What do I talk about with my girlfriend?

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Anonymous
April 17th, 2016 8:16pm
Talk about your interest, your days, movies, music, stuff that bring passion and happines to your lives, also talk about stuff that bother you, go from topic to topic and connect as much as you can!
dalya123
January 21st, 2016 12:27pm
Talk about what you want to talk about inside of you, maybe you want to tell her something but you can't, tell her
onedirection1993
March 6th, 2016 4:41pm
Anything you want! Be sure to ask them about things that they like to! I know from my experience that girls like to be asked things about themselves to! Like what types of things they like and stuff like that!
Anonymous
June 20th, 2017 3:51am
Anything from your common interests to how your day went, you could talk about what you ate for dinner if you decided on takeaway or not. You could also share your hobbies with her, like your favourite song to listen to when you are down, ask her some things about herself as well by doing so you are retaining more about her showing her you are interested, let her know that she's included in your life and that you trust her, this helps with making your communication skills better which also helps your relationship grow tremendously.
Rose
March 18th, 2016 7:40pm
You can talk about anything with your girlfriend. It doesn't have to be sexual. Talk to her like you would a best friend.
sunflowersandsunshine47
January 21st, 2016 6:31am
Anything and Everything! Ask her about herself, and if you guys already know each other very well, come up with obscure things she's never been asked bef0re- to make things fun. You guys can also think of what to talk about together. Political views, religious views, your opinions on anything!
Anonymous
January 21st, 2016 4:15pm
Try and find out what shes interested in or what you guys have in common , you will start conversafion like that or you can ask questions like how she has been doing and etc
Azillion17
March 6th, 2018 3:24am
personal matters things that you feel you wanna share with her as a couple ,ask about her self is everything is okay with her health etc
Righthere321
January 21st, 2016 12:40am
Talk about anything amd everything. Whatever makes you feel comfortable. What would you like to know about your girlfriend? Ask her. Asknyourself your own questions...tell her your amswers. Communication is everything in a relationship. It builds it up on many levels, including trust. When conversations start to to struggle, there's things like TV, music, sport and food for topics
Anonymous
February 19th, 2016 10:41pm
Me and my girlfriend talk about pretty much everything. We are super close and she's my best friend so there isn't anything we don't talk about
Anonymous
January 21st, 2016 4:06pm
Talk to her about what interests her. About what interests you. Ask her questions about her childhood, her dreams, her education, her favorite band. Find out what makes her laugh. Discover where she hopes to be in ten years. Tell her about yourself. When she talks, listen.
politeHero42
January 27th, 2016 4:29am
I am honestly concerned if someone is asking this question. A man's girlfriend should be someone he can easily open up to and feel comfortable in her presence. He should be interested in her life's events. She should be interested in his life's events. They should be mutually involved in discussing and supporting the good in each others' lives. Even when a couple talk about the bad things in each others' lives, they will be interested in finding the good amidst difficult situations.
kitcatstickz
May 2nd, 2016 1:59pm
Everything she likes, so you can get to know her better through those things. Ask her about her days, her friends, family. And tell her about yours too, she would likely feel glad to be updated on your life.
Harlie1999
January 22nd, 2016 9:58am
The best thing to do is to talk about her and ask her what she likes to do. Girls like to talk a lot I know that I do so if you just start up the conversation I'm pretty sure she will do the rest
Anonymous
January 22nd, 2016 11:12pm
Something you have in common, or maybe ask her things like how her day went. Or ask her on a date to the movies that doesn't require much talking.
Anonymous
April 6th, 2016 7:15pm
Flirting, future plans, hobbies, desires, romance, suggestions, personal stuff and there are lot more.
casicanhelp
April 8th, 2016 6:02pm
Your girlfriend is your girlfriend! If you guys have things in common, it's good to talk about that. If you guys don't have as much in common, try asking her questions to keep the conversation going. You could even pull up a list of prepared questions and topics-- no big deal, as long as you're conversing.
Anonymous
June 12th, 2017 8:14pm
Talk to her about anything, television, books, movies, anything that you can think of. See what some of her interests are and talk to her about that or share your interests with her.
Anonymous
January 14th, 2016 8:53pm
I guess about something you have in common or something you think it might interest her. You can tell her about your day and ask her about hers and let the conversation flow :)
Anonymous
January 22nd, 2016 5:23pm
passions and goals in life, exciting things that you want to do together, adventures, beautiful/ fun memories, philosophical questions
Anonymous
January 24th, 2016 3:46am
Conversation should flow naturally; if it doesn't, chances are you two don't have much of a connection. Until then, make sure you do by just talking about things relevant to you and your partner until interests are revealed and you don't have to worry about this anymore.
Annaxelia
January 28th, 2016 4:43pm
Get to know one another and talk about things you like, what you enjoy, how your day was ect.. speak about your relationship your goals and ambition
happy22icecream
January 28th, 2016 7:24pm
To be honest, you should not have to ask that. You should be able to talk to your girlfriend about anything you wanted to talk to her about. Talk to each other about both of your days, family members, work, school, etc. There are many things you can talk about. :)
Dana13
January 29th, 2016 12:28am
Start with the common things you share, like a band or a certain show, or even politics. Ask her about her day and how she is feeling, listen to her, show her that her words matter to you. Speak of the future and your plans, maybe plan a trip together and most importantly, show her that you care about her and love her.
Anonymous
January 29th, 2016 6:17am
Be polite. People only want other to be polite with them. Don't judge her, support her in her odds. Remember she counts on you and expects alot from you. Never tell her she is ugly or fat, make her feel good about herself.
CompassionateGirl90
January 31st, 2016 5:23am
Find out about her interests - if they are things that interest you too, that's a plus. Ask her how her day went or talk about your day. If there is truly a connection, the conversation will flow after a while, and you won't have to come up with things to talk about. Make sure you are being honest and open and that you are genuinely interested in her and her life, and that she feels the same way about you and yours.
Anonymous
January 31st, 2016 7:08pm
Talk about things she likes, or maybe tell her why you love her or write her a letter describing why how much you love her
Daniela95
February 3rd, 2016 7:40pm
Anything! Try to learn as much about her as you can and find topics that are close to both of you. Sharing similar interests and comunication is a big part of relationship.
kindPineapple32
February 4th, 2016 6:59am
Talk about anything if you are comfortable with this girl then you should be able to tell her anything let her chose what to talk about if you can't think of anything
optimisticOrange42
February 6th, 2016 11:09pm
Just be yourself. And being yourself will help you talk about whatever you want to talk about at that moment. Try to get to know each other, that'll also make you feel more comfortable around her. You'll find out with time that you don't even have to think about what to say anymore, since it just becomes part of your routine, which doesn't mean it has to become boring, quite the opposite actually, you can go into conversations with more and more meaning.