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Forum Guideline Refresher: Listener Boundaries & Utilizing Member Accounts
by Heather225
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Whether you are new to the community or a seasoned Listener, it’s always good to refresh ourselves on the guidelines that keep our platform safe. One topic that comes up often is Listener Boundaries (specifically Forum Guideline 7) and knowing when to use a Member account.
The Golden Rule: Maintain the Listener Role
When you are logged into your Listener account, your primary focus should be on giving support. If you are going through a tough time, need to vent, or are looking for emotional support for your own personal struggles, please switch over to your Member account.
This ensures that anyone reaching out to a Listener is connecting with someone who is currently in the right headspace to help.
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Relating vs. Seeking Support
It is totally natural to want to connect, but there is a clear line between empathizing with someone and accidentally reversing roles:
* Okay (Relating): Briefly mentioning a past experience to validate a Member's feelings and show them they aren't alone. (e.g., "I hear you. When I dealt with anxiety, I felt really overwhelmed too.")
* Not Okay (Seeking Support): Sharing your current struggles in a way that shifts the focus to you, which puts the Member in the uncomfortable position of having to comfort you.
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Keep Your Accounts Separate
To protect everyone's boundaries, 7 Cups requires your Listener and Member identities to remain completely separate.
* Please do not link your two accounts in your bio or username.
* Avoid announcing, "I'm going to switch to my Member account now." Just log out and log back in!
* Keeping these separate stops lines from blurring and prevents Members from feeling obligated to support a Listener they previously confided in.
Listener Boundaries are enforced in Forum rule #7: "Users are expected to maintain a listener role if on a listener account. This includes not seeking emotional or personal support and following the expectations of a listener outlined in active listening. Please switch to a member account if necessary." Please note that violations of this guideline result in post removal.
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What About Listener Support?
If you had a heavy chat and need to decompress about your listening experience, that is what Listener-only spaces, such as the Listener Support Room [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=2_2b554a18cf379d85bN8W7-fzi03rI51eauafmg], Peer Supporters [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc2yFIiL6az6UEOc5LNqOOERpM7D0g8F49x0qjbIq7QwhJOBQ/viewform], and Mentors [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training/mentors/]are for! However, if you need to talk about your own real-life problems, please log into your Member account to get the dedicated support you deserve.
Taking care of your own mental health is just as important as being there for others. By keeping these boundaries clear, we keep the community safe, organized, and supportive for everyone.
Follow us on social media!
by Hope
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Hi everyone, I hope you all are well. Did you know you can follow 7 Cups on your favorite social media platforms?
Social media can be a mixed place, on one end we can find accounts/pages related to all of our favorite things but on the other hand, it can make us compare ourselves to others and sometimes interact with less than positive content. On our social media accounts, we share positive content focusing on inspirational quotes, the great things happening in our community, and what's up in the mental health world with a little fun in between. Our aim is to provide you with content that is good for your mental health.
Following 7Cups social media accounts not only makes a positive impact on your feed, but it also helps us reach more people. More people can know about our platform and can benefit from our mission. That's quite a win, win if you ask me!
To acknowledge and show our appreciation for the support you show you and us! Everyone who follows the following social media accounts will receive the ‘Super Supporter badge'
Instagram - @7Cups [https://www.instagram.com/7cups/]
Twitter - @7Cups [https://twitter.com/7cups] & @7CupsTeen [https://twitter.com/7CupsTeen]
Facebook - 7CupsOfTea [https://www.facebook.com/7CupsOfTea/]
Youtube - 7 Cups of Tea [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYsco2bYgzQzUsLnaO899Qg]
LinkedIn - 7-cups [https://www.linkedin.com/company/7-cups]
You can also follow 7 Cups Academy on LinkedIn! 7-cups-academy [https://www.linkedin.com/company/7-cups-academy/]
Step 1) Hit follow! (We understand that not everyone has accounts on all social media platforms so you can follow the ones that you have accounts on)
Step 2) Reply to this thread and let us know that you have followed us!
7 Cups for the searching soul book - Read and review to get a badge!
by Hope
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September 2nd
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Hi everyone, I hope you are doing well. Some of you may be aware that we have our very own book! It's called the 7 Cups for the searching soul. There is even a training /self-help guide based on the same book. The book focuses on helping you understand your behavior better, provide you with tips and tricks to grow as a person, and provides in-depth information about how our platforms can support you with your journey of growth.
We encourage everyone to read the book and reflect on its contents. The admin team and I have read the book and we have really enjoyed the overall experience.
You can download your copy of the book on Amazon for free here [https://www.amazon.com/7-Cups-Searching-Soul-7Cups-ebook/dp/B01BFWMCXY]
* Please note that the book is available in the following Amazon marketplaces: United States, United Kingdom, Canada, India, Mexico, Brazil, Germany, Japan, Spain, France, Italy, Australia, and the Netherlands.
Don't see your country listed? We've got you covered! Please find PDF and MOBI versions here [https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/611898].
To get the Soul Searcher badge please follow the following steps:
Download the e-book from Amazon (if your country provides it) or use the second link and read it.
Leave us a review on Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/7-Cups-Searching-Soul-7Cups-ebook/dp/B01BFWMCXY] or Good reads [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/28930126-7-cups-for-the-searching-soul?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=465CcxbNjk&rank=1].
Respond to this thread, let us know you did step 1 & 2 and tell us what were your favourite bits!
We will appreciate your support in downloading and reviewing the book as more downloads/reviews help us reach and support more people.
Teen Only Spaces!
by Kate
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April 26th
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To celebrate 7 Cups' 5th Birthday, I am pleased to announce that today is the day that the Teen Zone SC [https://www.7cups.com/home/teens/]is officially locked to Teens and Adult Teen Listeners only!!
In addition to making Teen Zone a teen only SC, I'm excited to announce one more teen only space in our community. Please check out the new Teen Self-Esteem & Body Image Forum Category. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TeenSelfEsteemBodyImage_190/] Like Teen Zone, this space is locked to only teens and approved adult teen listeners.
Check out the space, make a post, explore. We're looking forward to seeing what kinds of spaces you like and want as teen only so let us know!
I am thrilled to see this plan in action and to give teens a space to call their own in the forums. Welcome!
Early Next Week/ Dec 14 or 15: Compassion Jar
by Laura
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October 28th, 2025
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We are excited to announce a new upcoming feature: Compassion Jar
Last month, we launched our upgrade and back 7 Cups campaigns in our attempt to become a sustainable organization. We will be launching a feature which better involves the community in the process of becoming sustainable. This update will allow everyone to better understand and visualize our collective goals and how we are doing in reaching them.
This special feature will be a compassion jar. Every time someone backs 7 Cups or upgrades their account, the jar will fill up a little more. We will let everyone know and we will all celebrate as a community because every penny helps us help more people in need. We will have weekly goals that we can track based on how full the jar is getting through the week!
Remember, the most exciting this is that every time someone backs 7 Cups or upgrades their account, one more person in need gets free emotional support.
Missing badges are coming back!
by Ece7Cups
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August 2nd, 2024
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Hi all! Thanks to feedback from the community (aka YOU!) we've identified & resolved a bug where some users were missing lower-level badges despite completing the requirements for higher ones. Our fix should go into effect in the next 24hrs or so.
The next time you chat, post in the forum etc, you may notice some badge alerts pop up if you had any missing. Enjoy! 🎉
December 29: Listener PMing Member Feature!
by Laura
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May 9th, 2024
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Hello Glorious Community,
It is with great excitement, that we would like let you know the feature allowing Listeners PM members will launch tomorrow morning! You can learn more about the evolution of this feature here. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdatesInformationFortheCommunity_100/SiteUpdatesDecember2016_1090/December14ListenersPMingMembersFeature_55871/]However, here are the hot items to know:
Listeners who reach the both of the below outlined badges will be able to PM Members:
----> Tick Tock: For reaching ten 1-on-1 chats with members
----> Loyal Friend: Listeners who earn 1 approved positive review
Members you may receive a PM from a Listener for the following reason:
1) A friendly welcome to the community
2) A listener saw a post of yours in the forum and wants to support you
3) A listener interacted with you in group support and wants to support you
4) A listener saw one of your feed posts and wants to support you
5) If you are working on a community project with a listener & they PM you to collaborate
There are likely other situations too!
Members, you will have the ability to opt-out of this feature. If you do not want Listeners to PM you, you can turn this off on your settings page.
We believe that this update will increase support giving in the community and encourage listeners to support and community build with members in a more dynamic way!
I will be present in the community throughout the day tomorrow and available to answer your questions in this thread or in the chatrooms. We know this update may present us with more opportunties to learn and make the site better & I am excite to do that together! Additionally, a form will be provided tomorrow (after launch) providing a way for you to share bugs or give additional feedback on the update!
Eid-al-Adha 1444/2023
by magicallyoriginated430
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Eid-al-Adha Mubarak to all those who are celebrating,
Eid-al-Adha is a festival of Sacrifice, Trust, & Love for the almighty Allah..
May Allah accepts our sacrifice nd bless us with his peace nd mercy...
Aameen 💫🙌
September 28: Easy Account Switcher!! Yay!
by Laura
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June 22nd, 2021
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Great news everyone!
Many of us use both our member & listener accounts regularly. We have officially made it easy for you to quickly navigate between your acct types! This has been on the app for some time now and we are excited to add it to desktop!
All you need to do is log out & you will see this new upde appear on your settings drop down. You'll want to make sure that your listener & member accts are linked up to the same email address to utilize this feature.
It looks like this -
Yay!!!! Enjoy easy acct hopping!
Site Update - New Version of the iOS & Android apps!!! wooohooo!
by Laura
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May 11th, 2020
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Hi All!
yes yes yes the news is true! We have a new version of the 7 Cups app for you to download!
What's new?!
So glad you asked!
A brand new... new hamburger menu for easy navigation to your FAVORITE features!
When you click the hamburger.... you are brought to this menu page!
Motivation and Self Help SC is merging with Appreciation and Gratitude plus a rebrand!
by Jill7Cups
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May 11th, 2020
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That was a mouthful!
The Motivation and Self Help SC will be merging into Appreciation and Gratitude in the coming weeks, just in time for Appreciation and Gratitude's year anniversary on Feb 13 (stay tuned for some fun surrounding that).
In addition, Appreciation and Gratitude will be updating its name to be Positivity and Gratitude. Compassion Corner will remain as the 24/7 chat room, and the pop up discussion room will be Positivity Corner.
We look forward to strengthening the community by joining these two great SCs into one.
Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will. -Zig Ziglar
April 4 -The 7 Cups Wiki is Live! All the information you need to know!
by Laura
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April 27th, 2020
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Hi All -
I am thrilled to announce that the 7 Cups Wiki is LIVE! Please carefully review the information below to learn how it works!! Big thank you to @krinkthemellowunicorn & @ezrabc for their help building the wiki! They have created an incredible tool that I am so excited to share with you today!
Please review the original post annoucing this update here. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdatesInformationFortheCommunity_100/SiteUpdates2017_1454/December29NewCommunityBuildingToolin2018Wiki_106930/]
What is a wiki?
A wiki is a collaboration tool. You can think of it as a shared resouce to host our communities collective knowledge & shared wisdom! Our community has been using the forums and google docs to house this information for nearly 5 years. The wiki is here to help bring more organization, structure and access to all of our shared resources!
You can access the wiki here -
The wiki is organized using the following structure -
Category (parent topic)
Sub-Category (Topics within parent topic)
Articles (Specific articles related to the parent category & Subcategory)
Here is an image to explain the structure -
Each category and sub-category can house as many articles as needed.
Everyone on 7 Cups will be able to view the wiki! yay! But to start we will limit the privileges of editing/ adding new pages to the following individuals -
Badges who get access to below privileges -
Forum Mentors, Forum Mentor Leaders, Forum Supporters, Ambassadors, 7 Cups Mentor badge, Forum Member Leader, Forum Teen Star, Chatroom Teen Star, Chatroom Mentor, Quality Mentor, Teen Quality Star, group mod leader, Teen Mentor, Community Mentor , intern mentor, group mods, mega member, forum member leader, peer support, community mentor leader, Wiki team badge (sign up for the wiki team here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc2asSqNmMuZhgxUXOLLJTIzY_7CbV0WbPAHHSp6TMdB6Mqzg/viewform])
Privileges -
creating/editing public pages
creating/editing public categories
creating/editing listener pages
creating/editing listener categories
-------> If you are a volunteer helping with the wiki migration, please watch this video. It explains all of the wiki features, how to use them and where they live in wiki. VIDEO HERE [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-rgjrsLYqHA&feature=youtu.be]
-----> If you are a volunteer helping with the wiki content migration, please let us know what content you will be migrating. And find others who want to help migrate the same content here! [https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/17pKXEJpb2wMhdTGSbralFcPe1OKWZqGzisNJkLhoyjk/edit#gid=0]
For everyone..... GIVE YOUR FEEDBACK ...... As you explore the wiki, please share your feedback here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeC6ZfsGZPnCZtQL8nMVReWMAH5ynod24ImTZjz5c4BVTdjaw/viewform]We will be carefully reviewing your feedback and making changes as needed.
Listener training has a new addition
by Jill7Cups
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September 21st, 2019
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We are excited to announce we've added another section to our Active Listener training that covers how to take your first chat. This is a tour of the product (general queue, tools available in the chat box, navigation tips, etc) to help our new listeners feel more comfortable.
Want to check it out? Did you know you can always re-take the initial listener training? It is the Active Listener training at the very top of all the available trainings.
This is not a large change, but one we think will be helpful to our brand new listeners. We will continue to work on enhancing our new listener experience and have a few projects in the works. Stay tuned!
July 9 - New FAQ for you!
by Laura
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September 16th, 2019
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Hi All,
Exciting news, we have been hard at work building out a new FAQ for you!
The new FAQ has the following upgrades:
- Interactive. user friendly design
- Updated content
- Ability to share feedback on the content
- Crisis referral page for you to share with members/ listeners and the community (learn more about our crisis referral page here. ) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/KitchenTable_133/CommunityInformation_742/Crisispolicyandcrisispage_204036/1/]
OLD FAQ - https://www.7cups.com/supportDesk.php
NEW FAQ - https://7cups.zendesk.com/hc/en-us
The new FAQ is not currently linked on the site but will be soon. Keep in mind this is a work in progress. Right now it includes information on community, crisis referral, and therapy. We will continue to add to this FAQ to make it more robust!
Listener Certificate Levels just leveled up!
by Jill7Cups
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August 21st, 2019
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Listening to someone to offer support is why 7 Cups exists, and we offer a unique volunteer experience that allows us to listen on our schedule. Without dedicated volunteer listeners we would not exist! As such, we want to make sure those who volunteer in this capacity get recognized and have a way to authenticate their time spent volunteering. Which leads us to:
Listener Certifications got a makeover… again!
Weve added 6 more tiers. Why? We wanted the first few to be easier to achieve, and we wanted to curate the required trainings, badges, listening hours, etc to really reflect a Listener who is dedicated to growth and learning (not to mention time spent listening).
There are now 10 certification levels. Check out your current level here [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php] (click the certificate button to toggle over from the training page). For simplicity and professionalism they are named for their level, for example Level 1, Level 2, etc. These are not associated with the badges and levels of passing the active listener trainings. You must still fill those out if you would like to achieve those badges and credentials.
Please note you must be on a Listener acount to access the page 👆
⚡️The mix of cheers, training guides, badges, star ratings, and chat hours are how we guide a listener to continue growing. Learn more about cheers here [https://www.7cups.com/about/faqBadgesCheers.php%C2%A0], they are easy to get when you are working on becoming a great listener!
Fun Fact: At the time of this posting, no one has reached level 10 yet (but a few are close!)
We've opted to remove the four badges associated wtih passing the Active Listener trainings/tests: graduate, master, rocket, and scholar. Expect to see those poof soon.
When you achieve a level the downloadable certificate button will turn blue. The first and last name you used to make your account is what will show up on the certificate. You can update your name in my settings anytime.
What level are you?
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