What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
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Last Updated: 08/15/2021 at 7:48pm
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Anonymous
December 4th, 2015 5:06pm
talk about how your day went if you never saw each other all day, what you are excited about or ask him how his day went and what he has planed for the weekend .
Anonymous
December 6th, 2015 11:56pm
Personal interest or anything that has happened. A joke that you found funny, things you ate, what you felt today. Or possible any future plans.
Talk about your interests, ask him his interets. Talk about your daily life. Talk about each other.. Your relationship. :)
literally anything and everything, hopefully if you're in a relationship you don't need to plan conversations or think of topics because they will just flow but if not then thats okay too. But personally i tend to enjoy them a lot more if its just like talking to like your best friend, because thats what they should be, your best friend :)
About everything, how you're day went, your feelings, what you think, problems. He'll be there for you.
Anything at all! Books, movies, music, how your day went, why you were feeling sad last night - the important thing is to have spontaneous conversation. The topic ceases to matter after a while. :-)
You can talk about many things such as: your day, family, friends, goals in life, what you see yourself doing In the future, what some of your favorite things to do.
how did his day go?, how was school or work?, or ask him how he feels about the latest song or movie
something that interests you! Music, film, sports, science... Be yourself! Be as weird and as wonderful as you want to be! Ask questions that interest you and listen with as much intent as you speak!
Anonymous
August 15th, 2016 12:13am
Everything that comes into your mind of course, a couple should feel free to talk about every subject in the world without fear.
About how much you love one another and how much you need each other and even problems you may be having.
Bunch of stuff! About his day, your day, his future plans, your future plans, and so on! Be creative :)
Anonymous
October 3rd, 2016 11:01am
Being romantic is what you both want when being in a relationship. In the meantime you also may talk about other things such as your future, favorite pastimes, the good moments you have spent together and many more.
Do you have common interests? Maybe you can talk about your day, and ask him about his day. Maybe something funny, interests, inside jokes
Everything! Your future goals for yourself and you two, together. Talk about how your day has been and the same for him. If you are having any struggles with yourself or with him you could talk about solutions. You should feel comfortable talking about anything with him.
Anything at all! Your day, his day, tv shows, movies, music, books, current events, shared interests, stories from your childhood, dreams for the future, secrets and wishes, etc. Anything that you're comfortable sharing :)
Anonymous
October 22nd, 2016 12:53pm
You can talk to him about your day, ask him about his day and from that you two can go ahead and have an endless strings of topic
Anonymous
October 31st, 2016 3:51am
Share with each other how is day went, and how your day went. And, talk, talk. Texting is good when you are running. But, dial his number, and talk-talk. :)
Anonymous
November 11th, 2016 8:32pm
You can talk about your life, how much you love him, how you feel, vice-versa. If he is your boyfriend, you can probably talk about anything.
You can talk about anything, it can range from what you did today or what your week looks like or you could talk about what you saw on tv the other day. You could ask them how they have been doing and or if there really nothing you can think of, you can always result in playing 21 questions, regardless if you know them really well, there will always be parts about someone you won't know yet.
Anonymous
December 17th, 2016 9:34pm
Anything. Your day, feelings, family, friends, anything really. Just see how the conversation goes.:)
you can talk about your day, school, work, when you guys will hang out next. how you are feeling. talk about stuff you did that day
You should be able to talk about anything from your deepest darkest secrets to how good the weather is today. There isn't a real limit although if you're a new couple I'd skip on the deepest darkest secrets for a while
Anonymous
February 14th, 2017 1:35am
Hmm.. A couple ideas: You can talk about your day, how you feel, goals/aspirations, things you have in common, a good movie you just watched or a good book you recently read.
When talking to my boyfriend on the phone, I usually discuss my day at work, what I did today, and my family.
Talk about things you both like, or things you know he likes. People feel good and comfortable and excited when they are given the opportunity to explain or talk about their hobbies, things they love (my boyfriend loves music and playing guitar with all his heart and his eyes shine when he talks about it).
Anonymous
June 11th, 2017 11:00pm
I don't think there should be any limitation, when it comes to such a personal relationship. Basically everything. :)
Anonymous
June 15th, 2017 9:31pm
Anything! The next date you'll have, silly fun questions! You can talk to them about anything! Just know that they're there for you!
Your boyfriend is usually someone who is your great friend and a person you happen to have feelings for. So you should not hesistate to talk about anything with him. It can be a summary of your day or an advice you need. If you're feeling low share your feelings. Or just generally any conversation on any topic serious or funny. You should feel free to hold any conversation you want till the time he is okay with talking about the topic.
The same as you would talk to him if he was in front of you! Your day, dreams, relations, and not just talking, ask about his dreams, day, problems... Communication is essential in a relationship
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