What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
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Yesterday, today, life goals, how to achieve life goals, things you have seen on social media like YouTube/Instagram/Facebook etc. Talk about what you'd like to do together, just random stuff, there should be a click that it happens automatically.
Anonymous
March 16th, 2018 10:00pm
if you share any common interests perhaps you could start there, or even asking about their day can usually lead into a conversation. asking questions about things can help keep a conversation going too
Anonymous
March 23rd, 2018 6:21am
You could talk to him about your day, and your plans for the week. Also, you could discuss your plans the next time the two of you meet.
You can talk about a lot of things. If unsure, you can look up some questions online that you could both answer or you could play a game over the phone (Truth or Dare, Two Truths and a Lie).
Anonymous
March 31st, 2018 5:45am
Well, that depends on the type of relationship you have and of the lenght of the relationship. You should feel comfortable talking about anything, your boyfriend should be your friend in the first place, a person that you can talk nonsens to or important, meaningful stuff.
Imagine you're with him in person and talk about all the stuff you'd tell him normally. It can be stressful at the beginning, but you'll get used to it slowly. Also, little silence is not such a big problem if that makes you nervous :) you can make a list of what happened during the day and you'd like to tell him about before you call him. That could help too :) good luck.
Anonymous
April 4th, 2018 3:10pm
Likes and dislikes. Goals for the future. I think it is a good idea to talk too about beliefs. So he knows some important things. What do you expect from the relationship, from him.
How do you see yourself in the future.
Anonymous
April 5th, 2018 4:08pm
Sharing talks with a boyfriend on the telephone this is simply the simple things that's been going on throughout your own day and little by little share a little more things as your conversation grows as well as your confidence. But most importantly is trying not to overwhelm each other with so many things that can immediately just shut down the boyfriend on the other side of the phone
Well good things to discuss would be simple things such as how their day went or how the work day is going. Possibly making plans for future dates is also a good thing to discuss together ☺
Whatever is bothering you, you can also talk about things you like, or things he likes. There's also what you want to do in life. Or your dreams you have for your future.
You could talk about places you two want to visit together, or what you hope to achieve in your life and his.
There's so much you can talk about.. just start with a classic "how was your day?", and then share something funny, strange or interesting that has happened to you, or you have seen/read etc. This would probably help thinking of related things to say, and the conversation will go on smoothly! Otherwise tell him about something you have done and particularly liked, or somewhere you've been to and wish to come back to.. stuff like that! :)
Anonymous
April 18th, 2018 12:29am
Find common ground that can help the discourse. Sharing thoughts and feelings is an important part of the relationship. Taking the time to listen and appreciate their point of view is essential.
Anonymous
April 20th, 2018 3:56am
You can talk about your likes and interests. Just get to know each other. That is the beauty of beginning of a new relationship is getting to know each other. It is really fun.
Anonymous
April 20th, 2018 9:53am
You can always talk to him about how your day was and about what you did and about his day, or plans, or common interests
There are so many things you can talk about with him. You can tell him how you spent the day, or any plans you have or even about movies. You can even go to more deep conversations and talk about why this world is the way it is or why Donald Trump became president or anything like that lol its basically up to you.
Anonymous
April 26th, 2018 4:10am
Talk about how your day was and your plans for the weekend. Maybe ask questions to get to know them better and to be able to understand them. Talk about music.
You can talk about how your day went. Make plans with each other, or things yall like to do. :)
Anonymous
May 26th, 2018 9:13pm
You can talk about hobbies or interests. Get to know each other more and strengthen your bond! You can even make plans with each other.
you can talk about many things. How your guys day went, about the future, goals, dreams, work/ school.
Anonymous
June 7th, 2018 7:09am
Anything that you are comfortable with. Only the sky is the limit, but remember that you don't have to talk about anything that makes you uncomfortable.
Anything and everything! Your day, their day - what went wrong, what went bad, and you'll quickly find that you'll be strengthening your bond with each other through supporting one another.
I would say if it's your boyfriend you can talk about literally anything. He is supposed to be the one you trust and love the most after all.
Possibly discuss your hopes and fears about the future with him. For example what you both want to achieve, your goals, and maybe even your fears. This will help you both to get to know each other much more intimately and might give you some insight into his behavior or habits.
You don't need to have a deep conversation all the time. Small talk, no matter what, just the sound of your voice can be consoling to your partner and vice versa. Sometimes a simple "how's your day?" or morning/night greeting works wonders. :)
goals/plans for the future, conspiracy theories you heard/read about, share your favorite song at the moment
Everything?! From what happened in your life today to what he did with his time. From his interests to yours and right down to all the things you would like to do with him right now if you were alone in the same room :)
The wonderful thing about phones is that they help connect people who can't be physically together. You should be able to say the same thing on the phone as you would in person. If it's something you are comfortable discussing with your significant other it shouldn't matter whether you do it face-to-face or through a device.
Anonymous
July 6th, 2018 8:45pm
Just be completely normal. your boyfriend loves the way you are no matter how silly you think you are or weird he likes you for just being yourself so talk to him about anything that comes to your mind.laugh together,share memories and goals in life and try to be positive in your relationship and if there's any thing that worries you don't doubt to tell him cause he will care
About how well my day went. How much I love him. I'll motivate him. Discuss about serious things. Share something I can not with someone else. Laugh on stupid stuff. Take advices. Give advices. Share problems. Giving love all the way.
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