How would you describe depression?
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Anonymous
July 8th, 2015 9:14pm
I would describe depression as an emotional stress that can cause one to be in a down mood for an non evident reason. Depression can affect daily life causing one not to be social and to be very introverted.
depression is much more than just sadness. its hard to go through it, thats why you need to get back on your feet and like your life happily. 'YOLO'
Anonymous
July 9th, 2015 3:42pm
Depression makes you realize that everything is wrong and off. It feels like your carrying a big weight on your back everyday. Depression feels like your the only one in a room thats not functioning correctly. You don't feel happy and seem hopeless.You feel like you’re moving (and thinking) in slow motion. Carrying on a normal conversation is a struggle. You can’t seem to express yourself. You’re not sure if you still love your spouse/significant other. It seems like everything is your fault. You think your selfish and guilty. You think your worthless when your not.
You have recurring thoughts of death and/or suicidal impulses. Suicide seems like a welcome relief.
To me, depression is a mixed feeling of emptiness, loneliness and failure. Sometimes it can only be one of those things. It's definitely a feeling a sadness and anger. There's a lot of confusion. It can be many different things.
Depression cannot be easily described. Depression is more than only sadness and crying. Depression is a serious mental condition that makes you feel numb, empty, lonely and worthless. Sometimes we even don't feel like eating anymore, or we start to sleep more because it drains our energy.
Anonymous
July 10th, 2015 8:23am
Depression goes deeper then sadness... From my experience there always has to be a trigger which often sends someone on a downwards spiral.
depression is much more than just sadness. Some people describe depression as “living in a black hole†or having a feeling of impending doom
Its like someone has sucked all the life out of you. Leaving you a shell of a person. Where you feel stuck with no way out.
Depression, from personal experience, feels like a very deep hole where, no matter how loudly you call for help, it just seems that no one else can hear you. It varies from a general sadness in that depression lingers and sets in for a long period of time. Having an outlet and/or a support group that understands is a great start to getting a grip on the condition - and do know that depression is a manageable illness. I wish you all the best.
Depression is like the foam pits at those indoor trampoline places. You feel like you might never escape. You pray someone reaches in to help you. You try to crawl free but every move makes you fall deeper. You desperately want to get out, but you don't know how. Depression is a eternal foam pit. Most of the time you can't get yourself out and you need other people's help. That's why it's so important your here. The people here are here to pull you out.
A lot of people say it's sadness, but I would have to disagree. Sure, there's crying at four in the morning. Depression is so much more than sadness. It's this feeling of worthlessness and drowning. It's like you're cold and even though you have fifty blankets and it's 90 degrees outside, you can't get warm.
Depression is a overall sadness, like a disorder that can possibly be cured depending on how deep the depression is in a person.
A feeling of crippling sadness and numbness that prevents you from doing normal, daily activities.
Constant darkness inside of your own head and no one else can see it. It feels like no one else will ever be able to help you.
Anonymous
July 12th, 2015 3:01am
A dark mental cloud that affects relationships, thoughts, and emotions. It is uncontrollable and it is an actual mental disorder.
Anonymous
July 12th, 2015 7:28am
Like a dark cloud hanging over your head every minute of every day. It's like you are being controlled by a puppeteer and they are pulling you this way and that, controlling all that you do.
Anonymous
July 12th, 2015 7:25pm
A sinking feeling. It feels like a knot in your stomach that just keeps knitting tighter and tighter and then losens and then tightens again.it feels like you a drowning with no one to help you,barely able to breath but you somehow are barely surviving
Depression is like having a mosquito in your ear during a big party. You don't notice because you're having fun and it's loud and you're distracted. Then the party ends, and when you're left in the quiet room alone, you realize "Oh man, there was a mosquito in my ear that ENTIRE time..." Sometimes you don't realize that it is affecting you until long after the damage is done.
Anonymous
July 16th, 2015 3:18pm
A case of severe sadness. Most people experiencing depression sulk for days and may not take care of themselves by not eating, drinking, or sleeping. It may lead to self-harm or harming others.
Depression is a state of mind that is very difficult to distinguish from your own identity. It involves hate and sadness for the world, for the future, and towards yourself. You feel like you are trapped in your life, that nobody understands you, and there is nothing you can do about it.
Anonymous
July 16th, 2015 5:27pm
Dark, tiresome, and feeling like your mind has been fogged with a dark mist making your thoughts become negative. You want to cry but don't feel good enough for it, you find yourself in the reach of food but don't have the appetite. You find yourself alone, and isolated. It's hell.
I would describe depression as a state of mind where everything seems bleaker than it is and when a person loses complete hope.I think it is a serious issue which is often brushed to the side by saying get over it which is just not that easy to do.
Depression is an unpleasant feeling or sometimes disorder that takes over the entire mind and body when it occurs. It can come with many emotions such as sadness, frustration, anger, and loneliness. Luckily there are many fixes to kick depression!
Anonymous
July 17th, 2015 7:19pm
It's like not being able to get out of bed in the morning, like there's a giant cloud of unhappiness looming over you all the time. Sometimes, even when you have depression, you'll have really happy moments, but you'll get really depressed again later. It's confusing and mentally taxing to have depression.
Different for different people - some people feel very upset and emotional without proper reason a lot of the time, some people feel very angry, some very inside of themselves and don't want to go out, like to sleep a lot etc. I think it's a totally individual thing.
It feels like you're drowning expect you can hear everyone else around you. It feels like you're stuck in a deep dark hole and there's no way out.
Anonymous
July 19th, 2015 5:24pm
Describing depression is not an easy task since it varies for everyone. My own experience with depression can be compared with a heavy wet blanket weighing down on the back of my neck. It is a monster that forced me to slouch while I gave it my all to fight it without falling on my knees. This was an external invisible pressure I felt. But it can also be described as an internal feeling: a feeling as if I am made up of Russian dolls. The smallest one in the center is the real me trying to rip out and break free but as the layers move further to the most outer layer, the layer that others (friends, family, strangers) see, it becomes just a shell. Depression can mean intrusive thoughts, negative assumptions, crying without knowing why, saying a lot more "No" than "Yes", lack of energy/enthusiasm, and anticipating the worst. It can feel like standing alone asking an important question aloud but having no one hear nor answer you leaving you feeling distraught. Depression may be a lot of things but it is not weakness and you are stronger than it.
Anonymous
July 22nd, 2015 1:52am
I'd describe depression as a sort of suffocating shroud: in a lot of ways, it paralyzes and makes immobile. Personally I often feel like I'm caught in a sleeping bag whose zipper is caught, clawing at my own body from the inside like I'm trying to escape.
Depression is a prolonged feeling of gloominess, along with heightened tendency of inactivity. There are behavioral symptoms, like reduced appetite and reduced interest in tasks. It can occur in a comorbid state, usually with anxiety.
Depression is one of those mental illnesses that you can't seem to get rid off. It's like a bug that follows you around. Depression is a very serious but not as noticed illness. Depression can lead up to other things and it needs to be taken seriously
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