How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

Be straight forward about it. You don't want to string him along. Be as kind as possible. Write down all the reasons why you don't want to be with him. See and practice how you can break it to him as kindly as possible. Do that. Don't beat around the bush. Try to reason with him. Don't be too harsh on him. Don't say things that will bring his self esteem down. And ofcourse put your point across. Stand firm in your decision if you're completely sure that you don't want to be with him. All the best to you.

Ask your boyfriend if you have time to talk, then try to calmly explain to him that you feel that you don't want to be in the relationship anymore and explain the reasons why. It will be difficult for him and for you, but letting him know that this is the best for the two of you will be reassuring to you too. If he becomes aggressive or you feel unsafe, please notify someone close to you (possibly someone who can pick you up) of what is going on and leave the situation immediately in order to get somewhere safe.

Be gentle with a kind heart as you open yourself up to express yourself to him. Imagine yourself in his position as you say what you need to say to him this will help you. Most likely he will be hurt but if you approach the situation with kindness it will be a better situation for you both. Speaking your truth is so important. Remember that some people are in our lives for a short time others for a longer time and we learn something from every relationship we encounter. He will be ok. You will be ok. You are being re-directed in another direction and this is ok. Say what is on your heart.

Relationships can be hard. No matter what it is, there should always be honesty in a relationship and transparency. I believe you should talk to your boyfriend peacefully and let him know your feelings and reasons to leave. Make him understand in the politest way possible, so as to hurt him in the least way possible. Because you need to take care of his feelings too and understand how he feels from his side. Also, answer all his questions honestly and leave so he moves on properly. Moreover, if you don't feel like being in a relationship, don't. Don't feel pressurized to be while talking to him. Good luck!

Relationships can be difficult at times - especially if you no longer want to be in them. It may not be easy to tell someone that you no longer want to be in the relationship with them. It can be hurtful to the person. However, it can be more hurtful to live a lie. Others can tell most times if you are truly in the relationship with them and are genuine or not. In past relationships, I have worked with how I was best able to communicate my emotions to the person and the best way for them to understand where I was coming from. I also considered their feelings. If I felt that the person would argue with me or want to resort to begging, I would write them a letter. Not a text messege. Writing a letter gives them a chance to truly see how you feel as long as you communicate this effectively. Try not to put the person down or speak unkind words. Point out some good things ou have experienced in the relationship. This may soften the blow. Speak honestly and kindly. I hope this helps. Good luck!

Honesty is always the best policy. These type of conversation are never easy. Just let him know how you feel and be forward about. Giving him a clear explanation will help give him closure. Also a face to face conversation would be best. A phone call or text message would be so impersonal. One thing that may help you go about this is thinking of you would like to be told by someone else. Putting yourself in their shoes will give you a better understanding of how they might feel or react to the situation. Last tip would be don't linger. Says what needs to say and move on. This will keep the situation from escalating.

The best way to end a relationship is to be honest, kind and empathetic. You have to understand that this is going to be difficult for him to hear so be clear about your intensions and give him the opportunity to share how he is feeling so that you both stay on the same page. It's helpful to use "I" sentences instead of "you" so that he doesn't feel like you are blaming him for anything but instead that you're talking about your feelings and experiences. Overall, just understand that it may take time for him to not be upset anymore and be kind.

You could start by telling him that you've appreciated him while you've been together. But a lot of the time people grow apart and change, and that's ok. It's ok to tell them that you feel you have changed and feel that your situation is no longer a good fit for either of you, after all, you wouldn't want him to feel he was with the wrong person either. If you have changed, then you are no longer the person he fits with. It works both ways. So you could tell him that you think of him in this decision as well as yourself.

It seems like you’re unhappy in the relationship you’re currently in, I’m sorry to hear that. If I was you I’d try and talk things through and talk about any issues before jumping the gun and ending it completely. If you’re really sure that you don’t want to be with him anymore, I would personally tell him, it’s not fair on either him or you. But think about any consequences that may occur after the breakup. Don’t do it over text or the phone either, make sure it’s in person, this will allow you to both express your emotions equally. Good luck!!

i'd recommend you do this face to face. its always a good option to choose healthy ways to end something on a good note. maybe go on a lunch and tell him how you feel, completely. give him all the reasons. try to make him understand but do not show any signs of confusion. if he gets that he has an option he'll try talking you out of it and the situation can go downhill pretty quickly. so be careful with words and try to be understanding if he gets upset or something. You'll feel good about ending things as properly as possible even if you don't want to. - just a casual advice as i don't know the details!

Reach a mutual agreement .its okay if you are firm about it.it will be hard at first but if you've seen the long term plan and dont see him as a part of the future you have planned for yourself ,tell him kindly and wait for him to respond. If he doesn't agree,dont force him. pray about it and ask friends for help and come to a conclusion.Seek help from elders and close friends or people who have gone through it previously. Dont bottle up all the emotions.uf you've come to this decision rashly take a step back and think about what you'd want most right now.go back down the memory lane,stroll through the future most importantly live and breathe the present

Talk to him about how you're feeling, and why. Communication is key. A breakup is very difficult, but I believe that through healthy communication, you will be able to overcome this hurdle. Of course it's going to be challenging, and it might hurt, but that's what Listeners are here for! We have your back, and we support you! Remember to try your hardest to refrain from any negative words. Don't react on impulse. Talk to them with kindness, and words from your own heart. Taking this first step is the hardest. But I know you are strong and you can do this!

Truth has always been a little difficult for people to accept. But the reality is that life is so unpredictably short that there is no point just staying with a partner if you dont enjoy it. Hence arises the need to inform your partner of the nasty n hurtful truth that breakup is the only way. As we live in a technologically advanced age, there are several choices to inform your partner of breakup. Although there isnt a nice way about it, text messaging is often used to tell the partner that you dont want to hang out with him any more. Messaging decouples both parties and allows both to catch a breath or two. There is also face to face meeting, video conferencing for remote dates, telephone calls or emails.

Breakups can be really tough, and I am facing the same situation now, and all the fears that come with it. Of course every situation is different, but at the end of the day you need to think of your own happiness - there is no point staying in a relationship that is not working for you - in the long run it won't benefit him either. You need to gather up the courage and make a day to speak with him - in person if possible. Take a deep breath and just be honest and kind about where you are at, and why you feel that the relationship needs to end. Try not to be vague, but be compassionate and prepared to hear him out. You do not need to find millions of reasons - there will be 1, 2 or 3 mai reasons that have driven you to this point -just focus on those in the conversation - but don't accuse or put him down. It will no doubt be emotionally painful, but you will both get through this and be able to move onto a happier place in life.

First of all calm down and relax. If you’ve made up your mind about not being wit h him there’s nothing wrong in it. It may be stress full to think about how to end things with a person you have/had something first. Lets hope you’ve taken unto consideration the fact that you definitely want to break up with him. Then use words politely and calmly with him. Tell him about why is it not working out and give him all the facts. Dont leave him hanging because it may be hard on him as well. Also it maybe that hes been thinking the same but couldnt tell because he was scared as well. Be calm talk to him and tell him its not working out

So every once in a while, a person's relationship with their significant other reaches a point of saturation; either because you lack compatibility and can't seem to stop fighting, or because you just lost feelings at some point, or maybe its just getting suffocating for you. In any of those cases, or whatever other reason you might have, you deserve to be able to get your own space and break out of the relationship. But if you're having thoughts of ending it, you significant other equally deserves to get out of a relationship that is probably not going anywhere. I think, you just simply sit with him, talk to him, and tell him it's just not working out between the two of you. Let him down easy if you can, but be honest and at least give him some clarity about why you're breaking up with him/

The best way to approach it is to be honest. Whilst it will probably be very difficult and emotional, it's the most respectful and mature way to go about it. Try to do it in person, if possible, as text messages can easily be misunderstood in terms of tone (and are also just unpleasant). Answer all the questions that they have (it's likely they will have a few) but also make sure you say everything you've been wanting to say. Try to explain it as clearly as you can, as it is already a tough situation to deal with, without being left confused.

You kind of have to be honest with him about this, because the longer you wait the worse it is going to get. The big key here isn't so much picking the right words, it is picking the method you communicate this. If you can, doing this in-person is usually the best route as your tone and words can be best heard and understood here. But if you're long distance or in a toxic/abusive relationship, you may have to resort to calling, texting, or emailing. Again, be honest with him in that you don't want to be with him but don't resort to rudeness or harshness. It isn't a requirement to explain too deeply your reasons for this, but do not feel you have to explain it more than once. After you do this, I recommend a distracting activity like baking, a movie, or a hangout session with a friend.

Sit down with them when you're both calm and let him know how you feel and that you want to end things. Let him express any feelings he may have as well! It's best to tell him at a time where both of you are available and ready to listen to each other. Make sure not to put him down in any way. It helps to think about what you want to say first. Remember to stay calm and that you'll find the right person for you. I wish you the best of luck with everything!

I guess when you are in a relationship that you want to leave you start to appreciate the feeling when you are single. I guess when you ask someone for something that could give them the power to act and stop you from doing something that you really want. I guess just not saying anything and slowly separating yourself otherwise, talking to them in a good place in person face to face about your feelings. You could say things that you didn't like and pair it with good things so it doesn't hurt your boyfriends feelings. Good luck with it!

Speaking up for one's self is very important in every relationship. Hiding a fact or feeling or thought may definitely be harmful. So it is definitely better to convey how you feel and what your thoughts are. But yes, the way we address it matters the most. That is when you have to be more assertive in expressing yourself. Your body language, your tone, your words and how you convey is definitely the key. Not being too conscious about it, let it flow naturally, but express it in a way that the other person understands how you feel truly.

Tell him that you no longer feel the same, that you need some time for yourself and not for the rest. Speak it with security, because if it sees you insecure you will think that somehow it will be able to convince you so that you do not finish with it. Give him good reasons, with valid arguments. Be totally honest and honest, that will be the best. If your reaction ends up being bad do not worry, you should stay calm and leave if necessary, in any case you have already made it clear. All gonna be okay!

Be honest with him, tell him why you don’t want to be with him. Don’t leave any unanswered questions, get it all off your chest. You should be truthful to the one you had dated before, therefore you should respect him and let him know the reasons why you don’t want him anymore. Your boyfriend is someone you dated and had considered to be a significant other. Respecting him and you is important. Don’t leave any unanswered questions, and just be truthful to him overall, because if you don’t, things will be left dry and at least maintain a good image.

First of all, be sure that you really want this, as this kind of decisions are important for both of you! Try to find the cause of why you came to this point. Then listen to him and try to understand his point of view too. Explain your decision and be kind with your feelings. Give arguments and things that will help him understand. Avoid blaming him, take this as a whole experience, as a journey or a life chapter that has to come to an end. In the end assume your decision and learn to live with it.

The very simple and subtle answer is create some private space, discuss with him what's not going good in your relationship, why you don't want to be with him and go your separate ways without any hard feelings. However you may separate none should have guilt-feel after the separation. And yes while you separate with each other you shouldn't point all the mistakes they've made. It is the end of a certain type of relationship, you two may have to cross paths on further course of your life, leave as good friends. Don't spread bad rumors about anyone, and if you're wanting to not be with him due to some rumors(as such things are common these days) talk to him and go thoroughly with that!! Good day and all the best!

Be honest about your feelings and respectful in the way you express them. Try to talk about your feelings in the first-person "I" instead of sharing them with "You make me feel..." Try to think about what is the best way you would want someone to tell it to you, if you were in his shoes. Be patient with yourself, and be generous in your expectations of how he may react in his feelings or words. Remember that life does not always have to be perfect in every moment, and that we are all trying to make it work in our own ways.

Approach the conversation with calmness and a positive mind set. explain to him that you do not think that your relationship with your partner is not working out the way you wanted it to starting your partnership. he may be frustrated or upset, but empathize with how he is feeling in this moment, and always remember to stay calm. if your partner continues to show violent or angry signs with intent to hurt you or themselves, do not try to diffuse the situation, instead get out as soon as possible and call the police if you feel that it is necessary.

For you to get to the point in a relationship where you feel you no longer want to be in that relationship will be difficult for both parties involved. So the best way to deal with a situation like this in my opinion and taking the situation surrounding the imminent break up into serious consideration is to be completely honest with your partner and do so with compassion but you also have to take into account that his reaction could also be unexpected so you have to plan for all that. One thing you've got to remember is love is no charity and nobody should feel obligated to be or remain in a relationship they don't want to be in.

There are a few ways you could tell him. If you would prefer to avoid confrontation, you could email, text or ring him. You could confront him if you feel comfortable with it. With relationships, it can be hard when someone you like breaks up with you, no matter how old you are. So he may feel sad or upset but just know that it's far better you to tell him now. If you continued to date him as you didn't want to hurt his feelings but you no longer liked him, it wouldn't help. You'd be unhappy and he'd be in love with someone who doesn't love him back. So like I said, best way to break up with someone if you want to avoid confrontation is text, phone, or email. :)

Don't tell him.. Talk to him. Find a place to sit and talk, start by telling him how was your experience of this relationship, ask his experience. Tell him what you are thinking and why. Because everyone deserves a reason. Slowly and steadily, work upon coming to a mutual decision, so that it doesn't impact anyone's life in a harsh way. If he doesn't agrees to breakup, ask him why, and then make him understand your point of view. I hope this answer will help you to get out of a relationship which you doesn't want anymore. Wish you luck dear.