Will I ever find someone else to love me?

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trouvaille
February 3rd, 2016 5:44am
Everyone feels this way at some point in their lives, may it be after a breakup or just after a long time of inactivity in their love lives. There will be someone who will walk into your life and make you see the sun shine brighter than it ever has. Someone will come in to your life and make you question if you even knew what happiness was until they walked into your life. I know it's easier said than done, but whoever that person is, they're out there and they will come. But right now, look around you, you're already surrounded with love. Friends, family, coworkers, everywhere. You are already loved, and that person will come for you when you least expect it.
KathyTheHealer
May 16th, 2015 2:38am
You will, definitely. But maybe you dont know how, because you are asking this question. The point is not to "find" but to "make" the person love you. To make a person love you, you have to love that person first.
LemonToLemonade
May 9th, 2016 10:28pm
You will, but it takes time. I know it can feel like forever, or that you feel lonely and that's okay. We all go through that sometimes. Someone will care about you and love you, but remember that not all relationships are meant to last. Sometimes you'll have to walk away, or someone will break your heart. It gets better, even when that happens. Promise.
peacefulNutella97
January 5th, 2016 4:42pm
Yes! Of course you will find someone else to love you! Everyone is unique and special in their own way and one day there will be someone more compatible for you who will fall head over heals for you and love you so much. Remember that you are amazing and deserve the best. One day you will find that and someone will love you so much. Just like everything, the things that are going to be the best sometimes take the longest wait, but it will come.
Anonymous
September 21st, 2016 10:12am
The one who leaves you wasn't meant for you. There's someone in the world who's meant for you. You'd definitely find the perfect person who'll love you more than everything. You just need to wait. You don't have to look for anyone to love you, the perfect person will come in the perfect time. Just be patient. Time heals everything. :)
FountainOfTruth
February 24th, 2015 9:41pm
Probably. The thing you have to realize is that statistically, if the world gave rise to someone like you, then it's probably the case that you're not as weird as you think you are and the world gave rise to someone else just like you, who will love you for how closely you match. It's just a matter of putting yourself in situations where you two are likely to meet.
warmPassion38
July 27th, 2015 7:35am
Yes! But instead of worrying on "Will someone love me?" Maybe focus on yourself and making yourself a better person.
Anonymous
November 12th, 2017 10:01pm
Probably so, but you must understand that if you are looking anywhere for love other than within yourself you are fighting a losing battle. Love is just a certain sweetness of our own emotions, and few can sustain this for any period of time. Love is fickle. Love yourself and then you will never have to look elsewhere.
Anonymous
November 10th, 2016 5:59pm
Yes you do, because there are so many fish in the sea that you will find someone! but it might take some time in order to find the special one but please notice that you are an amazing individual and that everyone that does not like you as much as you like yourself, it is their loss!! :)
Mike30400
January 5th, 2016 10:23pm
Of course you will, there is always someone special out there for everyone. You just have to keep your head up and remember that.
jasminexxx
February 2nd, 2016 2:02pm
Of course you will. Everyone finds love eventually, most importantly is to find someone who is right for you. don't rush it
PoolOfBrokenMemories
October 8th, 2016 5:27pm
One day, you will most likely find someone you love. There are 7 billion people before and if you have experienced love in the past you'll experience it in the future. The social skills you used for someone to love you in the past are the same skills you'll have to use in the future.
GretaP92
November 12th, 2016 9:55pm
Yes, yes you will! You are an adorable human being, and you will find love again. If you look closely, the world is full of love. Sometimes the love finds you..
luminousMermaid40
December 30th, 2016 7:24am
Of course you will find someone who will love you and respect you it will take time but at the end you will find that special person
LiveAndLetLive78
February 8th, 2018 5:19am
Yes you will, even if you don't believe in soulmates or such, there are always people around whose eyes glisten when you are around. Look for it and you shall find love
Anonymous
February 23rd, 2015 9:50am
Yes, of course! Every human being is different in their own ways. There must be and will be a person that is like your personality.
Anonymous
April 25th, 2015 11:34pm
The chances are you probely will, but love comes when it comes. It can take time so don't worry. I'm sure you will find someone.
sweetlinda22
November 10th, 2015 1:22am
Yes you will dear. There are wonderful people out there just waiting for you to heal and open your heart to new possibilities. For as long as humans have hearts you will find love and you will be happy you did not despair.
scarlettbegonias
November 12th, 2015 5:10am
Yes! There is someone out there for everyone and just because whoever you were with in the past didn't work out the way you had hoped, doesn't mean the right person isn't still out there waiting for you.
Marvelous
December 29th, 2015 1:58am
You will, eventually. People go through a lot of relationships in life most of the time, and even if something hurts tremendously, you will always get out of it eventually. I can promise you that someone else will love you again the way you want, maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but someone will.
Anonymous
March 18th, 2016 3:53pm
Yes you will. there is someone perfect out there of each and every one of us. i know it sounds cheesy but its the truth.
Anonymous
May 9th, 2016 6:40am
yes , life is full of good , lovely , kind , and caring people . and one day maybe very soon you shall find your soulmate
BeautifulOutlaw
September 14th, 2016 11:04am
Absolutely. However, don't go looking for love. Let it come to you. One day, some day, the right person will come along and treat you how you've never been treated. And, that will be the greatest feeling in the world. Just keep your head up, it'll take time.
Greatlistener87
September 15th, 2016 5:39am
If you put yourself out there you can meet lots of people. But know now that you are smarter and wiser to know the ones that you have to stay away from and the ones u have to keep.
Anonymous
November 11th, 2016 5:54am
There is someone out there for everyone. It may seem like no one else will love you but you will find someone one day who will love you endlessly. Just be patient. You will find them (:
SueFades
December 18th, 2016 6:08am
There is always someone out there who is willing to love you like you've always wanted, you'll run into the wrong people who say the right things but never give up looking for that right person.
MusicObsessedSupportGuide
April 14th, 2018 4:27pm
Yes, finding the right one is hard but if you keep putting yourself out there or searching I'm sure you will find the right one, it may take a while but patience is key, and if you ever feel like you're going to break down because of it, just remember there's someone out there that is looking for someone exactly like you. Keep your head up and stay strong, I know you can do it!
Anonymous
May 15th, 2018 8:14am
of course you will! you just need to wait for the right person to come along to show you what love really is
debojyoti012
June 15th, 2018 8:33am
Everyone will find a real love once in their whole life. no matter who are you or what you do someone will love you. You just need to keep patience and believe on yourself. At the right time you will find someone special.
lyricalPillow74
June 7th, 2019 4:59am
Yes of course! We are all here to love you and give you all the support you need! :D But for someone to love you, you need to love the other person too. And if you have to learn how to love the other person, you have to learn to love yourself first. I know what I say today might be difficult for you to practice right now but if I give you an example you can understand better. Imagine you are in love with a person and that person does not see anything good in himself/herself. he/she constantly seeks for love. What would you tell that person? Another thing is you would definitely look for some qualities in that person, right? So start developing those qualities in yourself. And trust me, when you start doing that with small, baby steps, imagine how much good it is going to be. It give you purpose. It teaches you how to love. It teaches you how to be complete within yourself. :D So learn to love yourself a bit more everyday. Practice a step towards self care and maintain a journal for the next 21 days, write three things you're grateful for everyday. And after 21 days, you will form a habit and when you read the previous pages of the journal, you will realize how much you have grown!! :D Good day to you sweetie! Good luck on a new birth and a new journey! Love and hugs coming your way!! :D