What happens when someone calls a suicide hotline?

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Last Updated: 03/07/2018 at 4:20pm
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SpencerT
September 24th, 2015 5:57am
As a volunteer for a particular suicide/emotional support line in the UK (and I can only go by my experience there), I can say that we understand how difficult it must be to pick up the phone in the first place. If you suddenly get nervous, don't like the sound of the operator, hang up. Try again as many times as you like until you feel comfortable to speak. The person you speak to will be highly trained and empathetic, so will understand that you may need to take some time before you start speaking. Silence is fine: take as long as you need, every now and then you'll be gently reminded that the operator is still there, and may ask how they can help, is there anything you would like to talk about, has something happened today - that sort of thing. For the charity I volunteer for, everything remains absolutely confidential. We cannot see your phone number, we don't know where you are. You can be completely honest and open.
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Anonymous
March 7th, 2018 4:20pm
According to my experience there are some trained volunteers who will emotionally support you and will listen to you without any judgement

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Anonymous
September 10th, 2015 12:28am
nothing, they dont help...............................................................................................................
Ginieboops
September 27th, 2015 4:30pm
They pick up ask you why you called and they'll give you reasons not to kill yourself talk to you, make you feel loved and give you places to go so it'll never happen again, they are all lovely, confidential and some of the most loving people you'll ever talk to.
lifelovewhy
May 23rd, 2018 3:32pm
Looking for answers on the internet...we've all been there. I just want you to know you don't have to figure this out on your own. I know this might not be something you want to discuss with your friends or family, but if you join this site you can get free, anonymous support from trained listeners and a huge support community. Nobody is here to judge.
Erynn
January 3rd, 2015 8:00pm
It depends, but from my experience they've varied from unhelpful-but-kind to helpful. Good news is, if they are unhelpful or unkind, YOU have the power to hang up, and, you also have the choice to call back and probably be connected to someone else, or call another hotline number. I have found suicide hotlines able to help: come up with coping techniques, support you in talking to someone you know, help you know when to and how to get professional help, and if you have immediate plans to hurt yourself they may ask to send you help (i think most have the power to send professional support, but they seem to always as first, and only do so if you are showing them signs that you may kill yourself in an extremely immediate sense). I have known suicide hotlines to even pay for and call a cab so that someone who needed to could get to the hospital. If you don't know what to do, they can be an amazing help. I keep three hotline numbers in my phone and advise anyone going through a rough time to keep a hotline or two in their phone and wallet - even if you don't use them, at least you have the choice.
Zozzie
May 28th, 2015 6:39pm
Much like on 7 cups, you will be answered by a trained listener who is there for the caller to talk to, and will take necessary action, whether that be just listening, reassuring, or giving requested assistance. The caller determines the response given by the hotline.
Ekittykat
September 29th, 2014 12:10pm
When someone calls a suicide hotline or a distress centre and they say they are suicidal they get assessed for the risk at the present moment. If they are currently suicidal, there may have to be an intervention from the police to keep that person safe. If they person is not in any current danger to themselves or others, but the person has thought of suicide, a plan will be made and resources (such as family, hospital, 911, hotlines, etc) will be acknowledged in order for the person to be able to contact in the case that they feel suicidal later on.
insightfulTruth93
November 21st, 2015 5:48pm
Depending on the suicide hotline, your call may be routed to a central location or, as in the case of the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, your call may be answered by the center closest to you. When you call, you'll typically hear a message confirming the number you have reached and then on-hold music until someone can answer your call. WA friendly voice told me their name and asked me how I was doing. I wasn’t pressed for any private, identifying details. The phone counselor simply let me talk. I told her I wasn’t suicidal, but I was depressed and was curious what type of support they offered. I have never needed a hotline because of my excellent support network, so I wasn't sure what to say. However, taking the step to reach out to somebody has always improved my mood, so I told the phone counselor that I felt better and hung up. The SPRC didn’t call back. There was no rescue unit outside my door. I simply had a very nice conversation with a supportive phone counselor who was there to help me if I needed it. If I had been suicidal as I have experienced from time to time in the past, I can imagine that having a sincere person to talk to at four in the morning would be a very valuable asset. My support network isn't nocturnal as I am..so. there
Anonymous
September 9th, 2015 11:16am
You can call the suicide hotline for three different things: 1. If you're thinking about suicide 2. If a friend you have is thinking of suicide or is depressed and you want to support them, and 3. If you're in emotional distress. You might have to wait a minute or two on hold, but soon you will connect with someone and you'll be able to talk to them about whatever you're going through. The one's working at the suicide hotline are very supportive and helpful, and will talk to you until you're feeling a little bit better. :)
Anonymous
September 13th, 2015 9:21pm
When I called I was put on hold for maybe 30-45 seconds while they routed my call to the nearest hotline center. I waited a little and a woman began talking to me calmly and soothingly. I spoke to her for about a half hour and then hung up and felt much better. I haven't called in over a year now and I'm genuinely okay.
Anonymous
October 29th, 2015 12:36pm
Depending on the suicide hotline, your call may be routed to a central location or, as in the case of the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, your call may be answered by the center closest to you. When you call, you'll typically hear a message confirming the number you have reached and then on-hold music until someone can answer your call. Once your call is answered, a caring and trained person will listen to you, learn about your situation, ask questions and will then generally tell you about mental health services in your area. Services in your area can range from a mobile response team to a suicide prevention center staffed with counselors where you can be accommodated overnight.
Frankie
December 12th, 2015 11:57am
When you call a hotline usually you first talk to a switch board, who will then put you through to someone who can help you. Who you're then put through to will be non-judgemental and will let you talk about how you're feeling. Calling is not something to be afraid of, if they didn't care or want to help you, they wouldn't answer the phone.
Anonymous
November 11th, 2014 6:47pm
Sometimes it is really hard to get connected on the hotline, but the operators you meet are very kind. They really want to assist you in whatever you are going through.
Anonymous
September 16th, 2015 6:08pm
Much like what happens here - someone will listen to you while your identity remains anonymous. If, however, a caller is threatening suicide in that very instance, suggests that self-harm is imminent and has at hand the means to do so, then in most states the law mandates that emergency services be sent to help the individual. This should not dissuade anyone from calling. If indeed someone is suicidal, in any way, shape, or form, calling a suicide hotline could be the best thing for such an individual. Never hesitate to let someone you trust know when you are feeling suicidal - if such a person isn't available, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) to be connected to a crisis line in your area. Be well.
Anonymous
September 27th, 2015 1:42am
When someone calls a suicide hotline they get the help they need, if that means getting someone to come help you or if that means they can talk to you and trust that you will be safe. They will help you to the best of their ability's.
Kindness101
April 16th, 2015 12:18pm
Means that they are searching for help for the suicide thoughts that they are having. it is the first step.
Egaeus
October 24th, 2015 1:24am
They are heard. When someone calls a suicide hotline, on the other side there's someone who cares and tries to make the best of a situation. We all deserve to be heard and the people on the other side of the receiver are the ones who listen.
Anonymous
December 6th, 2015 12:09am
It's better to call them crisis hotilnes, because you don't have to be suicidal to use their services. If you are lonely or struggling with depression, you can generally get support for those issues as well. Some operators are instructed to ask everyone who calls if they are feeling suicidal and they have means and a plan to carry out the thoughts. If you have thoughts of harming yourself they will offer you emotional support, if you are in a dangerous situation they will support you and offer to call medical services as well.
Anonymous
November 1st, 2014 4:33pm
You start talking to someone who is specailizated in suicide and they support you and talk with you about it and try to make you feel better :)
Anonymous
November 18th, 2014 4:21pm
They talk with the person to determine the best plan of action. They will help get that person on the line the help they need.
SimonTheGr8
July 10th, 2015 3:11pm
You are connected to someone who cares and will really listen, as we do here at 7 cups!
redapple1107
September 23rd, 2015 12:58pm
There may be a brief hold until you are connected to someone who can assist you. At that time they will ask you a random amount of open ended questions to help you communicate with them more. This allows for the person you are seeking help from to understand what is exactly going on. At that point the person from the hotline will make all possible attempts to help you through effective communication. There could be a possibility where they can contact the authorities if that situation was to rise; but you will be given resources and information toward finding a qualified therapist.
Anonymous
October 25th, 2015 12:45am
They try and get you from a high emotional situation to a lower emotional situation. Usually, it's very helpful.
Itisreal
January 6th, 2016 9:08pm
When you call a suicide hotline you talk to someone who understand that you are in a lot of distress, they dont just tell you to "dont kill yourself", but instead they calm you down and discuss your options with you. Do you need an ambulance? Do you need a doctor to come by your house and talk to you? Either way, unless you hang up on them, they will not leave you until they are sure that you're either getting help, are calm or able to get help yourself.
Santana
January 24th, 2016 7:50pm
When people are in a crisis, where they are considering taking their own lives, it's critical that they reach out to a resource such as a suicide hotline. However, many people are scared of calling a suicide hotline as they aren't sure what will happen if they do call. This fear might keep some people away. Understanding what happens when you call a suicide hotline can help ease your worries and make reaching out to one easier.
Wilburt
October 31st, 2014 4:19am
The call operator will provide mental health first aid and help the suicidal person express themselves. If the person would like help and is not actively self-harming the operator can provide formation and support for suicidality management. If the person is actively self-harming or attempting suicide the operator can encourage/ suggest emergency services input. Hopefully the person in crisis will be in a place to accept help.
NamelessKnight
September 10th, 2015 1:39pm
Someone that is professionally there to help you will pick up and will guide you through some simple steps in order for them to be able to help you and you will be talked to. Please note that this varies among every national and regional hotline.
Anonymous
September 17th, 2015 1:55pm
we try our best to make them comfortable enough to hang up dial 9 1 1. this is a serious topic in we are not trained to discuss with the person
aliamarietalia
January 13th, 2016 3:50pm
From healthy place.com: Depending on the suicide hotline, your call may be routed to a central location or, as in the case of the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, your call may be answered by the center closest to you. When you call, you'll typically hear a message confirming the number you have reached and then on-hold music until someone can answer your call. Someone who is trained to listen will then pick up and talk to you.
MrShyListener
January 22nd, 2016 3:55am
They are connected with a call line helper who is trained to talk to people in crisis. They will listen to you and be supportive. During the call they will aim to help you improve your state of mind to a place where you are no longer in crisis, or are dealing with your crisis. They do not judge and they serve only in your best interests.
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littlebearfi
September 11th, 2017 11:12pm
They will talk to you for a while, make sure you are okay, talk you through the moment then, in the end, ask for you to get help. No police will be called, and conversations stay only between the caller and the hotline.
carolina555
August 9th, 2016 9:43am
When someone dials a suicide hotline,they are met by a compassionate and professional volunteer who will answer their call and support them for as long as needed.The caller may be asked questions about their mental health,given advice on how to control their thoughts or be asked to contact an ambulance. Suicide hotlines are a non-judgemental place where you can open up to somebody who has all the right resources to care and support you,
Anonymous
May 24th, 2016 1:15pm
He gets help :) Someone willl talk to him and so he is able to reduce his stress and his dispair. This hotlines are existing to help people, not to harm them
Anonymous
April 5th, 2016 3:00pm
The suicide hotline is similar to 7cups in that they offer support and encouragement. They are more specifically trained to handle suicide though.
StarryLove
February 23rd, 2016 9:42am
Their concern would be processed immediately by the counseling volunteers over the phone , and hopefully to talk things out before that certain someone do a rash thing,
Anonymous
February 12th, 2016 7:56am
The person on the line will check if the person is in danger or not, and ask about how the person is feeling. What can the person do for the caller, give positive feedbacks always and see what are the ways the listener can help very much like 7 cups of tea but we can't give personal opinions but this time round we listen to the voice physically.
fancifulPiano97
February 10th, 2016 2:04am
They are suppose to help you and make your life a lot easier than before and support you through it.
bubblingGrace29
February 6th, 2016 4:06pm
I have never called one, but I know that they try to help you and I'm assuming that they would call the police if they needed to to makes sure that you are ok.
Anonymous
February 5th, 2016 3:33pm
Once your call is answered, a caring and trained person will listen to you, learn about your situation, ask you some questions and will then generally tell you about some mental health services in your area. The goal of a suicide hotline is to help you with your personal crisis, each call is different.
CGiggles
February 2nd, 2016 10:54pm
When someone calls a suicide hotline you are reached with a local resource center and talk to a trained specialist. They will help you to find ways to stay calm and offer services in your area for further help.
CarmelBaby
January 31st, 2016 10:18pm
When someone is in crisis of need they call suicide hotline.suivide hotline help people when they like their going to hurt (self harm) their selfs and they will talk to you and guide you.Also help you feel better ☺️😌
srgtdonut
January 30th, 2016 2:25am
They will talk to you and try to give you hints on ways to feel better and will tell you its not worth it. it's never worth it.
owenlang
January 28th, 2016 1:53pm
The hotline will have a listener to help you deal with the problems you may be facing and also may help you get back on track again. They will talk with you about how you're feeling and what your main struggles are.
Anonymous
January 28th, 2016 6:16am
When somebody calls a suicide hotline they are generally directed to a live person who asks them if they are in need of immediate help or just need someone to talk to. The operator will direct them to other hotlines after this.
Anonymous
January 28th, 2016 4:06am
When a suicide hotline is called, the operator does the same that everyone here does. They talk to you and listen. try to understand your situation and give you better and more healthy suggestions on what you should do.
SilentSerenityy
January 27th, 2016 1:04pm
I've never rang one but you get connected with a professional who can talk to you about how you're feeling and hopefully persuade you not to commit suicide. Many people benefit from ringing them.
Anonymous
January 21st, 2016 2:39pm
When somebody calls a suicide hotline, they wait for a short period, before being connected with a highly trained crisis specialist.
ughhitshaley
January 21st, 2016 8:09am
Depending on the suicide hotline, your call may be routed to a central location or, as in the case of the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, your call may be answered by the center closest to you. When you call, you'll typically hear a message confirming the number you have reached and then on-hold music until someone can answer your call.
kindDreamer93
January 10th, 2016 2:01pm
A suicidal hotline should maintain your confidentiality unless they think you may be at risk or harm to yourself or others as they can break confidentiality to help you, a suicidal hotline will put you onto a listiner that will try and help you through what you're feeling.
Anonymous
January 10th, 2016 2:36am
The person talks to you and helps you with your problems. They try to show you many reasons to live, and why it's okay to feel sad, but it's only temporary
Kelleyd83
January 9th, 2016 10:07pm
First they find out your area code in case it's an emergency situation and they have to call an ambulance. Then you talk to a very nice, very understanding and empathetic professional who cares deeply for your well-being and safety. They ask if you have a plan or if you've ever tried in the past to get some information. Then you talk to them about how you're feeling and try to resolve the issue so you don't have to go to the hospital. But if you don't feel safe, they'll call an ambulance, or a cab, or get you to the nearest hospital to talk to a crisis team.
Anonymous
January 8th, 2016 4:58pm
I have no clue to be honest.i never had to sue one, since I have managed to deal with all my problems by myself.
Anonymous
January 8th, 2016 3:12pm
Basically what happens is you will be connected to people who are more than willing to help you and talk you out of the suicidal thoughts. If you are feeling suicidal they might ask if you want them to call the police. If you hang up and they believe that you are going to commit suicide then they have the right to contact the police.
Zer0Carter
January 8th, 2016 1:07am
A trained person will answer the phone and talk to you, and after you talk about your situation, they'll refer you to mental help services in your area.
Reid3020
January 6th, 2016 10:21pm
As far as I'm aware the operator will try and talk you through what you're going through, and why you are feeling that way. But as far as I'm aware they aren't responsible for telling you what you can and cannot do - that is down to you at the end of the day. Sometimes they may send medical assistance to you if you give your address ect.
TheDeadlyCake
January 6th, 2016 7:59am
The operator asses the current risk to the caller and takes any appropriate action to ensure their safety. They listen and they help connect the caller to the support they need.
kaitykait
January 6th, 2016 4:09am
If you call a suicide hotline, you will be able to talk to a professional who can talk you through your thoughts. They will not call your parents or anything, it's a total anonymous thing.
igetcha
January 6th, 2016 3:10am
I have a friend who works at 1. They listen without judging and help the person talk through why they're feeling that way & ask if there's anything they can do to help. They help the person find reasons they want to live & they genuinely try to do anything they can to make the person's situation better by offering various resources. They don't alert the police unless the person says they're gonna do something right then & they can't talk them down.
fernyy3
January 3rd, 2016 6:05pm
When you cal a suicide hotline you will be directed to someone who will ask you for your name and address. That is just to keep track just in case you call again and they can pull up what you talked to them in a previous call to help you the best they can. They will talk with you through your emotions.
Pat
January 2nd, 2016 9:56pm
When someone calls a suicide hotline, the hotline employee will assess the caller to ensure that they are safe. If they are safe, they may provide some telephone counseling in order to better assist them with what the caller is going through. If the caller is not safe at that time, the employee will most likely try to take measures to ensure their safety and well-being. This can include an onsite visitation from a hotline representative or it can involve emergency services. They do what must be done to care for you. Every hotline is different though.