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What does it mean when you feel hated for something that you don't believe is wrong ?

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Last Updated: 08/07/2017 at 2:25am
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March 11th, 2015 1:57am
I'm not sure what category this is for, so this isn't going to be very specific. But if you feel hated for an opinion you're expressing, a characteristic you possess, or anything else unique to you that really has no effect on others in any way, it should be your right to not be attacked. There's a lot of hate and differing view points out there. It doesn't mean what you're doing is wrong. It just means there are people out there who don't agree with you or who you are. It will be your choice as to whether you wish to listen to them or not.
April 20th, 2015 7:55am
I think it happens always, but that's how bring more acceptance to that thing. It also means that people should open up their mind a little. As long as it's not hurting anyone, I can't see how anyone could be so hateful towards it, or whatever.
May 23rd, 2015 3:47pm
Hate is a strong word and a strong emotion to feel. It is difficult to know if someone else really hates you for something as what you may define and feel as hatred may not be what the other person is feeling. Other emotions such as disappointment, resentment, anger can all be mixed in with the idea of hate. If you feel a sense of emotion about something you did, which you don't feel is wrong, then expressing your feelings with the other person may allow you to come to a resolution on how you both really feel about the situation and how different perspectives are formed around it.
July 4th, 2015 12:43pm
It means a miscommunication had happened. With a lot of different perspective, culture, habits and background experience, we could be easily misunderstood.
August 18th, 2015 10:50pm
I don't think anything because if i firmly believe it is right nothing will convince me.It's fine even if it's wrong just walk forward with self confidence.
October 26th, 2015 4:55am
Someone doesn't share the same viewpoints or beliefs you do, and that can cause conflict because of disagreement or ignorance.
December 22nd, 2015 11:38am
it feels bad. as an individual it puts you in a spot to weigh your odds against what is right and wrong.
May 2nd, 2016 11:38pm
It means that people Wish to stop you from doing something you believe in.And hey? They can only pull you down When they're below you so do what you feel is right and Ace it it doesnt matter what the people think as long as you know you're doing the right thing
July 11th, 2016 6:31pm
Hmmm, well from the way the statement has been made here I think that you are experiencing a bit of self disappointment because you feel that a person you respect will actually judge you for being human. Now we all have our values and systems, and they do change with time. But if what you did isn't something to be ashamed off, or placed anyone in particular harm or some form of discomfort then stick to your belief. Remeber, on the other end another person might do something you think is inappropriate.
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August 7th, 2017 2:25am
People have their own mindsets and thinking. Sometimes they can be too comfortable with the way they think and are that they forget that change or a new thing is a good thing.