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How can I tell if my mother has dementia?

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Last Updated: 05/09/2022 at 11:18pm
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avanef
March 2nd, 2017 10:21pm
This is what I found on Google: Forgetfulness and memory problems don't automatically point to dementia. These are normal parts of aging and can also occur due to other factors, such as fatigue. Still, you shouldn't ignore the symptoms. If you or someone you know is experiencing a number of dementia symptoms that aren't improving, talk with a doctor.
RamonaWinchester
October 13th, 2017 1:39pm
There are probably things you noticed that already made you think she has dementia - For example making a lot of notes so that she doesnt forget important things - going shopping or doing things she did her whole life become harder - forgetting words - trying to convince others that everything is alright There are many things. You could think about it - maybe she has problems like arteriosclerosis or a high blood pressure - or you have relatives that also had dementia. But sometimes similar things can be caused by having problems with the hearing so maybe she should check that and go to a doctor with these concerns
deedee1909
May 13th, 2016 1:18pm
It is extremely difficult to diagnose someone with dementia. There may be some tell tale signs, such as memory loss, confusion and delusion, but should you be worries do consult a healthcare professional.
kindMoment44
May 6th, 2016 5:44pm
The best way will be to seek real medical attention. If your mother is unwilling to compromise, you might need to go to the doctors yourself, and let some other loved ones know your suspicions too, and see what the doctors say and can do for you.
LooseLips
May 3rd, 2018 2:33pm
A dementia diagnosis should always be made by an experienced clinician, however signs may be noticed by friends and family before medical experts are involved. People with dementia may have trouble remembering things, such as the date, their location, or the identity of people they know. They may forget things that have happened or forget to do aspects of their daily life. You might also notice changes in mood or strange behaviours in some people. Dementia is a progressive condition, so may be subtle at first and better on some days compared to others. There can be many other causes of confusion, which is why dementia is not an easy diagnosis to make. If you are concerned about someone's memory and cognitive function then try and carefully bring it up with the person and encourage them to talk to their doctor.
MyriadHashbrown
February 18th, 2016 4:43pm
Dementia requires a medical diagnosis, and you should seek medical advice from a mental healthcare professional as soon as possible. Use the following symptoms for reference only, please do seek medical care for your mother. Symptoms include forgetfulness, limited social skills, and thinking abilities so impaired that it interferes with daily functioning. People may experience: Cognitive: memory loss, mental decline, confusion in the evening hours, disorientation, inability to speak or understand, making things up, mental confusion, or inability to recognize common things Behavioral: irritability, personality changes, restlessness, lack of restraint, or wandering and getting lost Muscular: inability to combine muscle movements or unsteady walking Mood: anxiety, loneliness, mood swings, or nervousness Psychological: depression, hallucination, or paranoia Also common: falling or jumbled speech
warmPudding59
July 4th, 2018 9:33pm
Verbalize your concern with her and offer your support for finding a doctor and getting a diagnosis. Please stay away from trying to pathologize her based off of online lists... Find a competent professional and let them counsel you and her.
tranquilSunshine51
July 21st, 2018 4:38pm
Maybe ask her,, or search up any common symptoms she may have to that. Take her to the doctor ? ask any close family memebers.
sweetHug98
June 21st, 2018 12:04am
If you have noticed forgetfulness, confusion, and if it takes her a while to finish a sentence, any of these could be a sign of dementia.
Sken24
June 17th, 2018 2:13am
Dementia is extremely difficult to diagnose without medical assistance. Dementia can often mimic signs of depression, through loss of memory, impaired communication, lacking focus and attention, loss of reasoning and judgement and impaired visual perception. It would be beneficial to seek medical advice for your mother.
Anonymous
June 6th, 2018 6:06pm
Here's some common early symptoms of dementia. memory loss. difficulty concentrating. finding it hard to carry out familiar daily tasks, such as getting confused over the correct change when shopping. struggling to follow a conversation or find the right word. being confused about time and place. mood changes.
patientFriend96
April 26th, 2018 9:39pm
Is she forgetting things often, is she acting strangely, does she forget names or conversations? All of those are signs of Dementia. I recommend looking up Dementia on Google and comparing the symptoms. Also I suggest talking to her doctor.
compassionateDay97
April 22nd, 2018 10:55pm
I would start by taking her to the GP. Document all symptoms and changes that you are noticing. You can't physically make a diagnosis just by this. Your best best would be to seek medical advice where they could seek further help if needed.
RainyMemory97
April 20th, 2018 3:30am
You can look up the symptoms for the condition online. But the best way is to consult to a specalist doctor about your worries for your mother's health. He would let you know if she has dementia or not. :)
Anonymous
April 4th, 2018 8:13am
Notice if your mom is having forgetfulness or memory problems more often than usual. It is hard to determine however if someone has got dementia, so seeking professional advice would be better to determine if she does have dementia.
Anonymous
March 3rd, 2018 6:03pm
Take her to a doctor and have them test her for dementia. Even if she shows symptoms you can only know for sure if she is diagnosed by a doctor.
Anonymous
February 21st, 2018 5:48am
The most reliable way to know if someone has dementia is by visiting their family doctor. However, there are some symptoms to look out for, such as: forgetting important dates or names of close friends and family, misplacing items, getting words mixed up, asking the same question repetitively, or going for a walk and forgetting how to get home. However, it is important to seek the support of a family doctor to get a proper diagnosis early for the best quality of care.
Anonymous
February 10th, 2018 2:07pm
Well ask her questions and then have her respond then ask her that question the next week just try to have her remember thing but if she can't she my have the start of dementia
Anonymous
February 1st, 2018 4:24pm
It can sometimes be hard to tell if someone has dementia. Because some memory loss is normal as a person ages. However, extensive memory loss is not. I work in that field and the best thing you can do is take her in to see her doctor and ask for a referral to a neurologist. The neurologist can order an MRI to look at whether or not there are physical signs of dementia. Also, they can order neuropsychological testing (this is what I do in my career) in order to determine if her memory truly is worse than other people her age. Bottom line is, if you think there are problems, it's best to take her to see her doctor.
BlissfulNathalie24
January 28th, 2018 5:24pm
A doctor is best to answer this question. I was the primary care giver to a loved one with dementia and it is not easy to spot in the beginning. Write down the events that have led you to think that this might be a possiblity. Take that log with you to your mothers next doctors appointment and discuss this with them.
Anonymous
January 24th, 2018 2:21am
There are symptoms that can be recognised, such as : Memory loss Difficulty performing familiar tasks Problems with language, There is no way to be 100% sure then to get a diagnosis from a trained and qualified doctor.
here2help5
January 12th, 2018 11:44pm
Look up the signs on google or take her to a doctor to get an accurate diagnoses. Take notes of how she talks and behaves and discuss it with a doctor.
Anonymous
December 14th, 2017 12:01pm
It's normal to forget things once in a while. However, forgetting how to make change, use the telephone, or find your way home are probably signs of a more serious memory problem, such as mild cognitive impairment, dementia or the early stages of Alzheimer's.
Anonymous
December 10th, 2017 12:33am
You have to search the dementia symptoms to know if your mother has dementia, one of the modt commoncsigns in it is forgetting names and numbers.
AvaLive07
December 6th, 2017 4:15pm
Sounds like you are concerned for your mother. This can be a difficult time for you and your mother. Practice lots of patience. Have you took her to see a doctor?
DandyDaisy
November 30th, 2016 5:53pm
You can tell if your mother may have dementia if she is having mental loss, confusion, or forgetfulness. I would definitely try to get her to a doctor to see if she meets the criteria of dementia.
SJA18
November 11th, 2016 4:03am
from a medical point of view you cant it has to be diagnosed however some symptoms of dementia can be noticed, some symptoms include: - forgetting things regularly - difficulty remembering names/places - referring to themselves as a younger person than what they actually are these are again subject to a diagnosis really your best option in this case is to speak to the person and maybe visit your pg. with him/her.
BeckyPositivity
November 23rd, 2016 2:10am
Dementia is sometimes tricky to pick up. But there are some common signs. However, I would recommend visiting a doctor, or an expert who you can talk to about your mother's behaviour. That way, they can diagnose the type of dementia, or tell you if it may be something else!
originalbraveheart63
November 10th, 2016 2:26pm
You should take her to the doctor and consult her. Without a doctor it might not be solved if she has or if she does not.
Anonymous
December 9th, 2016 2:07am
Dementia is an overall term that describes a wide range of symptoms associated with a decline in memory or other thinking skills severe enough to reduce a person's ability to perform everyday activities. If you suspect any of this i would takeher to a doctor.