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Is it okay to be single forever?

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Is it okay to be single forever?
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Maseeha
August 15th, 2015 12:57am
If your happy with being single now then yes its ok. If you happy being single in 10 years then yes its ok. Its a personal choice.
blindEyes56
September 15th, 2015 6:43pm
It should be OK to do whatever you feel like doing! Society is too much based in general rules, forgetting each individual is unique. Don't rush looking for love. Enjoy the moment and if you feel comfortable this way, just keep doing it! Love yourself !
sereneBlue2121
October 4th, 2015 11:32am
It's totally okay. If you feel as if no one is really worth staying with or if no one catches your eye, you shouldn't settle for someone who doesn't make you feel beautiful, strong and perfect. You will always have some other people in your life, be it family or friends, that love you and are there to care for you and make sure you're okay. So even if you're single, you're definitely not alone.
Anonymous
March 15th, 2016 7:56am
Yes. Being single doesnt equate loneliness. You may be married but still feel lonely or you may be single but feel completely happy and loved.
purplePeach43
March 6th, 2015 8:29pm
It's totally okay to be single forever! I think it's human nature for most people to want to be in a relationship, but there is nothing wrong with staying single indefinitely. It's up to you and you should do whatever makes you happy!
PippaCalisto
March 20th, 2015 6:47am
Definitely. If you truly do not feel attracted to anyone or you find that you're not the type of person who wants to dedicate your time and space to another, that is perfectly fine. You come first.
liberatedsoul01
April 2nd, 2015 1:17pm
personnaly i think it is okay to be single if you didn't find the right person because being single forever is better than being with the wrong person that would hurt and treat you badly besides your marital statue isn't gonna define you
caprisun1011
June 19th, 2015 5:13am
There is no problem with being single forever. Some people are just better off alone and that is ok. There are many solitary animals in this world and they live just fine! Just don't seclude yourself or anything of that nature. It is good to have social interaction and have a good support system of friends or family.
Anonymous
June 24th, 2015 6:26am
Of course. Absolutely. There is no obligation in being taken. Being single means no drama, pain or dis-trust.
Anonymous
July 5th, 2015 2:29am
It's perfectly alright, some people prefer to be alone that with a lifetime companion of that sort. Sometimes all we need is regular human companionship not labels and relationships. I often found myself to be one of those that went through many relationships when in reality I was only looking for a real friend.
kittykat
August 13th, 2015 4:39pm
Absolutely! Some people just aren't interested in romantic relationships. There's actually a term for it - aromantic, meaning you don't experience romantic attraction. (Then there's asexuality, which means that you don't experience sexual attraction - but many romantic relationships can and do exist without a sexual aspect.) It's most important to do what feels comfortable for you. If you want to be single, then it's perfectly fine to be single. If you want a relationship, it's perfectly fine to seek one out. You know what's best for your health in terms of the relationships you choose whether or not to pursue.
Aurelius735
August 16th, 2015 7:55am
It is my firm belief that everyone is simply born different, we have experiences that set us apart from others, our interpretations are highly unique, and we have ended up with core values that are our very own. Some people highly value position in life, how others view them; others just live by the beat of their own inner drums. No one dictated how you should be; you just are.
coffeemanbren2
August 16th, 2015 3:18pm
yes. now somehow i need to find another 96 characters. lol. but seriously. there are probably millions of single people out there that have made a decision to go that way. do whats right for you. and IF you dont want to be single forever and are having a hardtime finding a partner. remember theres a lot of people in the world. try to meet more of them!
Anonymous
August 16th, 2015 7:30pm
Yes, as a matter of fact, you may not be so stressed if you were just single all the time.
calmingwaves12
August 17th, 2015 1:34pm
It is perfectly fine to always be single. Most societies do have that pressure for people to get married, start a family etc. but it is all about personal preference. If you do not want a relationship and prefer not being in one, then sure go ahead and do that, as long as you are living the life that makes you the happiest.
glassjaw
September 28th, 2015 2:33am
It definitely okay to be single forever as long as it is your choice and your choice only and it is also okay if you choose to change your decision time anytime !
Anonymous
October 1st, 2015 9:41am
Single can have it's benefits. You may find you are more outgoing, socially involved and have a wider social network. When in a relationship you tend to spend much of your time with your partner or family, losing some connections and letting others go dormant.
HelenTheWiseOne
October 2nd, 2015 8:51pm
Yep being single isn't a sin!! Many people never marry or stay single for their whole lives and are very happy with it :) It's far better to be single than to be in a relationship that you are unhappy with.
brightkitten7
November 9th, 2015 1:41am
Allow things to happen in their own timing. Being single can be just as fulfilling as being in a relationship. As long as you are enjoying life that is all that matters
gentlePudding78
December 8th, 2015 2:44am
yes many people are single forever and very happy some people dont find the right person
Kouyle
October 13th, 2017 9:26am
It's okay if that's what you want. It's okay if you are happy being on your own. You don't have to force yourself to be in relationship if you don't want to. Well, people might talk about it, but who cares, right? It's your life. It's better to be on our own than being with someone but we are not happy with it or it's not what we want. The most important thing is to be happy, right? So it's okay.
Anonymous
April 24th, 2018 11:15pm
Absolutely. If you feel satisfied with your life, and don't necessarily want a relationship then nobody should stop you.
Brittneym101
March 8th, 2015 3:20am
Only you can answer this question. It's not a bad thing to be single, but you have to ask yourself is it really what you want and are you really happy with this decision. Some people are the type that just has to have someone up under them that's not a bad thing either, but when you become to dependent on one specific person you may not get the reaction that you want from the other individual. You have a mind of your own it's not like being single is against the law or something. It's all up to you, but always beware of the outcome when it comes to taking this action.
SweetBliss98
April 9th, 2015 12:16am
Of course, if you choose that. If you think you will be because of a current situation however, you shouldn't worry. Everyone has their ups and downs, the right person will come to you when you least expect it!
LilyFlowers
May 6th, 2015 2:55am
Sure it's ok. There's no reason anyone has to date or get married. However it's important to have close friends, to get our emotional needs met.
HelpfulNick95
June 17th, 2015 8:37pm
Being single and being in a relationship both are choices of a human being. Personally I believe there is someone out there for everyone, and it's just a matter of time until you find them. It is okay however to stay single forever. There's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes, people just need more time to themselves instead of having to worry about someone else as well. "Take care of your own health before helping others" is a good quote to live by. Now adays, relationships seem like requirements in this society, but fact of the matter is, if you don't have the certain feelings for someone and they don't for you, then you shouldn't enter a relationship just because it's "the norm". Stray from conformity and just be you :)
moonlights
June 18th, 2015 4:00pm
Of course it's okay. Being in a relationship isn't everything! If you're not in love, don't force yourself to fall in love. It will happen if it will happen and if it won't then who cares! Live your life the way YOU want to
Ishana888
June 18th, 2015 5:33pm
Sounds like you're hurt. Can you tell me something more about why do you want to be single forever love?
Anonymous
June 19th, 2015 2:22am
Sure it is, why wouldn't it be? You just have to ask yourself if you're okay with it.
WonderlandRabbit
June 19th, 2015 4:24am
Definitely. Be single forever if you like. Remember youre here to make you happy, and if doing that makes you happy then go ahead.