I feel like it will never go away. Will it really?
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Humans are very habitual beings. As such, we easily "get used" to states of being or circumstances. Therefore, it might seem, as though a feeling or situation might never change at all, or at least we cannot imagine otherwise. While that might have sounded rather detached, what I was trying to say is: Don*t let dark times convince you that there is no light. Turn to friends and family for affection and let them remind you that whatever is hurting you now might seem insignificant or acceptable in the future.
Yes it will go away. Everyone that is going through something is a temporary feeling. Have hope and fight through this and trust me you will see how strong you are.
Anonymous
January 23rd, 2016 9:32pm
it will with time and the effort that you put into it going away. don't give up, keep trying. i believe in you
It may just take time, while other ordeals a person comes across may take time, as well as counseling. There is no easy answer to this question since everyone deals with situations in life differently than others.
Anonymous
January 24th, 2016 8:04am
It will.. It has too.. Nothing is permanent in this world.. everything is perishable.. be with the time as the hands of the clock moves it will ease everything
You need to identify what it is as often it is a whole load of stuff all jumbled in together. When things are unto glad it is easy to see them and tackle them one at a time.
Things may never go away completely but it will get better. Everything will heal with time and because easier to deal with everyday
Time heals, it carries us away from the pain we feel today and helps us separate from those feelings
Anonymous
January 30th, 2016 8:15pm
it might feel like it wont go away for now-- and maybe even for a couple years... but it starts with your mind set. Choose to think positively, and get help for whatever your stuck in, and I believe what ever you're feeling will go away :)
Anything can happen, you never know. Whatever it is it can be fixed and you can always get it to go away.
Yes it will because everything does. One year ago I was really sad and now I'm getting really better!
Anonymous
February 3rd, 2016 6:01pm
Everyone has the potential to overcome their sadness. Even though sometimes you may think that there's no good way out, there is always a good way to overcome your sadness. People get better over time. Time is a healer.
Anonymous
February 3rd, 2016 7:10pm
Some things will never go away. We learn to make them part of our everyday and we grow on them rather than dwell.
The feeling of hopelesness is quite common when you suffer from a depression. It's like the depression is trying to convice you nothing can be done about it so it can linger on. But, for most people it certainly can go away.
Things can always get better, given the chance. It will take some time and some strength but you are capable of overcoming it, or you wouldn't of had it. Look for the positives in any situation, maybe this bad time is just preparing you for something great in the future. You will only come out stronger in the end.
Yes, it will go away. People heal, time heals. You can get better. Seasons change. Things can be completely different overnight.
Anonymous
February 7th, 2016 6:50am
Nothing is ever meant to last.
Even infinite ends at its start.
Actually it will always stay, nothing created can ever be destroyed but luckily you will grow bigger, bigger enough for it matter anymore.
It may take day, or it may take years but eventually it will be gone with the wind.
As a fellow traveler, all i can say is, hold on love, it will all fall into places. Just hold on.
-iceberg
It will. If you maintain a positive outlook and set goals, both long-term and short-term, to keep yourself moving forward, things will get easier. This will likely come to pass, and you'll be able to grow and learn from your experiences, and to help others in the future with your knowledge.
That feeling of loneliness, anxiety, or depression? With extensive therapy and support from your loved ones, maybe. Sometimes your stuck with it. Learning to cope takes a lot of strength. That homicidal Easter Bunny under your bed? Not without a flamethrower it won't.
If you want it to go away...then it surely will...but you'll have to try and make it go away...
But if you wish for it to stay...then do every single thing to hold on to it...
Basically it depends on what you want...either way it is you who will decide if it will stay or go away in the end
Anonymous
March 8th, 2016 3:15pm
Possibly. Try to let it have its voice... listen to what it is saying to you. The process of trying to shut it out actually gives it a stronger voice and more power. If you keep listening to it, eventually it loses energy.
Anonymous
March 16th, 2016 9:52pm
it will eventually go away it just takes time and yeah it might go away for a bit but it will probably always come back for a bit
Everything changes with time. No matter the situation is, stay positive and strive through it. It will go away. Whether the situation gets better or worse is on you, how you handle it.
Everything is changing, your cells in your body, your thoughts, your emotions, situations. Everything bad in your past that you thought would never go away either has or its in the process of doing so. Nothing sticks.
You have the power to control what you will let enter your mind and thoughts and what won't. If you want it to go away, you have the determination to get it out.
Anonymous
March 18th, 2016 10:59pm
It won't go away but if you don't think about it and distract yourself it won't come your way. But you have to cope yourself in order for that to happen.
It most likely will. When you are living around an issue for a long time it seems like there is no resolution coming, however someone on the outside can easily see that you can overcome that problem. Just remember, time heals everything. :)
Only time can heal what is on a time limit. The question you should be asking is.. Will my strength stay with me? because strength in yourself can defeat any challenge :)
Anonymous
March 23rd, 2016 2:00am
It will go away eventually. It may take a while and some effort, but it will go away. Until it does go away find something that you enjoy doing, or something new to do.
It will eventually just hang in there it will just take some time to get through but I promise as time goes on it will get easier to deal with.
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