What do I do if I love 2 people at once?

It’s a difficult situation - first thing to contemplate would be : polyamory? May sound jarring, but in the 21st century, it’s a legitimate option. If you find yourself open to it, the next step would be garnering how your love interests may feel about it - but if polyamory is out of the equation for you, then it’s time to contemplate your personal feelings. Go over the facts first : who did you love first? Would it be possible to decipher who you feel a deeper love for? Are you willing to make a compromise? Debating the facts whilst consulting your feelings may be the way to go.

Love is complicated, as most people know. Falling in love with two people at once is even more complicated. Falling in love with one person is the easiest thing to do, but not the best solution sometimes. As some people are polyamory and date more than one person at once, this could be you. If being polyamory doesn't describe you, then you just need to sort out your feelings. Do you love one more than the other? Who can you not live without? Could you see yourself getting over one or both of them? Just some basic questions to help you sort out your feelings. Take care and good luck!