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Getting revenge doesn't benefit either parties, if they were bad to you, you are wasting more time on that person, the world is your oyster, go and find happiness with the right people you can call family :)
Anonymous
February 25th, 2016 4:48pm
stop thinking about him get busy with your life join a sport or gym cook food for yourself and the dear ones have a busy schedule
Anonymous
February 25th, 2016 6:20pm
Getting revenge doesn't help in anyway. It may give temporary satisfaction but it really just brings more pain to the situation. I think the best thing to do is let go of bitterness, even though it will take time, and move on without your ex. Build a better life and become independent and happy without them.
There is nothing called revenge. The more you waste your energy to take revenge more you will be on negative side and thing about her constantly. The best way is stop thinking about revenge and about her completely.. It will give you peace and energy to invest into some productive things
Cheers!!.
Revenge is never the answer. It may seem like getting even with that person is the only way to feel better, but in most cases it's usually the opposite. It may seem strange, but the only real option is to forgive them. It may be hard to do, but in the end you'll be a better abd wiser person because of it. Not to mention you will feel much better.
Well! For a start, revenge isn't something you should do, even if we have an urge to do it sometimes, a feeling that consumes us, it is tempting, I won't deny, but it is not right. If you want to get revenge on an ex? Well, the best way, is to be happy with someone else, someone better than him/she, if your ex misses you, or still wants you, they'll be affected in a psychological way, with a bigger pain than any other revenge plan you could try to do. So yes, be happy with someone that really deserves you, and your ex will go crazy. Stay happy beautiful human!
Anonymous
April 22nd, 2016 8:59pm
The best kind of revenge for an ex is not about him at all, but about you! Focus on yourself and do whatever makes you happiest.
Don't worry...be happy...humanity is unhappy with even God..find happiness for yourself :)
Anonymous
February 18th, 2016 11:52pm
Revenge is not the best path to take. If you are continuing to have problems with an ex, then it would be best to simply talk to them about it in hopes of resolving the issues at hand.
Is getting revenge something, that you want, does it help you in any way? Or is it maybe better to show strength and stand over this, just to be a better person?
Anonymous
February 26th, 2016 8:18am
Be happy. Forget your ex even existed. Always look forward, not back, and make the most of every opportunity you see.
Revenge is never the answer. You should try to move on from this person and live your life to the fullest.
To move on and find happiness. To live a full and happy life and not let the breakup pull you down anymore.
Anonymous
February 28th, 2016 8:13pm
The best way to get revenge on an ex is just being truly happy in life and being successful.........
You don't get revenge. You show your ex that you're happy without them because you are. You're much better than what they say you are and if you two broke up, it's because you both need to find yourselves before you find one another.
Be happy without him :)
To get over them and move on. They can be mad, but they will not effect my life. The best revenge I can do, is to let them see that I don't need them.
Anonymous
March 2nd, 2016 5:12pm
The best way to take revenge is to just forget them and move on in your life. To stop thinking about exes actually helps a lot.
There is no best way for revenge as revenge always leads to something bad or worst. Just find your happiness and let him feel curious as to why you are happy.
I wouldn't recommend getting revenge. Because of this actual fact called Karma. When you generate cause you get reaction. I say the best revenge is to let them see you happy. Showing them that you don't need them to be happy and enjoy life
Be happy. I can't give the best advice here as I'm having trouble letting go of someone, but it sure sounds good, right?
the best way to get revenge on an ex is simple, show them your not bothered anymore, show them you can do well on your own and be successful, show them your new independence, show them your happy!
By being happy with out that person. That's the best way. Why do something back to them. They would hate to see you being a lot more happier with out them.
Revenge is something that hurts the person trying to do it more than the person it is done to. If you really want to stick it to an ex, move forward and live a positive life void of any bad memories of that person.
It's best to not want revenge or feel any anger. No matter what, you should always try to let go of anger, sadness and depression cause by failed relationship. You can talk it out with a friend or an adult you trust and release the anger by yelling outside.
Anonymous
March 5th, 2016 4:48pm
don't try to contact your ex ever ignore him/her even if he or she come in front of you ...
Live a happier, more fulfilled life than them - without them!
You should keep your head high, make yourself look really good to show them what they are missing out on!
Anonymous
March 6th, 2016 2:58pm
Be happy, go out there and live your life. There is no better revenge than for you to show that you're doing extremely well without your ex.
Anonymous
March 6th, 2016 8:21pm
I understand your frustration, and need of revenge, but you shouldn't; just be respectful and please don't take your heartbreak out on your ex. Revenge isn't the way, but I understand your trouble and need to get back at somebody...We all get it sometimes.
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