used in a playful manner to jokingly make fun of or include someone in a conversation. bullying is harmful, teasing is not.
Anonymous
June 11th, 2022 2:26pm
Teasing: to provoke and make fun of someone in a lighthearted, playful way Bullying: seeking to harm, intimidate, or coerce someone perceived as vulnerable The difference between the two is that a friend would tease you. An enemy would bully you. Teasing is lighthearted and somewhat fun. Bullying is mean and sometimes cold-hearted. Teasing could happen every now and then, but bullying is constant, repeated, and on purpose. Teasing and bullying are two completely different things. Cyber-bullying is also a thing, and bullying of any type should be reported immediately. Teasing is okay, though, as long as it doesn't step into bullying territory.