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Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
April 17th, 2016 8:16pm
Talk about your interest, your days, movies, music, stuff that bring passion and happines to your lives, also talk about stuff that bother you, go from topic to topic and connect as much as you can!
There are many interesting things to talk about with your girlfriend, which need not result in awkward silences. An easy way to break the ice in a new relationship is by giving her a good laugh. In the first date itself you can ask her the best questions about important things like her favorite food, tv shows and favorite vacation destinations or any other favorite things. You can spend your free time bonding over your shared interests as well as new things which could lead to interesting conversations. Favourite things entail a lot of things so the best ways involve getting to know each other by asking the best questions can help. Feel free to ask important questions to know each other’s priorities and beliefs.
Anonymous
January 21st, 2016 12:27pm
Talk about what you want to talk about inside of you, maybe you want to tell her something but you can't, tell her
Anything you want! Be sure to ask them about things that they like to! I know from my experience that girls like to be asked things about themselves to! Like what types of things they like and stuff like that!
Anonymous
June 20th, 2017 3:51am
Anything from your common interests to how your day went, you could talk about what you ate for dinner if you decided on takeaway or not. You could also share your hobbies with her, like your favourite song to listen to when you are down, ask her some things about herself as well by doing so you are retaining more about her showing her you are interested, let her know that she's included in your life and that you trust her, this helps with making your communication skills better which also helps your relationship grow tremendously.
Anonymous
March 18th, 2016 7:40pm
You can talk about anything with your girlfriend. It doesn't have to be sexual. Talk to her like you would a best friend.
Anonymous
January 21st, 2016 6:31am
Anything and Everything! Ask her about herself, and if you guys already know each other very well, come up with obscure things she's never been asked bef0re- to make things fun. You guys can also think of what to talk about together. Political views, religious views, your opinions on anything!
Anonymous
February 19th, 2016 10:41pm
Me and my girlfriend talk about pretty much everything. We are super close and she's my best friend so there isn't anything we don't talk about
Anonymous
January 21st, 2016 4:15pm
Try and find out what shes interested in or what you guys have in common , you will start conversafion like that or you can ask questions like how she has been doing and etc
personal matters things that you feel you wanna share with her as a couple ,ask about her self is everything is okay with her health etc
Talk about anything amd everything. Whatever makes you feel comfortable. What would you like to know about your girlfriend? Ask her.
Asknyourself your own questions...tell her your amswers. Communication is everything in a relationship. It builds it up on many levels, including trust.
When conversations start to to struggle, there's things like TV, music, sport and food for topics
Anonymous
January 21st, 2016 4:06pm
Talk to her about what interests her. About what interests you. Ask her questions about her childhood, her dreams, her education, her favorite band. Find out what makes her laugh. Discover where she hopes to be in ten years. Tell her about yourself. When she talks, listen.
The best thing to do is to talk about her and ask her what she likes to do. Girls like to talk a lot I know that I do so if you just start up the conversation I'm pretty sure she will do the rest
Anonymous
April 6th, 2016 7:15pm
Flirting, future plans, hobbies, desires, romance, suggestions, personal stuff and there are lot more.
Everything she likes, so you can get to know her better through those things. Ask her about her days, her friends, family. And tell her about yours too, she would likely feel glad to be updated on your life.
Anonymous
January 22nd, 2016 5:23pm
passions and goals in life, exciting things that you want to do together, adventures, beautiful/ fun memories, philosophical questions
Your girlfriend is your girlfriend! If you guys have things in common, it's good to talk about that. If you guys don't have as much in common, try asking her questions to keep the conversation going. You could even pull up a list of prepared questions and topics-- no big deal, as long as you're conversing.
Anonymous
June 12th, 2017 8:14pm
Talk to her about anything, television, books, movies, anything that you can think of. See what some of her interests are and talk to her about that or share your interests with her.
Anonymous
January 22nd, 2016 11:12pm
Something you have in common, or maybe ask her things like how her day went. Or ask her on a date to the movies that doesn't require much talking.
Get to know one another and talk about things you like, what you enjoy, how your day was ect.. speak about your relationship your goals and ambition
Talk about anything if you are comfortable with this girl then you should be able to tell her anything let her chose what to talk about if you can't think of anything
Find out about her interests - if they are things that interest you too, that's a plus. Ask her how her day went or talk about your day. If there is truly a connection, the conversation will flow after a while, and you won't have to come up with things to talk about. Make sure you are being honest and open and that you are genuinely interested in her and her life, and that she feels the same way about you and yours.
Anonymous
January 24th, 2016 3:46am
Conversation should flow naturally; if it doesn't, chances are you two don't have much of a connection. Until then, make sure you do by just talking about things relevant to you and your partner until interests are revealed and you don't have to worry about this anymore.
Anonymous
March 16th, 2016 11:58pm
Everything you love to do, what sport do you like, what TV shows do you like, what books do you like, what is important to you, etc
Just be yourself. Talk about the things you are passionate about be it art, music, books, movies, family, even video games.
I did talk about anything that made her laugh loudly, if one can, then should try to be as much sensitive as her. Always remember that every person needs an amount of space in the relationship. Smartly make sure she wouldn't have to throw back at you, because that could be very nasty as well! Being childish does help, but you can't fake it more often. Give and take will be of good manners. Sex thing is completely depending on individuals. Being selflessly in love is what it takes to last longer....ðŸ˜
Anonymous
March 13th, 2016 11:00pm
Find out what she likes! Talk about her interests and compare them to your own. If you're fairly close, talk about your struggles. Ask about hers. A general "how was your day" goes a long way.
Anything and everything, just open up and be yourself. What is she interested in? Find out and learn as much as you can about those things.
what do you not? talk about what color you would be if you where a crayon? or your hopes and dreams.
You can actually talk about anything with your girlfriend. She is like a girl you - that can do all the things you may not like or be comfortable to do, but still think of, or admire. You can talk on subjects not usual with your friends, but also on all things you do and enjoy being the same age or interests. Remember, she may have similar aspirations and interests, and support your interests because she cares for you wants to know these. This is not one way - as you would your other friends or relatives, she may want your opinions and thoughts on her aspirations and goals as well. Don't forget your common ground is you are boyfriend and girl friend, so you both like and care for each others opinion and feelings.
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