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7 Cups Behavior Reporting Process & Tracking - Updated Version
by ASilentObserver
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2 days ago
...See more All, The post below outlines an updated behavior reporting process! We had originally launched this in 2016 and we are now updating it and re-emphasizing it as we move forward. Our objective to streamline the process and keep you well informed. Not many people struggle with a number of behavior points, but for people that do, we want to ensure that you can take steps to improve your behavior and be part of the community. We are figuring out the best ways to manage unhelpful & un-supportive behaviors on 7 Cups. Once you have reviewed the entire post, please ask any questions or share your constructive thoughts. This process is designed to provide you an opportunity to improve. We do not have any intentions to punish anyone but we do need to keep people accountable for their behavior. It is your community and how you behave, impacts it as well. Our purpose is to provide a better help & support and compassionate environment to all. We all want to be part of a community that fosters high warmth and high expectations. It is the best way to lead a community because everyone deserves support and compassion. Growing a plant, for example, requires a lot of effort, care, and the right treatment. Not every plant growth is similar but the basic process is somewhat the same. Suitable environment, the right proportion of soil, water, sunlight. Knowing the right conditions is significant for a seed to grow into a beautiful plant. Similarly for a community: If you have high warmth but low expectations, then structure or its culture is low. If you have low warmth and high expectations, then it has a structure, but limited reliability and safety. If you have low warmth and low expectations, then neither has a structure nor culture. If you have high warmth and high expectations, it has structure and reliability and safety. So here we are focused on providing both so that the community can have increased trust, support, culture, safety, and compassion. A few points to keep in mind when reading the below: * We believe in second chances. We know and understand no one is perfect and can improve. But, we need to understand when you have an opportunity to improve, you strive to improve and show that you improved. Value the opportunities you have. * We believe in inclusivity. We welcome all constructive feedback. Because we are also not perfect and striving to improve. Feedback is a two-way process. Ensure to provide feedback in a compassionate, constructive, and respectful manner. * We believe in accountability. Everyone is responsible and accountable for their actions. Because action has a reaction and impacts someone. We are in a community setup, so how you act impacts community activities. If you are supportive, the activities flow in a positive way. If you act unsupportive, the activity flow gets interrupted. * We believe transparency is helpful. As a community member, it is your right to know what is happening with the reports and how it gets processed. So, we want to provide better transparency in our actions in this system. However, there are also natural limitations too. We will not be able to share or disclose in detail with the community at large things that are happening on an individual basis. Because a wise person said, Praise in public, criticize in private. We want to give everyone a second chance to improve and feel encouraged to improve. The below behavior rating system has been specifically designed to meet the community's needs. We considered all inputs and tried to include all that was feasible to add. As you review this post, please remember this is a work in progress and always be updated as per the community's needs. Please share all constructive feedback, inputs, and ideas on what is missing or what does not make sense and what can be done. Introduction The aim of this guide is to provide information and to help you understand how the Behavioral Points System would work. What is the Behavioral Rating System? It is a process we would be used to assign points based on the infractions they did in the community at a point in time. Every time, they commit a violation, they will be getting points assigned and informed through email so they know what violations they did, and what points assigned to them for the violations. So they can have the opportunity to learn from the mistakes they made and improve. But if they do not improve and they cross the threshold, they will face consequences. This is modeled after other point systems like having a driving license in the US. If a person drives in a safe and smart manner (they are a good member), then they will receive no points. If they drive through stop signs, then they get a point. If they drive dangerously, then they get more points. If a person accrues enough points, then they are required to go to driving school. If they still do not improve then they can lose their license and no longer drive. It is a systematic process where all reports will be included for a user. How does it work? * The system will be applicable to both listeners and members. * Each behavior report or flagged forum thread will be evaluated using the below point criteria. Points are cumulative. * Each point expires 6 months after it was earned. * If no reports within three months from the date of action, an 80% reduction in the points. Note: One can be able to apply for a leadership role. This includes Mentor roles, teen star, group mod, peer support, and project agent roles. * If zero reports within a month from the date of action, 40% reduction in the behavior score. Applicability of the system: The process will be applicable moving forward. It won't consider past reports. Except for the reports which are severe. It will be up to the Community Management Teams' decision for those reports. How reports are filed? Reports filed via specific behavior reports: The incoming report will be reviewed by the concerned team. It will be reviewed for accuracy and if one of the below behaviors is identified the following actions will be taken: The authority sends a warning message to the reported user letting them know about the report. If the user would like to provide their side of the story, they will be invited to do that. Point(s) will be assigned if the user assumes responsibility for the action and agrees that it happened. The authority will let the user know the point has been assigned. If the user does not accept responsibility for the behavior and the evidence that the behavior did occur is clear, point(s) will be assigned. It is requested of all reporters that they submit relevant screenshots to prove their accusations for a user. All points will be tallied and tracked on the community management team's backend panel. Dates will be logged to monitor the timing. Please click here for more information on how to provide constructive feedback. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityGuidelines_1374/KeepingForumsWelcomingandSupportiveForumGuidelinesUpdate_229098/1/#2446886] You can learn more about triangulation here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/LaurasOffice_169/WhatisTriangulation3StepstoAvoidingStoppingitfromhappeninginthecommunity_35107/1/] Learn more about rumors spreading here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TeensOnlyClub_123/IarasStation_590/RumorsandGossipHowtoprotectourcommunityfromsuchbehaviorMemberSideedition_39670/]. Learn what open communication is here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/Guidesonhowtomanagesituationson7cups_1059/OpenCommunicationTipsTricks_26627/1/]. Important Notes: � All the behaviors identified above are common behavior identified in the specific areas. Though, if the same behavior is found in other parts of the community as well, the points and consequences will be applicable. Zero Points Behavior. They are applicable for the first instance only. If the behavior continues, the points will be assigned according to the severity of the reported behavior. Except for a few specific behaviors that are subjected only to listeners. All other behaviors are subject to both listeners and members of the community. Adult Teen Listeners- In case of violations, the badge and access will be removed instantly. Below you will find the corresponding consequences of the above behaviors. Red Flag Offenses: � Forum Spam - If you are repeatedly spamming the forums with inappropriate content or advertisements you or your account may be removed Post inappropriate or graphic pictures, your account will be removed Sexting and/or repeatedly sexting (after a given warning not to) will result in account removal Underage or in the wrong age community (you must be 15 to be a listener & 13 to be a member) Red Flag Consequences: Immediate removal from 7 Cups community Protocol on Getting Support from a community leader: If you are having a problem, you may approach a community leader for support on how to manage that situation. However, please refrain from telling them specific details. As a general rule when communicating with community leaders: we should avoid using names and specific details about a person or a given situation. For example, if you are having a conflict with another listener. You could go to the community leader and say I am struggling with a difficult situation. Could you give me some tips on how to use conflict resolution? In this example, no specific details are mentioned, but you are still able to ask for help as you work through a difficult situation. Footnote: The protocols are similar to earlier ones and shared from the previous update with few changes. Updated the constructive feedback point in accordance with the new forum guideline [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityGuidelines_1374/KeepingForumsWelcomingandSupportiveForumGuidelinesUpdate_229098/1/#2446886] on Sep 23, 2020 - Hope Link here to Heather's clarification post on BPS https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/HsHangout_1970/SomeclarificationonLLReports_230570/ Guidelines with better view available in the Community Guidelines page, Click here [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/7-Cups-Behavioral-Points-System-70ccca9adfef4babba74119da05a91d4] [edited by MistyMagic to remove scripts and add in H's post 30 Oct 2020]
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Apply for the Safety Patrol Team! (Now Open to Listeners and Members)
by Heather225
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August 20th
...See more Are you passionate about our community? Are you always looking out for the safety of others? We are looking for dedicated community members to scan for inappropriate profiles and flag them so they can be removed quickly and efficiently from the site! We are very excited to announce that members can now join the team! Here’s what being on the Safety Patrol looks like:: - Scan the browse listeners page [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] daily and flag any inappropriate profiles - Scan the general request queue daily for inappropriate profiles - Scan forums or group rooms for inappropriate profiles - Be proactive to help flag any profile you have seen anywhere that is inappropriate How do we know if it's inappropriate? - Sexual or graphic profile picture - Sexual or graphic username - Sexual or graphic bio text - Profile bio text sharing social media handles, email Id..etc. Prerequisites & Expectations: ✓ Listeners: You must be a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/VerifiedListenersProject_1839/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/] ✓ Members: You must be a part of the community for at least one month (no longer have the Newbie badge) ✓ You must be active on 7 Cups a few times a week (roughly an hour minimum) ✓ You will be required to read a document on best practices [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vBXLvo7gLMewIM1lhnZ2g8MXAnq4sMwxqXgxzTJCDos/edit] and pass a test to prove your knowledge. ✓ Once you have read the guide in full and understand the material, apply and take the test here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeiPkuyjGZs7x2NY5b1tgkO5QoRRiXzFFobMpHiWthKUxgaKg/viewform] Primary Points of Contact Team Leader: Rebekah Thank you so much for your interest in keeping 7 Cups a safe and supportive place! [ Updated by Rebekah on 4th January 2023 to display newer guide. ] [ Updated by Rebekah on 25th February 2026 to amend the leaders list. ]
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Community Safety Awareness: Listener Conduct, Soliciting & Offsite
by Heather225
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August 11th
...See more Hi everyone, Your safety, privacy, and trust are the most important things to us at 7 Cups. You come here for a safe, supportive space to be heard, and we are committed to protecting that. We want to post a critical reminder about the rules our volunteer Listeners must follow. This is to ensure every member knows what to expect and what is never acceptable. Listeners are volunteers. Support is always free. 7 Cups Listeners are volunteers. They are here to provide empathetic listening and support, and they are never paid for their time. * A Listener should NEVER ask you for money, donations, or payment of any kind. * Listeners are strictly prohibited from soliciting or promoting any personal, paid services (e.g., "I am a therapist, here is my link, my sessions cost $X"). To protect your privacy and safety, all conversations with Listeners should stay on the 7 Cups platform. * Listeners are not permitted to ask you to move the conversation to an off-site, personal platform (like  Tele*gram WhatsApp,, social media accounts, or personal email). * If a Listener sends you a personal link to chat elsewhere, do not click it. This is a serious violation of our guidelines. Listeners are trained to listen. They are not therapists or healthcare professionals.  * A Listener's role is to listen, not to give diagnoses, medical advice, or tell you what to do. * Offering their own paid therapy service (as mentioned in point #1) is a severe violation of this boundary and our community's trust. If a Listener ever does any of the following: * Asks you for money or payment. * Tries to sell you a personal, paid service (like therapy or coaching). * Sends you a link to chat on a personal, off-site platform  Please take these steps immediately: * Do not click any personal links, disclose any of your personally identifying information (including your social media), or send money. * Report the Listener: Use our Helpdesk HERE [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new/]. Make sure to add screenshots when submitting your report so the team has evidence to corroborate the report and take appropriate action. It's also important to understand that these rules are fundamental community guidelines. As such, they apply to members too. Review the Community Guidelines for all users to abide by HERE. [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/] ------------------------- Thank you for helping us uphold these core principles and safeguard the 7 Cups experience for everyone!
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Safety Discussions Automated Taglist
by tommy
Last post
June 17th
...See more Welcome to the Safety Discussions Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply to this thread and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on future safety discussions led by the safety team ✔ Learn and discuss about keeping yourself and others safe on 7 Cups ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist @lovingRainbows2088 @CalmRosebud @MydogLiz8 @iloveyouxx @amiableBunny4016 @daydreammemories
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Payment
by pianog
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May 11th
...See more Hi, yesterday I've written my bank information for my online therapy subscription, but after i confirmed, I closed the window. Today, in my manage subscription, there's written my subscription is cancelled, but if I try to deactivate my acccount, a pop up appears to me, saying I didn't cancelle my subscription and I'm going to pay. I don't know what to do, because I can't cancel my subscription. I don't want to pay also because I've never chatted with a therapist!
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how do I delete my account
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March 23rd
...See more How do I delete my 7cups account
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GUIDE - Switching Accounts
by Vahlok
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February 26th
...See more Intro So a lot of people keep bringing this up so I'm just gonna post this guide to help everyone out. A lot of people have been getting confused on how to switch between your listener and member account, so here's a helpful guide on how to do it. Steps 1. Make sure you are logged into either your member or listener account. 2. While logged in, go to www.7cups.com/login.php and login to your member/listener account as you normally would. After doing so, you should get this prompt: [https://content.invisioncic.com/r277081/monthly_2018_10/image.png.0e13aa6961be0f80984f751151346a0f.png] 3. Next, simply just select the account you wish to stay logged into. After you select an account, you should see this option when you click on your profile icon: [https://content.invisioncic.com/r277081/monthly_2018_10/image.png.d83afbd278be42492fe8ff887f2a043f.png]
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Its been while since I've been here, is the payment sytem gone?
by TJ
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January 6th
...See more its been a few months since I've listened( i was traveling), and now I see that i cannot locate my previous account, which had some negligible balance, so is the payment system gone for good?
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Automatically (incorrectly) minimized forum posts are now *permanently* minimized
by QuietMagic
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October 25th, 2024
...See more Example: [https://www.7cups.com/forum/personalitydisorders/PersonalityDisordersSupportCheckin_2323/PersonalityDisordersCommunityCheckinOctober3rdOctober9th_337780/] This bug is caused by a synergy of two other changes: 1) Forum posts automatically minimized [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/QuestionsandAnswers_383/Whydosomeforumpostsautomaticallygetminimized_329399/] 2) Recent site display change [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/FeatureUpdates_2525/Thedisplaychange_338242/] As previously noted by multiple people, the automatic post minimization frequently flags false positives. The reassurance we were given was that we could simply manually expand posts if we wanted to. This is no longer possible. This is not okay. Whoever has the power to change this, please do so ASAP.
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Upcoming Safety Discussions for March 2024
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March 24th, 2024
...See more Hey everyone! 💙 I’m happy to share that February was full of engaging and wonderful discussions on various aspects of safety! We also got some members and listeners sharing topics for future discussions. So, I want to inform you that we’re now open to suggestions for new topics for room and forum discussions! If you have a safety-related topic which you want to see in a discussion, feel free to share here in this thread, or in my PMs 😊 That said, the Safety Discussions schedule for March 2024 is out here:  * Room Discussions * March 3, 2024 - Online Privacy (Adults) - in Safety & Knowledge Room (adult side) * March 10, 2024 - Listener Ethics (Adults) - in Listener Discussion Room (adult side) * March 17, 2024 - Online Privacy (Teens) - in Safety & Knowledge Room (teen side) * March 24, 2024 - Listener Ethics (Teens) - in Listener Discussion Room (teen side)    [Cancelled] * March 30, 2024 - Member Safety on 7 Cups (Adults) - in Safety & Knowledge Room (adult side)   [Cancelled] * March 31, 2024 - Member Safety on 7 Cups (Teens) - in Safety & Knowledge Room (teen side)  [Cancelled] All the scheduled discussions will be held in the respective rooms at 11:30 am EDT and will last for an hour. You’re welcome to attend and share your insights! * Forum Discussions For forums, each discussion will be posted on the scheduled dates, in the early morning EDT time: * March 2, 2024 - Handling Unsafe Situations as a Listener * March 9, 2024 - Boundaries during member-listener chats * March 16, 2024 - Using your photo as profile picture * March 23, 2024 - Clicking on links shared in rooms * March 30, 2024 - Forum Safety     [Cancelled] These forum discussions will be posted in Safety and Knowledge at 7 Cups community, and are open to all members and listeners (whether teens or adults) to share their thoughts! Full Schedule: Room Discussions Date Topic Time Where? March 3, 2024 Online Privacy 11:30 am - 12:30 pm Safety & Knowledge Room (adults) March 10, 2024 Listener Ethics 11:30 am - 12:30 pm Listener Discussion Room (adults) March 17, 2024 Online Privacy 11:30 am - 12:30 pm Safety & Knowledge Room (teens) March 24, 2024 Listener Ethics 11:30 am - 12:30 pm Listener Discussion Room (teens) March 30, 2024 Member Safety on 7 Cups 11:30 am - 12:30 pm Safety & Knowledge Room (adults) March 31, 2024 Member Safety on 7 Cups 11:30 am - 12:30 pm Safety & Knowledge Room (teens) Forum Discussions Date Topic March 2, 2024 Handling Unsafe Situations as a Listener Safety & Knowledge at 7 cups community March 9, 2024 Boundaries during member-listener chats March 16, 2024 Using your photo as profile picture March 23, 2024 Clicking on links shared in rooms March 30, 2024 Forum Safety You can use the time zone converter here [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/7cupstime] to see what time the discussion will take place in your time zone!  All the times in this schedule are in EDT (Eastern Daylight Time) or UTC -4 Psst, here’s some news for you all: we finally have an automated taglist for Safety Discussions so that you never miss out on future safety discussions and announcements! Here's the automated taglist post: Safety Discusssions - Automated Taglist [https://www.7cups.com/forum/safe7cups/VSafetyPatrol_1685/SafetyDiscussionsAutomatedTaglist_324820/] For any queries on Safety, you can message @Rebekah [https://7cups.com/@Rebekah] or @tommy [https://7cups.com/@tommy] Updated by AuRewolf on March 10, 2024 - the schedule has been updated to reflect daylight saving time
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Connecting Lives: International Crisis Resources List for 7Cups
by Lunaire00
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February 5th, 2024
...See more (1/2/24 NOTE: This project is on hold. Sorry for the inconvenience!) Hello 7Cups Community! I’m excited to invite compassionate listeners like you all to be a part of a meaningful project and team: the 7Cups Crisis Resources Team! The goal of this project is to compile a comprehensive list of international crisis resources to support 7Cups users globally, as we have noticed crisis resources for some countries are more limited than for others.  As it is just currently myself on the team, I am looking for other interested listeners to join and assist with compiling and entering information, or to assist with the admin and logistics of the project.  ✅ Requirements  * Adult Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/]  * Be a part of 7Cups for 2+ months (No Newbie badge)  * Commitment to dedicating 1-2 hours/month during the first phase (less frequent commitment needed in the second phase)  * No Behavioral Reports in the last 3 months  💜 Qualities you should have * Passionate about mental health and crisis resources  * Responsive and effective in a collaborative team environment  * Detail-oriented for accurate data entry  * Basic tech skills for online tools, specifically Google Docs and Google Sheets  * Clear and effective communication  * Initiative and contribution to project improvement  Special Request - If there are any listeners who are familiar with coding, specifically setting up user searchable databases using GitHub/Notion etc, please reach out to me as I would like to explore the idea of collating the data into a database as opposed to a Google Doc/Sheet. This is currently an idea and not part of the project.🤍 📄 Team Member Duties  There are two phases you can join, depending on whether you’d like to help with data compilation or administrative side: Short Term Commitment - Phase 1: Data Compilation (Estimated 1-3 months) For those who wish to assist with Data Compilation: * Responsibilities:  * Identify 3-5 major hotlines/resources per country for suicide/self-harm/general emergencies that adhere to our trustworthiness guidelines. * Countries to Cover: There are 195 countries on the list, and we aim to cover as many as possible. * Data Entry: Input information into the Google Document/Sheet, including the hotline’s name, contact details (number, etc.), operating hours, website, and any other pertinent details. * Quota: No monthly quota; contribute as much as you can. Active participation is appreciated throughout the compilation phase. Afterward, feel free to leave the team if needed, as only a few listeners will assist with upkeep. If you are inactive for more than 6 weeks, you will be required to reapply.  * Cheers: Earn 10 cheers per resource captured/entered correctly. For those who wish to assist with the administrative duties: * Responsibilities: * Application Tracking: Maintain an accurate and up-to-date record of team members and their applications using the designated Google Sheet. * Data Compilation Dashboard: Monitor the data compilation dashboard in Google Sheets and promptly address any issues, errors, or concerns related to data compilation to uphold accuracy * Communication * Facilitate effective communication among team members by relaying important updates, changes, or announcements. * Act as a liaison between data compilation team members and project leadership, ensuring a smooth flow of information. * Country Resource Assistance: Contact listeners from countries where we are facing challenges in finding crisis resources for assistance with obtaining crisis resources for that region and/or verification of resources, etc * Cheers: TBD This role is suited for those with an experience and understanding of working with Google Sheets, and that are comfortable with reaching out to listeners.  Long Term Commitment - Phase 2: Updates, Upkeep, and Diversification of the List (3+ months) For those who wish to assist with Admin: Updates & Upkeep * Responsibilities: * Monitoring Responses: A Google Form will be introduced for 7Cups users to add, edit or correct information on the list. Team members will monitor the Google Form responses. * Update Frequency: Regularly update the resources list every 1-2 months to incorporate user submissions and ensure the list remains accurate and relevant. * Cheers: Earn 10 cheers per edit/correction/addition made. For those who wish to assist with Data Compilation: Diversification * Responsibilities  * Compile resources for specific issues such as domestic violence, sexual assault, etc., with the same format for compiling the information as Phase 1. * Cheers: Earn 10 cheers per resource captured/entered correctly. 💗 Why Join?  * Empower 7Cups users during crisis situations * Strengthen community support within 7Cups * Extend 7Cups' reach to an international audience * Reduce barriers to help-seeking 👉 Interested? Please fill out this Google Form [https://forms.gle/zP1aoNnLyUPYz2hx5]!  👉 If you have any questions, please message Lunaire00.  👉 The Admin contact for this project is @Heather225  A special and huge thank you to @Suryansh for assisting with the project and helping me make it a reality! 💜 Thank you for your interest, and I look forward to making a positive impact together! 🤍🌷
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Safety Online - a discussion for Safer Internet Day!
by MistyMagic
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January 31st, 2024
...See more Heyy! Welcome Everyone! Misty Here! Today is Safer Internet Day. I have held two, really informative and interesting discussions, one for teens and one for adults, and the information was so fantastic I wanted to share it with you here, so that those of you who couldn't attend could still learn more about being safer online the same as we have. So the first icebreaker question was "How long have you had a mobile phone and when did you get your first mobile phone?" Answers were very interesting with some of us having had mobile phones that were as big as a brick! over 25 years ago! Next we discussed what being 'online' meant and when might we be 'offline'? Here we had some very interesting answers, and we learnt that even when we don't answer our texts or messages and are actually signed out, our technological instruments, smart phones, routers, modems, smart tvs etc, might actually still be online! We found out about ‘Parental Controls and who uses them? - Parental controls are available on almost all devices, modems, phones, tvs computers, tablets; they can be used to block websites, or to limit the amount of time online or the channels that can be seen on a tv! They are designed to make the internet a safer place, so please investigate using them if you havent already. We also found out that some businesses and universities and schools didn't allow wifi and some blocked certain sites on the internet. Then we asked who uses social media and who posts on their social media sites and page about their holidays, telling everyone when they will be away, and where they are going etc? This led to a lot of us talking about what is a real 'friend' and who we should make sure that any information is only shared with real people that are real friends and that we should be very careful about posting information. Why is it important that we dont share any personally identifying information on 7Cups? This led to a lot of great answers! People may mis-use the information and contact us. They may not be who they say they are. They may sell our contact information to others. When we are anonymous we are far safer. Did you know that ‘password ‘ is the most common password! How might we make a safer password? We also discussed if longer is stronger! There were some really interesting thoughts on this from using a latin swear word to using lots of numbers! Using Capital letters and a mix of numbers 12345 and ?! $%& @Power has already written a great thread on passwords Here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/KeepingyourselfsafeAnnouncements_1373/Howstrongisyourpassword_181164/] How strong s your password. Security Questions - many sites use security questions to reset passwords, how can we make them safer and hard to guess? Instead of using the correct answer to create a security question give the wrong information so that makes it harder to guess and steal. For instance if the question is What is your mothers maiden name instead of answering correctly use something else like your favourite colour. Here are some links to great resources . . * https://www.connectsafely.org/great-internet-safety-resources/ * https://www.connectsafely.org/safety-tips/ * https://www.7cups.com/home/safe7cups/ * Choosing a strong password [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/KeepingyourselfsafeAnnouncements_1373/Howstrongisyourpassword_181164/] * Choosing a safer profile pic [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/GeneralConversations_1625/ProfilePicson7CupsStayingSafeOnline_192636/] * Future Discusssions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/UpcomingSafetyDiscussions_1737/] @Tazzie @Power @Heather225 Listening .... One Step At A Time
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What if someone reports a crime?
by PianoMan
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August 11th, 2023
...See more If someone were to confess a crime or an intention to commit a serious offence, how best are we able to respond to it? im in the Uk and there was a famous case where a service similar to this called Samaritans, someone confessed a murder and the listener broke confidentiality and reported it. He lost his job and got into trouble. thanks in advance for this tricky subject!
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What more can be done to stop people treating 7cups as a Dating App
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August 7th, 2023
...See more This is a well-known as well as a criticial issue. I know Safety Patrol team is at place, filters are at place, to help ensure positive environment on 7cups, yet it seems more is required to make 7cups a healthier place. So I am inviting suggestions - What more can be done to prohibit the use of 7cups for dating/sexting purposes. This problem perhaps cannot be 100% solved, but the best we can do is to look to minimize it. Thus, inviting your valuable suggestions. Feel free to tag your wise friends @DonaldDraper
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Safety Quiz #1 - August 2018 - Summer Safety Challenge for Listeners
by Power
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July 17th, 2023
...See more Participate in the Listener Safety Challenge with these 3 easy steps: Step 1: To accept this challenge, join the Safety & Knowledge Community by going: HERE [https://www.7cups.com/home/safe7cups/] and clicking on the Blue "Join This Community" button on the top header of that page. Step 2: Complete the Summer Safety Quiz for Listeners : HERE [https://goo.gl/forms/uNrFkpagIipbs4jE2] Step 3: Once you complete the quiz, come back and post in this forum thread to let us know that you have completed the quiz! Feel free to tag 4 friends so they can take the quiz too! Good luck!

🌟 Welcome! 🌟

Here at the Safety & Knowledge sub-community, our focus is on creating a culture of awareness and support. Please join us to learn how to keep yourself safe online!

See below some key aspects of our community;

Community Guidelines Series
Part 1 ---> Profiles
Part 2 
---> Behaviour
Part 3 
---> Account Safety
Part 4 
---> Boundaries and Behaviour
Part 5 
---> General Safety for Everyone


Quizzes
All Safety Quiz Events
Safety Quiz - 2024


Safety Team Information
Safety Outreach & Discussions
Safety Patrol


Team Leaders
Ambassador ---> Rebekah
Admin Oversight ---> Bookworm4

Community Guidelines

🌟Welcome!🌟

As this is our Safety sub-community, these guidelines are extra extra important! 🌟 here they are below;

1. Please be kind to all users. Forum posts/comments that attack or otherwise offend another user will be removed.
2. No offsite contact sharing. This is strictly against site rules.
3. Please stay on topic to the best of your ability!
4. Please keep confidential information to yourself. This means no sharing of usernames, messages in a 1-1 or a group setting, or any details about a member chat. Take any and all issues that you'd like to discuss in more depth to Rebekah.
5. Please try to post threads within the relevant sub-forum! We understand that this might not be easy, but posting a thread such as "Hello, I'm new!" would clearly not be suited to Safety Awareness or Teen Safety 🌞

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Community Resources

Find any and all safety resources for 7 Cups here!