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Finding comfort through grief using mindfulness

Mindfulness Center / by pamharley003

3 minutes ago

...See more Check In for : December 2nd to December 4th 2024 Last week I had to put our family fur baby of 12 years down because she was having problems walking, her hips were giving out . Some know I own a pit bull named harley davidson, she is our world and it was too much seeing her in pain. Here is the last picture of her waiting at the vet. How do we find comfort through grief: Grief is associated with losing a loved one, relatives, friends and pets. It can also mean losing a job we were doing for years or a long marriage or relationship dating someone. Grief is a mixture of a lot of feelings and emotions. The path of grief is a personal journey we all go through it some hit ourselves more than others, it is how to deal with it, we are all different in handling things. There are times when grief can come back after experiencing it first time around. The following is how to handle grief when we are experiencing it . Common ways grief may show up: Emotional rollercoaster: The range of emotions we face are anger, sadness, guilt, confusion and even relief. No one is the same how we handle these emotions may be different person to person. Physical symptoms: Grief can also effect our physical well being. It can bring fatigue making us want to sleep our worries away. It can also hinder our daily activities to where we do not want to do anything, headaches and stomach aches. Social withdrawal: Grief can make us not want to be around anyone during social functions. It also can make it hard to talk about to others, so we distance ourselves. What are some ways you handle grief? What emotions are you feeling when dealing with it? There are a lot more different ways grief affects us it is how we manage to handle them to feel a little better. ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. @4551SP @adventurousBranch3786 @Admirablerainbow2825 @Agent22 @alexandralee @AllAboutThePeace11 @amiablePeace77@asherb281 @avistaco @CaringSub @CatHanderOutNoah @communicativeJet616 @dapperBeach8823 @daydreammemories @DragonspanAnge @EchoOrAsh @etherealize @Falcon05 @fearlessMaple308 @FloraBelle @ForestZen @frankPark1546 @GentleHealingInitiative @Goldenfox2009 @greenScarf6235 @hardworkingBeechwood6063 @healingsoul4892 @iloveyouxx @indigoBeechwood597 @infiniteforever12 @InsightfulPhoenix @Invisibility101 @JarofSeeds627 @jaywalkk @Kickan75 @kindRiver6 @kivesh @Littlejoy11 @livinggadget @mytwistedsoul @nessapressure05 @NurseJose @NotAllHere713 @onwardforevenmore @pamharley003 @PeacefulBeach3454 @peacefulDovex @PopPunkPrincess17 @Rainboho @rebeccastgo @sincereGrapefruit83 @sky2Ocean20 @Snowy00 @spongbobishappy @sunshineBeauty5741 @Swordpsalm @tallZebra8032 @Tinywhisper11 @toughApricot223 @warmMemory6263 @VKlistening @yellowPineapple3652 @yzzil @Zeraphim

overthinking

Anxiety Support / by independentSailboat3979

8 minutes ago

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General Support / by Heather225

9 minutes ago

Celebrate the Holidays!

7 Cups Online Therapy / by soulsings

11 minutes ago

...See more Hello everyone! Do you celebrate the holidays? If so, you are in the right thread to talk about it! * What decorations do you do for Christmas or the holidays such as outside of your house? * What is your favorite food that you like to eat? * If you could go anywhere during Christmas vacation, where would you go? * What is Christmas like in your hometown? * What do you want Santa to bring you for Christmas or the holidays? Taglist Updated 12/2/24 @3timesLeo @4Jasmine @Admirablerainbow2825 @adventureawaits777 @adventurousBranch3786 @AlexMbale @allen99 @allnaturalWillow7138 @alysianna @ambitiousGlobe3422 @ambitioushope1234 @amiablePeace77 @Ashy123 @augustine1304 @balderasdavid799 @BeamsOfHope00 @Beepyy @bence2 @bestThinker1986 @BipolarBear1983 @BlackyDragon @blissedNblessed @bluelemon6419 @bobw @bouncyFireworks3811 @blueAcai236 @Brittanny17 @brightOcean1599 @candybubblegumsprinkles @calmcoral @CaringSub @CatHanderOutNoah @Catunion @charmaeausty @charliebee1121 @ComfortablePeace2121 @courageousPomegranate766 @courteousKite6821 @creativeCar5713 @creatingHealthyOutcome @crimsonPapaya @crystalclearnow @cyanVase4070 @CyclingThroughLife @daydreammemories @deborahdebbie @dlynn88911221 @Desmynn6789 @dysfunctionjunction1224 @Echoheart7236 @EllyMerelyn @emotionalPenguin4374 @empathicPresence9091 @EmpoweringSam @endure777 @energeticThinker6924 @enthusiasticAcai2032 @enthusiasticBeach8170 @enthusiasticTortoise6681 @exuberantStrawberries9544 @FaithMagic @fearlessCup8704 @FleurdeNeige @FlowerEV777 @FracturedPurple @Fradiga @fruityPond7887 @Genlistener @geribear @Gettingbettertoday @Ghasaq997 @GlitteryHearts @glowingPresence86 @energeticThinker6924@GoldenNest2727 @GothamRam @gregariousField7151 @gva1audi @happyness @hardworkingBeechwood6063 @heartstopper13 @helloPineapple2451 @helpfulDime0407 @Henry2000 @Hereforyouall144 @hopefaith2011 @imaginativepear6493 @ingeniousLove9924 @intuitivepixie1331 @Itzcharlotteg @JanMad87 @Jordan1872 @k87 @Kenn13chan @kindcircle3085 @kateeew @Kaydeee @kindRiver6 @Kristian1 @kristynsmama @Lauren63 @Leahm9703 @LillyPad12345 @LisaMeighanMBPsS @lovelycoacoa @magneticDreamer6447 @mariah2009 @Marita7391 @meaningfulSilence @meeeeee @mia4819 @Mich765 @mindtalk @miraculousTouch2949 @miresama @modestTangerine2193 @MoonMomm @MoreThanJustMe @Mscooper2789 @myloveee3 @mytwistedsoul @navyAcres6073 @nessa104 @NotAllHere713 @oa4me @Oceansky93 @OneErased @onkia122 @orangypie @paperBird3348 @patientwater @peacefulRainbow05 @peachyOctopus9691 @PhilosophicalModel @PiecesOfWhoeverIWas @PinkTriangle133 @pioneeringHuman7775 @politeGrapefruit179 @pompom @PurpleHearts7 @purpletree4652 @Pvoigt @Qoqnus @QueerChaos259 @rachelkb123 @raddogme @Rainboho @Randumuser1 @redirecting @reguna reservedOwl6476@fighton @reservedPark4029 @resilience2025 @Rod88 @RogueOne1983 @sandie @Scarletpear1945 @ShapeshiftSystem @SilverSeastar @SleepingFoxAkari @slothgurl17 @SnaryPoppins07 @soulsings @SparklyFly @sorrowedbunny1256 @SpongeBob2021 @Squidward @StarryCandy6123 @stephbrent @SugareeIsMe091121 @summerkay2024 @tallWalker4850 @ThadSterling @theroadisbright @thesoda @thoughtsbubbleexpress @ThoughtfulMomma @tifecandy @tinywhisper11 @tiredbubble00 @tjitalia @toughLand5970 @txrmentedSxul @UniversalSmile @warmheart0890 @WentToBruv @waves @WorriedMagpie @WorkingitThrough2 @YellowTiger5674 @yzzil @zeffa @Zeraphim @Zsazsa524

Why??

Eating Disorder Support / by discreetPomegranate1970

13 minutes ago

It feels too late to have meaningful romantic relationships.

General Support / by UnsungTangerine

14 minutes ago

Am I so unimportant?

Around the World / by Ilikenature08

51 minutes ago

...See more Hi, I just wanted to open up here again and tell you how I feel since I don't have the friends to go up to and day "Hey can we talk? I'm not feeling so well, " so I wanted to seek comfort and advice here where I don't have the fear of people criticizing me. So I just really have the feeling I'm the most unimportant person for everyone in my life. I only have 2 "good" friends at the moment. I have known one of them for 3 years and the other somewhat closer for 1, but we only have been like a trio for half a year now, maybe or a bit less. I always see them getting tausend of texts from friends,their bf, and so on. There is always somebody who messages them, and they always have a notification on their phon. I don't get any of that for days. Not even from them. It just makes me wonder if I'm that unimportant. If I text them something, it takes up to hours until they answer me. But they are online and on some days when, for example, my friend shows me a message from my other friend. I notice "Oh she replied at that time of hour to you. I texted her a half-hour before you, and she answered me 3 hours later." And that's what makes me upset. While I try to get closer to them with texting stuff like "How are you doing?" If they're sick or just random texts of what I'm doing or asking what they're doing rn on weekends. I NEVER get a text like that from them. Only if in school they noticed I was upset once in a lifetime they ask what happened later that day. But nothing else. Not even a simple "Hey, how are you?" I mean, I understand that sometimes you don't have the time, but I always think about it like this: No person in the world, not even the busiest person, does something every minute for 24h. You always have situations where you don't do something even if it's just for a few minutes. And if you don't have the time for a whole "normal" day I'll say to reply to someone it's not because you don't have time it's because you don't want to or are to lazy to. Ofc their are different situations where this mindset isn't so accurate, but I know my friends. They text their bf in school even tho whe aren't allowed to take out our phones the whole day. Tuesdays & Thursdays, we have a long lunch break from 2-3 hours where they have so much time and do nothing. One of them can send me 10 tiktoks at 12pm and the other stays up often at night to play video games. Do you get it now? They ignore my text for hours, but their bf get a evry hour update from them. They text each other randomly. "Hey wanna hang out." "Hay, are you ok?" "Hey what are you up to?" and so on, but I never get a text from them. I ALWAYS have to text first. If I don't, they wouldn't even bother to talk to me outside of school. And I feel so stupid, especially when I texted them and been waiting for 2h maybe for them to reply, and in those hours, they sent me 5 tiktoks but don't answer my message. And that's when I really ask myself if I'm really that unimportant? But ofc they say stuff like that they care and I' important to them but they barely show it except sometimes in school. And the worst thing is that they are my only friends. I don't have anyone else, but they do. 100 of people who text them first thing in the morning party paragraphs even. I'm practically obligated to them. And you know it's bad when I check my phone every hour, at least if somebody texts me even tho I know that my phone will ring if I get a notification. But I still check in the hope that I maybe didn't gear it or it didn't ring, and they do text me just wanting to talk with me. And I hate it so much. They can text everyone and give them 10 answers to their 10 questions immediately but can't even respond to my one question? And then they tell me I should change my way of thinking and that they try to include me and be a "good" friend. But it doesn't show? Maybe from small action IN school. But mostly not even that. But as soon as we leave school, I am just some kind of piece of garbage you forget in the corner of your room. Yk? I'm just so tired of not receiving what I also give and feeling like I'm 100% not worshiped by anyone. Does anyone have an idea what I should do?

Lonelyness

Eating Disorder Support / by discreetPomegranate1970

54 minutes ago

mindfulness & change

Mindfulness Center / by Kait

55 minutes ago

Tulip Awardees November 2024

Positivity & Gratitude / by Hope

57 minutes ago

Sockie land 🧦 (don’t make the socks angry by peeking 😁)

Pen Pals / by SparklingLuna

58 minutes ago

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