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Why am I here, do I make a difference here or I'm I useless

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Last Updated: 09/14/2020 at 11:01pm
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Top Rated Answers
June 17th, 2015 8:51am
Everyone has their purpose. Everyone has their purpose. Everyone has their purpose. Everyone has their purpose.
April 24th, 2015 2:25pm
I sighned in as a member in 7cups. I had severe depression which got mitigated. Now here I am a listener on the topic depression. As a person who has gone through similar thoughts and state of mind , I am easily able to connect with the users with depression and hope I can make a small change in their state of mind for atleast couples of seconds .
May 7th, 2015 6:35am
You do make a difference, even if you feel that you do not. You will always have value, even if you do not see it right now. :)
May 10th, 2016 10:12pm
Your here because you were chosen to be. The world needs your beauty, amazing personality and inspiration
August 24th, 2015 4:48pm
You are not useless. You have a purpose in life. And just because you can't see it now, doesn't mean it's not there. And that's the great part about life - You get to live each day to find your purpose. Don't give up.
September 19th, 2017 6:42pm
I don't know who are or what you do here...but I can tell you that your contribution here is important and it is appreciated. It doesn't matter whether you are a member or a listener -- if you are devoting some of your precious time here giving and/or receiving support, you are a valued contributor!
August 26th, 2019 11:27pm
Everyone was put on this planet for a reason. We each have our purpose, and our life is defined by how we react in situations. Sometimes it's hard to change things, you might feel like you're only one person. But if everyone thought that way then there would be nobody left to change things. It takes each and every individual to reach compromise. You are not useless, so think of ways you can try to show that you are capable of more. Your life is what you make of it, and it is not defined by your contribution. Each person is important to society, and you must start by believing that you are important as well ❤
March 3rd, 2015 1:12am
Nodody is useless, you only need to find away to do something for our society. Maybe like a voluntier for a orgnanitation or just be the best friend of someone.
April 15th, 2015 6:12pm
i can garantee you are not useless. you probably make a differance in at least one persons life everyday and you probably don't even realize it!
July 18th, 2017 11:36am
Everyone can make a difference! Nobody is useless! We all have someone who cares about us even if we feel like we don't. I care about you ❤️
February 20th, 2018 9:07am
You matter. You are here because you are important, precious and deserve to live a full life. Full of cries, smiles and laughter. Everybody has their downs and sometimes needed support to make them feel better.
March 3rd, 2015 5:23am
Depending on your reason for being here either members or listeners you all play a vital role we are a community and we are dependent on eachother
March 14th, 2015 2:00pm
We're all here for different reasons! No one is made to just be here, it may be hard to believe that we are all here for something, but at least trying to will get you further than you think!
June 10th, 2015 12:55am
Everyone's the same, deep down. If anyone can make a difference, so can you. Focus on the positives, not the negatives! You've already made a difference to my day - how many others have you touched without even realizing it?
June 23rd, 2015 1:02pm
I ask my self that all the time but I decided to make a difference and help as many people as I can, that's why I'm a listener :)
September 7th, 2015 10:08pm
People often feel this way when they are feeling alone, depressed or there are situations in their life bringing them down. If you have these feelings and are finding it hard to push through them, then it might be time to speak with a trained professional that can help like a counselor or therapist.
September 21st, 2015 3:37am
you make a difference here we all make a difference being here either being a guet member or a lsitiner . Its arare gift doing god here.
November 18th, 2015 2:23am
We have all asked this question to ourselves once in our life. Why am I here? Am I worth it? What I had learned over the years was that YOU make your life. No one else should lay out your whole life plan for you. That's for you to decide. You were born to have an opportunity to make change, make that change today. :) in other words, you are completely worth it.
December 15th, 2015 9:43am
Everyone is here for a purpose. The purpose may be big or a small one but we do have it. Yes so you do make a difference
March 21st, 2016 1:55am
You are always helpful, always worth something. Everyone is an very rare gem to be alive, many babies don't even make out to the big world. You are here to do whatever you want to do, whatever makes you happy.
April 18th, 2016 2:14am
You make alot of difference in the world. Right now you are someone's hope ,strength and happiness. Stay strong and true to yourself. You are like a diamond in this world. You are worth so much more than what uou think about yourself
April 19th, 2016 8:31pm
You are here for a reason. You chose to reach out for help and the wonderful community of 7cups is here to be by your side through love, help, and support.
July 26th, 2016 3:37am
You hold the answers to your questions. Please don't feel useless when we have many listeners here to help you.
August 1st, 2016 8:12am
Everyone makes a difference in the world either if it is good or bad, if you feel useless 7 cups is here to help you.
August 30th, 2016 5:11pm
You're never useless. Even when you feel at your worst you are always serving a purpose, even if you can't see it sometimes.
January 3rd, 2017 11:40pm
Everyone is put on this earth for a reason. You are here because you are meant to leave a mark in this world, and you will! don't you ever lose hope and never forget that you truly matter... you are loved and cared for and many people around the world feel the same way you do. Keep your head up high and reach for your dreams as hard as they may seem to accomplish.
May 30th, 2017 3:22pm
You're here because God created you. Every life has a purpose. Yes you make a difference. Maybe you can't impact the world like Bill Gates or Martin Luther King but you certainly do have impact on others. You're a blessing.You're wonderful. Don't ever think you're anything less than the best. Believe in yourself. You're who you want to be. Be the change you want to see in the world.
November 14th, 2017 8:16pm
Everyone is here for a purpose and so are you. You may not have discovered it yet but you make such a difference to this world. Don't give up fighting.
September 2nd, 2019 9:22am
There are so many people in the world, it can be difficult to imagine how one single person can make a difference. One thing to remember about you, is that nobody else is sitting right where you are- with your exact group of family and friends, in your house, neighbourhood, state, and country. With your own relationships, personal history, personality, and way of viewing the world- noone sees things like you do. And nobody can have an impact in quite the same way you do. Every conversation you have and everything you do could have a larger flow-on effect than you might think. You are uniquely positioned to make your own unique kind of difference. What a way to think of it :)
September 14th, 2020 11:01pm
Yes you make a difference. Every single person who is born here in earth makes an impact on themselves and the people around them and the world as a whole. You might argue that there were people who were born and their entire existence is evil and we could've done without them. This is not true. They were put on earth for a purpose, even if it is not one that we can find any good in. How much more so, you, who is not an evil dictator has the potential and opportunity to create goodness and kindness and positivity and change the world even if it's on a small scale