How can I talk to people normally?

Normal is subjective. Just be yourself! Everyone has their own unique characteristics, no two people are the same. As long as you're kind, you are doing great.

try practicing with one person first? maybe chatting up people here at cups will also help :) let me know if you'd like to chat!

It's all about how confident you are and how comfortable you are with yourself. If you think low of yourself, that only makes talking to others more difficult.

Know that these "people" might be asking the same question as you. Dont think too much about it and try to visualize the best case scenario of how the conversation could turn out! Good luck

Just be comfortable and speak your mind. People will like you for who you are. Any way of feeling comfortable is the definition of normally

Try to mention things that you like and see if they share the same interest. If not, start off by asking how they are and then slowly engage into light conversation such as school, work ethics

First of all, please do not judge yourself and do not have sky high expectations of yourself. That's like putting limitations and setting so many hurdles all around you. Just enjoy the company of the people you are with. You do not have to contribute much. You do not have to keep the conversation flowing. Actually, it's really important to be a good listener when you are in someone's company. Many people who are in a conversation actually do not really listen to one another. They just chat. A good listener contributes by listening patiently and speaking only when it's needed.

firstly you need to trust people and make friends, because you have friends you can talk native with them without problem

Think about what you're saying before you say it, but don't concentrate on what the other person is thinking, concentrate on what you want to say. Breath whilst talking.

Talk to them the way you'd like to be talked to! Ask them questions and if they like the same things you like, tell them! Try to understand how they're feeling, and learning to watch body language is a very good start. Smile when they smile, look worried when they're worried, etc. You can do this!

When I meet new people, I often feel anxious to start a conversation, because I'm scared I'll sound stupid or say all the wrong things. What helps me personally, is to try to have an open and positive mindset. Beforehand, I try to think of general, safe topics to use as a conversation starter. It doesn't have to be the weather, but it can just be something simple as where people are from, how long they've worked somewhere, etcetera. A bit awkwardness is okay, especially with strangers. Everyone is nervous talking to people they've never met, but be a bit courageous! There are many nice people out there, but you'll never know if you don't talk to them.

Start simple. Look at the person and note something you like about them, then give them a compliment. "I really like your shirt, where did you get it?" Allow the conversation to grow and listen CAREFULLY. "Oh my daughter got me this shirt for my birthday!" If you are listening, you know the person you talk to has children, or at least a daughter. Follow up on that : "Oh? How many children do you have?" Remember that conversation is a give and take. The more you focus on the details of what others tell you, the more you can build out a framework of topics to discuss. If they have kids - you can ask, are they married? For how long? Are they a native of the city you met in? What's their favorite sports team, if they even like sports. Listen. People will tell you a lot of snippets of their interests. Ask questions, and tell them about yourself too!

If you're struggling to hold "normal" conversation with people, consider practicing different conversation topics online first. Join different forums and threads where you can attempt to hold conversations with people who have the same interests. After that, you can follow the example of people in TV series, movies, and talk shows. Practice your facial expressions and posture in front of the mirror. Work on your confidence and any self-esteem issues with a friend, family member, or counselor.

just take your time. relax. be yourself thats all you can be. dont worry so much. people should accept you for who you are.

The most important thing to remember when talking to people is to talk about them. Studies have shown that people find others more likeable when the others ask about them.

everyone has their own label for normal. if you feel a person is viewing you as abnormal you may not know them well enough to understand. you can keep the conversation minimal. sometimes people like when you talk too much about yourself and more about them.

As long as you are kind and understanding, you can have great conversations! But also remember to be yourself! :)

Sounds like you are worried about your communication. When you say normally, what do you mean by that?

Start by making them your friends. That will make it easier for you to be comfortable around them and speak normally.

What helps me is to pretend I am confident. It's difficult, and even impossible for some, but it helps to just pretend a little bit. Other people use different methods.

Just be yourself! Listen to people when they speak. Truly hear them. Be kind and honest with your responses. Let your personality shine :)

To talk to people ”normally, ” you have to be confident in yourself. People are likely to listen to someone who is comfortable to talk to, confident, and natural. Don't try to be someone you aren’t and stick to topics you know best. If you don't know something, don't be afraid to admitt that. After all you have to be yourself to be ”normal.”

Being yourself is the key. Nothing would be as beautiful and unique as you are. Relax, don't get nervous or anxious and feel comfortable with your company.

Communicate with others in a kind and helpful manner. Talk to them as you would want them to talk with you.

You just pretend everyone you are talking to are people that you want to talk to. Have you checked out the pleasant activities list on the web so you can do fun things and meet new people?

Conversations are all about people connecting. It helps to have shared interests/experiences and be aware of popular trends/famous people/tv shows/etc, but it all comes down to really wanting to hear what the other person has to say. You have to ask questions and genuinely care what their response is. If you know you won't care about their answer, don't ask that question. Do things that you're proud of and would be willing to share in a conversation. If someone asks you, "What did you do over the weekend?" and you don't want to tell them you just watched TV, slept, and played video games, then just choose to do less of those things and fit in at least one thing you'd be happy with.

Say Hello, Ask to sit with them. Ask them there likes and dislikes and compare them with yours. Try to be calm and slowly reveal you're true selves to them so they won't freak out. There you go!

By using words. Socializing is not a piece of cake for everyone but the more you try and improve, the better you get a it.

You can talk to people normally by just be yourself, be willing to interact with others and go out with friends to have fun too.

In reality, there is no such thing as normal. Be yourself, and people will love you for you. If someone does not love you for you, it is their major loss.