Will I ever find someone else to love me?

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Anonymous
September 6th, 2017 11:15pm
I know many of us have been through some tough times relationship wise with broken hearts and what not but I say... don't give up. I know you're hurting and maybe frustrated with love but don't give up on love. There is someone out there and that person will see how amazing of a person you are. Just be you. Don't change for anyone. They will love you just as you are. That is what you deserve. So, don't give up.
shallow28867
September 15th, 2017 2:33pm
Everyone has people who support them, love them - even you have someone who is looking out for you.
Anonymous
September 15th, 2017 6:08pm
In 972773727828819191919 people on this earth, I'm sure you will find someone who'd love you more than your previous partner.
Musicalmoon96
September 24th, 2017 5:58am
May be the one who ditched you wasn't the one for you. May be he/she ditched you because there is another one waiting for you. May be someone fell in love with you yesterday when you were laughing and talking to your friends. May be someone is about tl fall in love with you tomorrow. You never know what is going to happen next. Life is full of surprises and every other day is a miracle. You don't need to go out and look for somebody to fall in love with you. Just sit and wait, the one who is made for you will eventually come to you , who is going to prove everyone else wrong and take you to another world. Out of all the miracles of life, a miracle for you is definitely going to happen. Just wait for the day.😍
AliceCares96
October 22nd, 2017 12:26am
There are many, many people in this world. Someone may be asking themselves the same question. You just haven’t met them yet.
Anonymous
November 7th, 2017 3:49am
We have a reason and a purpose to be here we have a life and we have a family we also have someone ment for us maybe we haven't met them yet and maybe I just can't seem to find there everywhere u look but there is someone ment for you and someone waiting for u at some points in life we will have to be patient and wait for a long time but just remeber every good thing takes time
Anonymous
November 8th, 2017 1:30am
there are billions and billions of people on this earth! of course you are capable of finding love!
Anonymous
November 10th, 2017 2:07pm
There will always be people who will love you. Everything happens when it's supposed to; you just have to wait. People love in different ways. Love is all around you. Just identify it and feel it.
BubbleGumKissxoxo
November 11th, 2017 9:52pm
Yes, you will. It takes patience. You have to be patient and you will find the right person. You also have to focus on yourself though, think about what you want in life and why you want that.
peacefulHeart33
November 12th, 2017 3:05pm
Yes, you will. A favorite writer once said that courage is the first requirement of love. :) You'll also have to love yourself first. Know yourself and invest in yourself so that you'll be more than ready when that person crosses your path someday.
alexwolfgirl87
November 16th, 2017 6:59am
of course! you are intelligent and are capable of so much more than you might know. there is always someone out there.
dreamWaves79
November 16th, 2017 4:48pm
Someone who has had experiences from rejection and feeling like no guy will ever like me, the key is self-love what I mean by self-love is NOT thinking that you are better than everybody else, what I mean is having confidence in yourself. If you are able to love your self then it doesn't matter if someone loves you or not it's all about being patient regardless whether it is weeks, months or maybe even years you need to remember that good things come to those who wait.
NotAGod
November 23rd, 2017 1:17pm
There is someone for another someone in the world - Always. No matter who you are, there will always be someone that is right for you so don't be afraid... Explore.
Anonymous
November 30th, 2017 11:07pm
Yes, everyone has someone out there. Seek love from your parents, family, and friends:) Then when you are ready for a relationship, try that:)
Egowanderer26
December 1st, 2017 3:07pm
This feeling I believe is universal for every human at some point in their life. I think it's important that each chapter is tool to help prepare you for the person who will love you. Be patient and love yourself fully until the timing is right for some one to come into your life and love you unconditionally. It's never to late to find love or ever a mistake to love the wrong person.
Anonymous
December 6th, 2017 5:54am
Of course you will! You just have to keep on searching, and yes I know it may be hard but hey! Life is life you can get through this because you're strong!πŸ’•πŸ‘Š
Lunaa25
December 7th, 2017 9:35pm
Of course you will, oddly enough we tend to find love when we aren't looking. Don't give up on hope.
Katyssmile
December 20th, 2017 10:47am
The end of a relationship doesn't mean that you are not going to find someone else, there may be time before but this time gives you the opportunity to grow as a person and figure out what it is you want in life. We all deserve to be in loving and happy relationships but we need to get out there and meet people. I have recently gone through this and could not be happier as a person.
Recall
January 4th, 2018 10:45pm
Course you will do! Maybe now it may seem you're unlovable and no one will ever love you ever again. There are brighter days to come were someone will love you and cherish you :)
Anonymous
January 6th, 2018 6:13pm
Yes! But before finding someone else to love you, you have to love yourself first. Make yourself your first priority.
Anonymous
January 12th, 2018 9:36pm
Short answer - yes. Long answer - there are couple of aspects. 1) I view relationships like a card house. Both cards have to be pushing each other with same force, for them to hold up. So I apply same principle to relationships. Both sides need to be equally invested into each other, both need to work for it or simply it just won't work out. The card house will fall. 2) You can't expect that someone will find you on their own. Usually you need to put in some effort as well. Be visible, work on your strong sides, grow as a person. Those traits make anyone noticeable and likeable.
Jippie
January 24th, 2018 2:58pm
Of course you will! Most of the time that will not happen when you are "searching" for that special someone however. You stumble upon it when you least expect it. They are on their way though. And they are trying to get to you as fast as they can.
lovelyflowers487
January 31st, 2018 4:43pm
You will find someone to love you, you are probably a great person that has a great personality and you are beautiful. So you will most likely find another person to love you.
eliijaxes
February 7th, 2018 3:59pm
There's always someone who will love you. Sometimes there's even someone you don't know that well but they care a lot about you and love you in that sense.
Anonymous
February 11th, 2018 2:25am
There are 7 billion people in this world all with varying personalities and traits, you may find someone someday or you may not, the future is influenced by your decisions and choices. So the question is do you want to find someone to love you? Only you can answer that. You control what happens to you.
Anonymous
February 14th, 2018 12:14am
Yes, love is a wonderful thing. One thing to consider, love come can come from different people, not just an sexual partner. Consider yourself as the first person that truly loves you, for you!
Anonymous
February 16th, 2018 6:58am
Of course you will. If you find yourself at a broken phase please do realize that this not the end, its simply a new beginning, a new start, a new chance. If you wish to bring a change in your life, you have to take efforts and never ever loose faith in you. There always someone loving us, it needs time for us to understand, realize and understand that person. Same with you.
Nevergiveeupp
February 16th, 2018 6:17pm
Yes , love can come in different way and affection love is all around you, just look and around love and happiness are only real when shared.
KingAaron84
February 28th, 2018 12:13pm
Sure! You have to believe that it's someone out here in the world that is meant to love you like you will love them. Unfortunately, it take a little bit of time to find that person.
divinewillpower86
March 1st, 2018 7:11am
the question will you ever be able to forgive yourself. People find someone who can truly love them or ditch them. Who they meet is never predictable. So try to find peace within.