What's the best way to get over someone calling you nasty names?

It's relevant to know that any arguement or fight does not give any man or women a free pass to endorse in name-calling against their significant other. You may feel obliged to defend their actions that indicate any sort of verbal abuse because you are in love with them and feel this is normal in a relationship if you have not experienced one before or feel the need to give their behaviour as bad as it is the benefit of the doubt. Please take a moment to reflect whether or not you feel safe with them - abusive relationships are not always about physical violence but can be about control do. Do consider whether you have sacrificed things that make you happy , hence is the love conditional on your significant others part ? Any form of verbal abuse should be responded in a diplomatic way by letting the person know you did not appreciate what they said to let them know what your boundaries are clearly. The effects domestic violence can have on children can affect their self-esteem and make them feel that the abusive behaviour between their parents is justifiable and normal.

When a family member or a friend calls you nasty names it's only natural that it can impact on your self-esteem and mental health. But when a person makes the negative comments it may be a good idea to reflect on the place they were in when they made the comment to avoid any conflict hence it’s important to note that people you love may say things in a fit of impulse. Do reflect on how persistent their negative comments are and whether or not they are done to elicit a reaction out of you or for control over you which can be an emotional characteristic of a relationship involving domestic violence. It may be beneficial to write a blog about how you felt when they made the comment and how you would have liked the person to have shown kindness as well as how you would show kindness towards those making negative comments.

Talk to someone you can confide in, someone who support you and helps you realize that you're not any of those nasty names the person called you. That it says more about the name caller than you.

Just ignore it. If it was a bully they get fueled by seeing your reaction. Don't give that reaction.

well, just believing that whatever they are calling me isn't true, for example if they call me stupid it doesn't mean that i am actually stupid, you gotta know your worth and no matter what don't be effected by what they call you.

People may tell you that the best thing to do in these cases is to ignore them--and for the most part, it is for the best. But if they don't stop despite your attempts to ignore, and it reaches the point of harassment, it's probably for the best to report the matter to your parents, teacher/school counselor/other higher authorities. You do always have the option of confronting your bully and letting them know coolly that you won't take anymore of their taunting, but I understand that it isn't always suitable for all situations. Remember to be brave and believe in yourself, though! People may call you names, try to throw your life into flames, but remember to just breathe and tell yourself that you are WAY more worth than what others deem you to be. Have a great day!

In order to get over what other people say about you, you must start by accepting and loving yourself. If you have this self confidence, their words will not be able to get in your way. I know it is a lot easier said than done, but it is 100% possible.

I think that the best way to get over someone calling you nasty names is to call them something nasty back. It always works then they will stop :)

try your best to brush it off, they have something deeper going on than what they wear as a front and so they take it out on others.

I sometimes would tell the person in charge or my parents but most of the time I just ignored it. It made them think you didn't care.

I suggest telling yourself that what the person is calling you is not true and that is doe not define you!

Remind yourself of all the positives that you know you are, that they're ignoring to hurt you. Also remember that you have to be a really unhappy/jealous person to be nasty to someone. You're always going to be better than them.

you shouldn´t do the same! The best way is to talk somebody who is able to stop that or the simpliest way is to talk with the person alone and ask them why he or she is calling you names. When you are strong enough you can also ignore the shoutings and just be nice to them. They will fell bad and stop everything.

When people call us names, or say hurtful things to us this can be very upsetting. If you are in a position to let the person know that these words are hurtful and to stop, or that just because they say these words doesn't make them true, this could be an empowering step. If you are not in a position to do this, recognising that just because someone says something nasty doesn't mean it is true. Remind yourself of all the wonderful things about you. Spend time with people who care about you, appreciate you and love you.

Do you believe the names they're calling you? My family calls me nasty names all the time and I always have to remind myself that they are not right. If they are then I think about it as an opportunity to grow.

The best way to get over someone calling you a nasty name is to get up every morning look at youself in the mirror and tell yourself your beautiful, strong, and worth it. (Even if you don't believe it right now, you will eventually trick yourself into believing it.)

Ignore them. They are just doing it to make themselves feel better. Laugh along with them and the names they are calling you, and just ignore the actual meaning. You can always ignore something someone says, and just walk away. If it is getting to you, seek help from someone, or even confront the person if it is safe to do so.

First of all you need to let them know that you aren't appreciating the names you're being called. If the bullying continues you need to try and ignore those calling you things. Seeing you sad probably just triggers them in keep pushing and even though it's so wrong that you should be doing the sacrifice of "just taking it" it's normally the most effective way. If you're at school talk to your welfare officer and at work talk to HR

Thinking that they mean nothing on you, and your personality is worth more than a person name calling.

If you are struggling in a situation where someone is calling you nasty, hurtful, or rude names, I believe the best way to cope with it is talking to a close friend. Talking to someone trusted is a great way to get your feelings out, and, believe me, you will feel much better in the long run. After reaching out, you may even feel worse for a bit, but after it will be worth it 100%

Personally I don't think there is really any best way to get over someone calling you nasty names. The only thing that I have found to work is rise above. They want to call you names fine...just as long as you know who you truly are, and what you are made of and what you can become.

By ignoring them and walking away, as soon as they lose pleasure in doing what they do it will usually stop. If this doesn't work however you can always talk to someone about it and see what you can do about it together. A problem shared is a problem halved.

On thing you could do I just remember anyone that does that is trying to get rid of the pain in there lives and just know that you are amazing and that if they call you names or anything then they don't deserve to talk to you :D

I found that finishing college has significantly thinned the herd of people who are able to penetrate my bubble so to speak and actually affect me. But, it has taken a lot of discipline. It still gets to me when someone is being actively hostile, but I've learned to only let a few people who I really respect and admire or who are close like a sibling have the power to affect my emotions like that. I had a roommate who would go on tirades to me all the time, but I didn't respect him and I actively did my best to not get on the defensive and take pride in the fact that I did not participate and give it back. Generally if you have something to lose, don't respond to something that comes from a feeling with a strong feeling.. in my experience that can cause you all kinds of trouble whether that be an email, text, a petty squabble that doesn't need to go that far, etc. Just keep working on the things that you value in a person and try to emulate those things in yourself until eventually it is your default mode. You'll be really happy with yourself when you reach that point; I promise.

if someone is calling you nasty names you should just ignore them like you never care or tell someone

Know your not what they call you and that you are strong and brave instead know they are probably insecure with themselves witch is why they call you names

I think the best thing you can do is to realise that the nasty things aren't true. If you have a good group of friends they will support you and help you through this

Genuinely smile at him or her and say thank you. Eventually the person will feel ashamed of their actions.

If you don"t take that "gift", than that "gift" stays for person who insulted you. Simple as that :)

Always remember that nobody chooses who or what you are, regardless of what names are thrown around.